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MSVB’s Femdom Blog: 17 Million Views & Counting!

Posted on 08/04/2026 by Mistress Sidonia

World Peace… Achieved. And all it took was a little more rope, some ball gags, a few canes and plenty of “yes Mistress.”

MSVB’s Femdom Blog: 17 Million Views & Counting!

Yes, Mistress Sidonia’s Femdom Blog has just hit another wonderful milestone — 17 million views since we started counting back in August 2010!It’s amazing how quickly we’re growing. We used to celebrate hitting each new million every two years, then it sped up to every year, and now we only reached 16 million, just six months ago! That’s roughly 85,000 visits every month from people all over the world who are curious about female domination, fetish, and the wider world of BDSM.

17 Million Views! Yay!

A big thank you to all our regular readers, members, fellow dominatrices, kink enthusiasts, and everyone who has supported the blog along the way. Your visits and encouragement have made this possible. Whether you’re brand new to femdom and BDSM, an experienced player, a dominant, a submissive, a kinkster or simply a curious vanilla visitor who wants to learn more — you’re very welcome here! This blog is designed as a friendly, inclusive space to help you discover and understand the unique world of Female Domination and BDSM.

This blog is an inclusive hub of all things femdom, BDSM & Fetish

♛ Profiles & Links to some of the World’s Top Dominatrices
♛ In-depth Femdom, BDSM & Fetish articles
♛ Fetish Art, Photography & Comics ♛ Kinky Music Charts
♛ Specialist BDSM Equipment & Shops ♛ Femdom fiction
♛ Scene News & Events ♛ Fetish Humour & fun
♛ MSVB’s (My) personal philosophy or general musings on Femdom
♛ Exciting updates from The English Mansion: New Femdom Films,
3D-VR Experiences & Introducing New Mansion Dominas

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7 Ways To Turn A Man Into Your Slave

Posted on 01/04/2026 by Mistress Sidonia

Stunning Miss Vivienne Hardy shows her boy who’s on top in their relationship!

7 Ways To Turn a Man Into Your Slave
Some Basic Femdom BDSM Slave Training Tips

1. Give Him a New Name
this helps in the process of making him let go of his old self and become something you created. It also helps re-enforce his new status as your property.

2. Keep Him in Chastity
you retain the key and establish the rules about its use and when, if ever, he is allowed any self-pleasure.

3. Make Him Wear a Sign of Ownership
24/7 he should be made to wear a sign of his owned status. Collars are a standard item but are not practical for everyday wear. While until the relationship reaches a true maturity a tattoo or branding are also not appropriate (these should NOT be entered into lightly). However, a discreet piercing or secret item of jewelery, for ex. a ring or chain should be worn at all times. You could even make him paint his toe nails pink.

4. Set Out a Way for Him to Greet You
Assuming you are meeting in a private environment, he should be tutored in how to formally greet you (this is the first time he has seen you after a period of absence). This can be a position to get into: kneeling down, hands-on-head, face lowered; or to get down on his knees and kiss your shoes. If you meet out in public you may also need a special clandestine greeting like a discreet hand kiss.

(I know for prodoms this will likely be to kiss their boots but it was always super horny for me with certain personal slaves, to have them come up to me pull down my undies and lick my arse whenever first in my presence. I liked how it set the tone for the meeting, reminding them of their place in my world.)

5. Require Him to Carry Out Menial or Hard Labour Tasks
He must regularly complete a supervised task, this should be housework, gardening or admin. This is of course useful and a service to you but it has a more important purpose; it reinforces his menial status, keeps him occupied and crucially keeps his body physically tired and thus less likely to edge towards any recalcitrance.

I have set long physical tasks (or exercise programs alongside reduced calorie diets) for willful slaves as I like to have their bodies fully exhausted before I start to break them psychologically 🙂 Plus if you are a proponent of female supremacy it’s the perfect way to address the current gender bias towards housework. Let’s get the boys scrubbing!

6. Demand Obedience
If he transgresses from any of your rules he must be punished for these infractions. Punishments are usually corporal, like a physical beating but they should fit the slave to make sure they really are unpleasant, and thus a proper penalty. So a slave who enjoys CP could, for ex. have his time in chastity extended. (Continued disobedience should result in dismissal.)

