6 Reasons Why Men Should be Kept in Chastity

Mistress T the Queen of Tease and Denial from Fucked In Chastity now showing

6 Reasons Why
Men Should be Kept in Chastity

or The Pleasures of Erotic Sexual Denial

So what is Chastity play? It’s where a boytoy/sub/slave is prevented from touching their genitals, masturbating or orgasming, save at the whim or choice of their domme/partner. Usually achieved by means of a metal/plastic cage-like device that is locked around/over their cock. However, it can also be a verbal agreement. This chastity can be a temporary state for a few hours or days; or can be lifestyle where chastity is maintained over extended periods. 

1. Fidelity From Afar
Chastity devices were originally designed to keep the wearer faithful. Thus having his crown jewels locked away – so he can’t play away – is totally reassuring as it ensures his complete fidelity. In this way chastity devices also help deal with habitual cock wankers ensuring they aren’t off self-pleasuring themselves. Masturbation drains their desire of you and therefore should be controlled, monitored or stopped entirely.

2. Focus
Another effect is what I call ‘focus’ by keeping him in chastity, even when you are actually sexually engaged with him, forces him to focus on you and your pleasure. He should be giving you orgasms, and lots of them! If you don’t allow him to cum or even have that as an option, he has to concentrate on you; your pleasure becomes his pleasure. We all know the effect that cumming can have on a man – his small brain flips to food and football! So just don’t let him cum. Motivate him with what we employ at The English Mansion  – the 50 equals 1 rule (that a slave must give me 50 orgasms to earn just one for himself).

3. Sexual Reprogramming
This leads to another use – controlling his sexual desires. His chastity device should ensure that he can’t even get an erection (not without a lot of pain 😉 ) So, as soon as the device comes off he’s hard and hot for you. Keeping him always desperate, ready for sex, pliable and agreeable. Now is the time to steer him towards what you want sexually. His simple male brain can now be reprogrammed and his desires corrected  e.g. only allowing him to get hard and/or cum while being fucked with a strapon or when licking your pussy 🙂

4. It’s Hot! Teasing & Total Denial
Teasing him in chastity i.e. keeping him in a heightened state of sexual arousal for a long time and then denying him an orgasm, as a woman can be so hot. Keeping him in a weakened state begging for release – pathetic, pliable & attentive. Knowing you have total control over him and you can use his sexual arousal against him to your advantage – the perfect male manipulation material. Never let him assume he will get an orgasm when engaged sexually with you, it should be at your whim or earned; and preferable after a very long period of abstinence.

5. Ownership
Putting your slave into an obligatory chastity device can symbolise ownership, like a collar or a body marking. Dommes often keep the key on their person as the ‘key holder’, sometimes on a chain around their necks. While the locked sub is reminded constantly of your control from afar – that you own him, his cock… and rule his desires.

6. Feminisation
Chastity devices can also be useful for compulsory male to female transformations. Locking away his male genitalia permanently will help emasculate him. There are gorgeous ‘pussy’ chastity devices that will look super cute. Or the more extreme, padlocked genital piercings, i.e. a PA or 2x foreskin piercings locked to a guiche ring in the perineum. This also has the benefit of pulling the cock back between the legs, to lock it up, thus refining his figure and getting rid of this ugly unfeminine disfigurement.

Now with so many good reasons – let’s get those bad boys locked up. It’s for their own good!

Chastity Femdom Films Now Showing
We adore Chastity play here at The English Mansion and have loads of films focusing on erotic sexual denial, here are just a few:

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An Unexpected ‘Business’ Meeting

Photo from: Situation Vacant with Mistress Sidonia & Snow

An Unexpected ‘Business’ Meeting

Michael strode along the street in the commercial district of the town, his three-piece pinstripe suit somewhat incongruous on a Saturday. He had been told his role was to dress in his business attire, which he had brought with him, and then to walk in the business area, as if he was on his way to work or a meeting. He walked with that business like air which a suit bestows, enjoying the fresh October morning sunshine. His mind, however, was frantically trying to conjure what scenario he could possibly be part of.

