{"id":6748,"date":"2024-10-25T06:00:06","date_gmt":"2024-10-25T05:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.theenglishmansion.com\/blog\/?p=6748"},"modified":"2025-10-22T19:38:25","modified_gmt":"2025-10-22T18:38:25","slug":"chastity-devices-erotic-sexual-denial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theenglishmansion.com\/blog\/chastity-devices-erotic-sexual-denial\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Reasons Why Men Should be Kept in Chastity"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"Mistress T<\/strong> the Queen of Tease and Denial from Fucked In Chastity <\/strong>now showing<\/h3>\n

6 Reasons Why
\nMen Should be Kept in Chastity<\/strong><\/span>
\n or The Pleasures of Erotic Sexual Denial
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So what is Chastity play? <\/strong>It’s where a boytoy\/sub\/slave is prevented from touching their genitals, masturbating or orgasming, save at the whim or choice of their domme\/partner. Usually achieved by means of a metal or plastic cage-like device that is locked around their cock. However, it can also be a verbal agreement, ‘a chastity promise’ often called The Honour System. Chastity can be a temporary state for a few hours or days; or can be a lifestyle where chastity is maintained over extended periods.\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n

1. Fidelity From Afar<\/strong><\/span>
\n\"\"Chastity devices were originally designed to keep the wearer faithful. Thus having his crown jewels locked away – so he can’t play away – is totally reassuring as it ensures his complete fidelity. In this way chastity devices also help deal with habitual cock wankers ensuring they aren’t off self-pleasuring themselves. Masturbation drains their desire of you and therefore should be controlled, monitored, curtailed or stopped entirely. Any infraction, i.e. removal of the chastity device should meet with a severe punishment.<\/span><\/h3>\n

2. Focus<\/strong><\/span>
\n\"\"This effect and benefit is what I call ‘focus’, by keeping him in chastity, even when you are physically sexually engaged with him, forces him to focus on you and your pleasure. He should be giving you orgasms, and lots of them! If you don’t allow him to cum or even have that as an option, he has to be immersed in your pleasure; your pleasure becomes his pleasure. We all know the effect that cumming can have on a man – his small brain flips to food and football! So just don’t let him cum. Motivate him with what we employ at The English Mansion\u00a0 – the 50 equals 1 rule<\/strong> (that a slave must give me 50 orgasms to earn just one for himself)<\/em>.<\/span><\/h3>\n

3. Sexual Reprogramming<\/strong><\/span>
\n\"\"This leads to another use – controlling his sexual desires. His chastity device should ensure that he can’t even get an erection (not without a lot of pain \ud83d\ude09 ) So, as soon as the device comes off he’s hard and hot for you. Keeping him always desperate, ready for sex, pliable and agreeable. Now is the time to steer him towards what you want sexually. His simple male brain can now be reprogrammed and his desires corrected\u00a0 e.g. only allowing him to get hard and\/or cum while being fucked with a strapon or when licking your pussy \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/h3>\n

4. It’s Hot! Teasing & Total Denial
\n<\/strong><\/span>\"\"Teasing him in chastity i.e. keeping him in a heightened state of sexual arousal for a long time and then denying him an orgasm, as a woman can be so hot. Keeping him in a weakened state begging for release – pathetic, pliable & attentive. Knowing you have total control over him and you can use his sexual arousal against him to your advantage – the perfect male manipulation material. Never let him assume he will get an orgasm when engaged sexually with you, it should be at your whim or earned; and preferable after a very long period of abstinence.<\/span><\/h3>\n

5. Ownership<\/strong><\/span>
\n\"\"Putting your slave into an obligatory chastity device can symbolise ownership, like a collar or a body marking. Dommes often keep the key on their person as the ‘key holder’, sometimes on a chain around their necks. While the locked sub is reminded constantly of your control from afar – that you own him, his cock… and rule his desires.<\/span><\/h3>\n

6. Feminisation & Emasulation
\n<\/strong><\/span>\"\"Chastity devices can also be useful for compulsory<\/span> male to female transformations. Locking away his male genitalia permanently will help emasculate him. <\/span>Dominas may choose to keep certain submissives permanently locked, denying them any release. This may stem from their inadequate cocks, a desire to cuckold them, or to keep them pussy-free, eternally deprived of sexual pleasure as Sissies or BAVs. Chastity serves to emasculate these male submissives, stripping their cocks of function and penetrative ability, rendering them impotent. This is often a deliberate part of their re-education, ensuring they learn their place as mere asexual objects existing solely for our pleasure, service and control. <\/span>There are some gorgeous ‘pussy’ chastity devices that will look super cute. Or the more extreme, padlocked genital piercings, i.e. a PA or 2x foreskin piercings locked to a guiche ring in the perineum. This also has the benefit of pulling the cock back between the legs, to lock it up, thus refining his figure and getting rid of this ugly unfeminine disfigurement.<\/span><\/h3>\n

Now with so many good reasons – let’s get those bad boys locked up. It’s for their own good!<\/span><\/h3>\n

Chastity Femdom Films <\/strong>Now Showing
\n<\/strong>We adore Chastity play here at The English Mansion and have loads of films focusing on erotic sexual denial, here are just a few:
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