7. Enforce a Submissive Demeanour
This demeanor and attitude should be enforced across every aspect of his relationship with you, for ex., where he may sit, how he should address you, used for your WS etc. I also believe that fucking him regularly with a strapon cock is a perfect way to indoctrinate him further into submission. For personal slaves this should encompass sexual submission to you where he must be schooled in the art of sexually pleasuring you.

Gorgeous Mistress Courtney has this man where she wants him!

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Circus Maximus: Wild Nights in the Realm of Kink

Posted on 25/03/2026 by Mistress Sidonia

Circus Maximus: Wild Nights in the Realm of Kink

Themed Alternative Fetish Play & Swing Parties
Hosted by the Unrivaled Queen of Ceremonies, Mistress Vivienne l’Amour at Celestial Studios, Derby, Midlands, UK.

Hear ye, mighty lords and ladies, sinners and deborchers! Prepare to bend the knee (or whatever else you fancy bending) at Circus Maximus, the most decadent gathering in all the Kingdoms of Pleasure.

Now held every three moons (four times a year) on selected Saturday nights, the banners of lust are raised high at Celestial Studios in Derby, where the daring Mistress Vivienne l’Amour reigns supreme as the true Queen of the Kink Realm.

This is no place for the faint of heart or the prudish of spirit. Here, in a judgment-free Red Keep of revelry, desires run wilder than a Dothraki horde. RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink) is the only law, and play is not merely encouraged — it is celebrated with fire and blood (and plenty of lube).
Left: Mistress Vivienne Maximus’ Reigning Queen and host.

Expect cabaret performances that will make even a Dragon Queen blush, kinky sideshows twisted enough to impress the Faceless Men and a crowd so electric it could power the Iron Throne. (Yes, Moi, MSVB will be performing at some of the CM Events.)

Sigil of your Intent
Upon arrival, you shall be gifted a Traffic Light Wristband — the sigil of your intent:
Green means “I am ready to conquer and be conquered — come claim me.”
Amber whispers “Approach with words and wit; let us parley before we plunder.”
Red declares “I am here to watch the games…and keep my own chambers exclusive this night.”

A Feast For Flesh: Four Nights of Carnal Conquest
A Playground of Decadence ~ Each Circus Maximus transforms Celestial Studios into a lavish themed realm of sin and splendor. Guests are commanded to attire themselves in garments worthy of the occasion, matching the opulent decorations that turn the venue into a living tapestry of debauchery. Dress Code: Dress for the theme; Smart Sexy; or Fetish.

This year’s grand saga unfolds under the banner of four legendary nights:
Ritus Carnalis ~ Saturday 25/04/2026
The Rite is Sacred. The Flesh is Willing.
Abyssus ~ Saturday 20/06/2026
The Deeper you go. The Darker it gets.
Noctis Imperium ~ Saturday 31/10/2026
Obedience in Shadow, ecstasy in blood.
Dominus Anulorum ~ Saturday 12/12/2026
One Ring To Bind, One Will to Rule.

Past Circus Maximus themes have included:

The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Berserkyr, Angels and Demons, Reign of Terror and Seven Deadly Sins.
Because why choose just one sin when you can indulge in all?

Right: Mistress Sidonia & Mistress Vivienne at Seven Deadly Sins -In case you are wondering, I was ‘Gluttony’ in a cabaret – the sub had a lot to consume.

Within the Maximus Arena you shall find:

♣ A gloriously wicked clientele
♣ Explosive acts that rival the greatest tourneys
♣ Interactive & immersive experiences worthy of the finest brothels in King’s Landing
♣ Fetish-themed playrooms designed to break both bodies and inhibitions
♣ A warm welcome to all houses — especially our LGBTQ+ allies
♣ A licensed bar (for liquid courage), changing room and secure lockers.

Celestial Studios
This hidden citadel is tucked away just outside Derby (conveniently near the A50 and M1 Junction 24, with free parking and a discreet exterior), lies Celestial Studios — a 250 year-old warehouse reborn as the ultimate pleasure palace by the visionary Mistress Vivienne l’Amour.