The hum of passing traffic, of which he was largely oblivious, was broken suddenly by screech of brakes as a black BMW suddenly pulled into the kerb beside him. The windows were darkly tinted. He glanced over as the rear door opened. In one graceful sweep Mistress Vivienne emerged. He froze, taking in her black leather boots and her brazen leather underwear. She wore an army type leather jacket and a visored leather army cap studded with spikes. The rear door on the other side opened and Mistress Sidonia stepped out, similarly attired. He stood, mouth agape, as both approached him in confident, daring strides. It was as if they were giving the proverbial finger to the world around them. Around him he could sense the shock and surprise of his fellow pedestrians. Time seemed to still stand still. It was as if a fissure had opened in time and space and they had emerged from another dimension.

His thoughts were jolted as he felt them take his arms. “Ripe for the picking, wouldn’t you agree, Mistress,” said Mistress Sidonia. “Absolutely,” agree Mistress Vivienne. “Get into the car you fucking pig,” barked Mistress Sidonia as they pushed him towards the open door. He bent and they shoved him in. Mistress Sidonia returned to her side. He sat in the middle dazed. Mistress Vivienne stepped into the open door but, before getting back in, she turned to the stunned onlookers. “Nothing to see here folks,” she cackled, “just an ordinary Saturday morning napping.”

With that she sat back in, sandwiching Michael between both. He tried to catch his breath – the suddenness of his abduction had winded him, and now he sat helpless between both Mistresses.
“Well, well, well, not too bad for a bit of Saturday morning fishing. What do you think, Mistress,” said Vivienne. “Yes, it will have to do Mistress,” agreed Mistress Sidonia. “I suppose some use can be found for it.”
“Mistresses’”……began Michael. “Who gave you permission to speak,” interjected Mistress Sidonia. “You will speak only when spoken to, slave.”
“Were you one the way to a meeting,” Mistress Vivienne asked. “Yes,” answered Michael, his tone meek. “Hmmm, you had no bag, you were travelling light,” observed Mistress Sidonia.

With that Mistress Vivienne reached her hand down between his legs and clamped her hand over his crotch area. “Well not that light, Mistress,” she said. “He is carrying it all down here.”
Michael grimaced as she tightened her grip and then her hand went exploring more until she got hold of his balls and squeezed them brusquely.
“Now what kind of a business meeting were you going to with this load,” asked Mistress Vivienne. “Were you going to unload these all over a spreadsheet.”
“Well, Mistress….”.
“Oh, do shut up,” shot in Mistress Sidonia.
“You know Mistress I really think we need to put this business portfolio to some constructive use,” proposed Mistress Vivienne.
“Yes, Mistress, I agree. It would be a shame to waste such a package.”
“Any ideas, Mistress,” asked Mistress Vivienne.
“Well, it may seem a bit counter intuitive, but it is Saturday and there is a notorious dogging site down at a certain point on the river. It goes all day apparently. Suppose our little catch carries out a few transactions for us down there. That would be a fitting business meeting for him, I think. That suit is bound to tickle the fancy of some of those filthy doggers.”
“Oh, that does sound splendid, Mistress.

Mistress Vivienne led Michael into a copse of bushes. Behind them Mistress Sidonia was talking to a guy with a baseball cap who had appeared some minutes after they appeared. “Over here,” instructed Mistress Vivienne. He stood where she told him. A minute later the baseball hat guy appeared with Mistress Sidonia by his side. “Slave take down you pants and show our friend here the product,” she ordered. He undid his pinstripe trousers, and it fell loosely around his legs. Then he pushed down his y-front. His cock stood semi-erect, his earlier proximity to the Mistresses exciting and energising it despite his predicament. Baseball hat guy’s enthusiasm was palpable to the point of being uncouth as he pushed down his tracksuit bottoms, releasing his large erect dick.