This is just a tiny peak at some of the play spaces within…

Two vast floors overflow with wonders: a shadowy medieval dungeon (for those who enjoy a bit of the old gods’ justice), a cold prison cell (perfect for recalcitrant prisoners), clinical medical suite, lavish boudoirs dripping with luxury and daring golden suspension rigs. With loyal staff and vigilant dungeon monitors ensuring the peace, Circus Maximus offers unbridled adventures in a safe corner of the realm.

Circus Maximus Events
Fancy swearing fealty to the Queen of Kink? Check the website for tickets and claim your place in this year’s legendary sagas.
Find out more from their website Circus Maximus Events
Follow on Twitter/X: @CircusMaximusGB
or Link Tree Celestial Derby & see above for the 2026 dates & themes.

Check out all the Events at Celestial this year – 2026

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Mistress Sidonia: Loyal Fans

Posted on 19/03/2026 by Mistress Sidonia

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Prison Break ~ Femdom Comic Strip

Posted on 10/03/2026 by Mistress Sidonia

Prison Break ~ Femdom Comic Strip
We hope you enjoy this fun femdom comic strip Prison Break ~ featuring the stunning Mistress Courtney & slave J. With images from the full-length English Mansion film Learning To Say Yes Mistress now showing inside the members area.
So Don’t miss out Join The English Mansion Here Now

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Dominant Dynasty: Femdom Royalty Issue 2

Posted on 07/03/2026 by Mistress Sidonia

Dominant Dynasty: Femdom Royalty Issue 2

Femdom Royalty reclaims the spotlight like a Mistress snapping her fingers: attention commanded, submission expected, no questions asked! Returning with its second unapologetically regal issue. This female-led quarterly magazine and femdom lifestyle blog, launched in 2025, continues to celebrate the accomplishments of international Dominatrices while elevating Female Domination as both a professional craft and a powerful cultural force. Packed with exclusive interviews, sharp columns, and thoughtful features that probe the psychology, artistry, and evolving dynamics of Femdom, it delivers substance over spectacle and real voices that refuse to be diluted or dismissed.

Meet The Formindable Lady Bellatrix

At the helm of Femdom Royalty remains the formidable Lady Bellatrix, a strict Dominatrix now based in Paris, commanding with elegant yet unyielding authority and specializing in high-protocol D/s, heavy latex, CP, strapon play, and humiliation. (Lady Bellatrix: here right, actually she is a whole lotta fun!)
With over 15 years as a ProDom and a prior decade as a published columnist in major UK outlets, she fuses elite Femdom expertise with journalistic precision. Her dual mastery is exactly why she created Femdom Royalty – to forge a lasting, female-centered legacy that amplifies authentic voices, safeguards BDSM traditions, and provides experience-driven content that sets the standard.
(How come so many people who write about Dommes and sex work clearly know nothing about it?)

The Winter 2025 edition
featuring Yours Truly, Mistress Sidonia
Look, I’m not saying I’m the best part… but I’m definitely in it, so there’s that.
The Winter 2025 edition spotlights global icons with an exclusive cover interview with the legendary Mistress Sidonia von Bork of The English Mansion, whose decades of influence shine through in candid reflections on power and legacy; a charming yet commanding feature with Countess Dionysus, fresh from her Miami relocation; and a humorous, no-nonsense profile of Domina Sreni, complete with world-premiere exclusive photos. Plus… the ‘Mansplaining’ column with Dickie Virgin; putting the ‘Agony into Aunt’ advice from Mistress Simone Worthington; reviews of VC Studios dungeon (Zürich); Alicia Zadig’s book Yes, Mistress; the Femdom Gala event; a review of Club Stiletto’s members’ site; plus ‘Mistress on Tour’ with Goddess Kara; and Lady Bellatrix‘s own ‘Words of Wisdomme’ on ageism in Femdom. It’s absoultely jam packed!

Exclusive Entry: How to Get Your Copy

Single issues are available now via the easy to use portal at MagCloud:
Digital for $6.99, Print on premium stock for $19.99 (with worldwide shipping).
This isn’t mere reading; it’s entry into an exclusive realm for serious femdom connoisseurs – an essential crown jewel for anyone devoted to dominant women.
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