“This deal is going down,” said Mistress Sidonia as she led baseball hat to a position in front of him. She turned to face him. “Get on your knees you bitch and suck him.” He dropped to his knees, the cock in front of him dominating his line of vision and his mind. Mistress Sidonia placed her hands on his head as Mistress Vivienne took hold of the guy’s cock and dangled it in front of him. “The Board of Directors would love this little presentation,” she said laughing. With that Mistress Sidonia pushed his head forward, his nose brushing against the cock head, his whole body tingling as if from a mild electric shock with the first physical contact. Then he was working up and down the shaft. And then the cock was in his mouth, and he started sucking it as if his life depended on it. Mistress Sidonia told him to deep throat it, to see how much he could take. They made him gag on it, their laughter ringing around his head. And then the warm spunk erupted on his nose, his cheeks, inscribing its signature across his face. And then he was cleaning it, his tongue working fastidiously under their orders to capture every and any little drop.

Job done he sat back on his haunches, gathering himself. Baseball hat guy pulled his tracksuit bottoms back up, apparently sated. There was a movement in the bush to the left. Mistress Sidonia turned and went to investigate. The guy thanked Mistress Vivienne and departed. Mistress Sidonia returned. Behind him he could make out the outline of another man, this guy apparently kitted out for a run. “We have another interested party a jogger dogger, who takes a very broad view of physical exercise,” said Mistress Sidonia. “Guess what, he wants to suck you, you lucky dog.”

by slave p

featuring Mistress Vivienne

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Barbwire Kiss – BDSM Top Ten Music Chart

Welcome to The English Mansion’s
Barbwire Kiss – BDSM Top Ten Music Chart
Our musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky

This was a hard chart to collate, there are very few tracks exclusively about BDSM. There’s lots of tracks using BDSM themes figuratively, like Britney Spears’ I’m A Slave For U, but these don’t fit the criterior. While Madge, the original bad girl has two tracks included, the undoubted queen of kinky & erotic music, I could have had even more – a legend and true disruptor.

Intersingly, it’s easy to find comedy or parody songs. I even included one on the contenders list, Submissive & Breedable. (Oh and finally Night Club make it into my charts, one of my favourite bands.) 

Barbwire Kiss – BDSM Top Ten
1  Blood In The Cut K.Flay (2016) Play Video
2   SIMP
Full Tac, Rico Nasty & Lil Mariko (2021) Play Video
3   Sucker For Pain
Lil Wayne, Wiz Khalifa & Imagine Dragons w/ Logic & Ty Dolla $ ft X Ambas’dors (2016) Play Video
4   Erotica
joint with
4   Barbwire Kiss
Madonna (1992)

Night Club (2024)

Play Video

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5  American Horror Show
Snow Wife (2023) Play Video
6  I Wanna Be Your Slave
Måneskin (2021) Play Video
7   Rubber Doll
Miss Fame (2015) Play Video
8   S&M
Rihanna (2010) Play Video
9    Hanky Panky
joint with
9   Spank My Booty
Madonna (1990)

Lords of Acid (1988)

Play Video

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10   Queen Of Pain The Cramps (1997) Play Video

Other contenders that didn’t quite make it into our Top Ten:

Whip It by Devo (1980)  Play Video
SexyBack
by Justin Timberlake ft. Timbaland (2006)  Play Video
Submissive & Breedable ft. bbno$ by Smosh (2024) Play Video (Comedy/parody track)

The English Mansion’s Kinky Music Charts

Take a look at our other musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky

~ to be included the rules are: they must be big hits or tracks from internationally well-known performers.

 

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Zara DuRose’s Deviant Dining

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Top Dom: Lady Sara Borgia


The English Mansion always invites the world’s top dominas to come over, stay and play! We thought we should salute the very best of them and show you some of their finest moments. So here’s the provocative Lady Sara Borgia.

Top Dom: Lady Sara Borgia

Lady Sara Borgia is a stunningly beautiful, experienced dominatrix and femdom content producer. She oozes a rather sultry, seductive mien, the air around her crackels with her electric  allure.  A ruler of men – she is naturally commanding and exceptionally capable. This lady will easily captivate you with her arresting looks and shapley feminine physique. A divine mix of elegant lady and strict sexy siren, that will bring any sub to their knees, and Her heel.

Femdom Party Planner
Lady Borgia loves femdom parties: Strap on Parties, Sissy Parties, Prison Parties and Anything Goes Parties. She organises these regularly at her play-space or The Pain Palace in Worcester, UK.
As an established prodom she has her own chambers in Central Birmingham, the Midlands, UK. She brings her extensive BDSM knowledge, intelligence and intuition to those in her charge and specialises in: Xdressing & sissy training; anal & strapon play; and offers a unique one to one prison experience at The UK Penitentiary.
(Photo above left: Lady Sara getting ready to party with Mistress Ava Von Medisin & Mistress Vixen)

Sara is also an accomplished femdom content producer, with a treasury of amazing films & clips: she has her own Members’ site; is available on femdom clips stores; or you can devote yourself via her Fan Sites.

We highly recommend you check out all of Lady Sara Borgia’s links  HERE

So here’s just a very small taste of the gorgeous Lady Sara Borgia in action inside The English Mansion…

Lady Sara Borgia

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See also other ~  English Mansion Top Doms
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The Celestial Institute: A Finishing School for ‘Aspiring Ladies’

The Celestial Institute
A Finishing School for ‘Aspiring Ladies’
Friday 22nd November – Sunday 24th November 2024

Hosted @ Celestial Studios
The No.1 Fetish & Kink Venue in the Midlands

OUR MOTTO: SUGERE ET MINISTRARE – TO SUCK AND TO SERVE

Mistress Vivienne & Celestial Studios are throwing open their opulent doors to those who have a deep desire to become more feminine. Hosted by experienced, strict & dominant ‘head’mistresses, all of whom are considered elite in the realms of XDressing, transformation expertise, slut training & kinky play.

Our Mission
The Celestial Institute was devised by Goddess Vivienne, who had a burning desire to open a top class Xdressing & Feminisation fetish school. This has been realised in a weekend programme. A unique event to live out their kinkiest, sluttiest fantasies in a safe and custom built fetish environment, Celestial Studios. Equipped with 10 play spaces to cater for all kinky lessons for sissy sluts and gorgeous t-girls. Celebrated with a kinky passing-out party on the Sat evening for our freshly debouched débutantes.

At the Celestial Institute, we believe in the power of metamorphosis. We’re dedicated to helping you uncover and unleash your inner sissy through a series of intense and exhilarating experiences and  training sessions. Our goal is to transform you, body and soul, into the epitome of feminine allure and submissive sluttiness.

Here’s just some of the 2024 Term Prospectus:


Our Tutors:

Goddess Vivienne l’Amour
With 2 collared sissy sluts, and a wealth of clothing, wigs and all the goodies for transformation and feminisation fetishists, Miss Vivienne has been training men and boys to be pretty girls since she was a teenager. She has high standards, expects to witness absolute filth and to see all her pupils blossom into beautiful and perverted dolly sluts for her pleasure and amusement.

Mistress Sidonia Von Bork
With over 25 years in the FemDom industry, owner of the English Mansion, the most revered fetish and kink website on the planet, world famous sissy trainer MSVB is well equipped to offer you tips on tricks on all aspects of becoming more ladylike and feminine. However, she will also encourage you to be slutty to amuse her. She will want to see you get down and dirty, and will be on hand to ensure you are suitably encouraged and behaving, otherwise you will be getting punished! Bound or beaten?

Princess Aurora
An icon of the sissy world, Princess Aurora has a huge sissy and t-girl following, has produced several hundred videos to help you on your journey to becoming the sissy slut you have always wanted to be, and there is nothing that she doesn’t know about training sluts to be sexier and more elegant, beautiful and accomplished. She is approachable, kind but will not suffer mediocrity, and will be ensuring that you are gorgeous, impressive and very saucy, both in appearance and actions!

Sadie Katinka
T-Girl Mistress and Switchy Anal Aficionado. Mistress Sadie has been in the scene for over a decade, playing as a lifestyle style, with a particular fetish for seeing sluts deepthroat cock and all things anal. She has perfected an immaculate make up routine to share with you, as well as having her fingers in a lot of rubbery pies. With a wardrobe to lust after, a warm and cheeky manner, she will no doubt be whispering in your ear to be naughty, and showing you all the best ways in which to achieve ‘Ultimnate Slut’ status.

More Information Here     ~    Full Prospectus Here

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