L’Oubliette – An Exquisite Play Space for Discerning Players

L’Oubliette – An Exquisite Play Space for Discerning Players

Friends of The Mansion have recently opened a new play space, available for hire in Bedfordshire, UK.  The Oubliette is a luxurious self-contained BDSM play suite boasting a comprehensive range of high-quality furniture and toys – including a Fetters spanking bench, Shockspot fucking machine and suspended spherical cage. It welcomes both newby couples and experienced players looking for a private fantasy play space.

The Oubliette has three main play areas:
The Dungeon an atmospheric BDSM play space
The Agony and Ecstasy Room a space to be pampered or confine your ‘pet’ and
The Boudoir with its electronic and multifunctional hoist and cage …
it’s a perfect space to explore all your devilish desires. Plus a bathroom and kitchenette.

Based about 1hr from Central London, Bedfordshire’s premier BDSM suite The Oubliette is available to Hire by the Hour, Half-day or Full-day and offers Overnight Stays, Weekend and Weekday Breaks. Whatever your indulgence, The Oubliette will provide a venue for a truly special experience.

Visit their website for more details

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Confessions of a Lady Boss – Femdom Comic Strip

For all to enjoy – our femdom comic strip Confessions of a Lady Boss with Mistress T as a very demanding domme boss. (Photos taken from the film Cunnilingus Duties with Mistress T.)

And you can watch stunning Mistress T in action in the newly released Office Bitch Boy – now showing inside The English Mansion

And you can visit Mistress T’s personal website here – highly recommended

& More Info Here

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In Search of the Female Orgasm (& Lots of Them) Pt 1

The English Mansion – A Female Orgasm Zone: A slave is used as a 2-way sex toy by myself and Mistress T he must pleasure us and make us both cum. He must NOT cum himself, if he does it will result in a cruel cock caning – we find this helps focus his self-control! (Photo from 2-Way Sex Toy)

Finding The Female Orgasm?

I can’t say I’ve watched a great deal of mainstream ‘straight’ porn but I can remember from the little I have seen there were no female orgasms! Lots of women writhing around and moaning but no pleasure or climaxes for them. The women are always portrayed in the traditional passive sexual role and the entire focus seems to be on the man’s penis and his ejaculation. This is always the culmination of the film, indicating this is what sex is – a man cumming. It’s no wonder then that most women don’t watch porn, it certainly doesn’t make sex look appealing for them. (It also doesn’t allow the men watching them to appreciate what a woman needs sexually.)

This was quite confusing especially when I was younger as I have a huge sex drive and love orgasms (in fact post-orgasm is one of the few times I’m not a complete bitch to be around). Perhaps that’s why it I find the idea of a man kept locked up as my personal sex toy (preferable in a cell under my home) who after a long and cruel training period becomes my sex slave with no thoughts other than to please me and make me cum 🙂 so f***ing horny!

To be honest I’ve never been particularly interested in whether my slave cums or not, yes I like to tease him and get him hard. Once a man has an erection I know I have total control over him, he is nothing more than mindless putty in my hands – just that thought is exciting. However once he cums, it will probably cool his ardour, better to keep him wanting, keen and importantly focused on my pleasure – my orgasms! Thank goddess for chastity devices 🙂

As a dominant woman you get what You want sexually, you do what You want, wear what You like – totally indulging your desires leading you to powerful perfect climaxes. (Photo from Making A Sex Drone)

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Folsom Street Fair -The World’s Biggest Kink (BDSM) & Leather Event

This is image is just so beautiful

Folsom Street Fair
held every September is ‘The World’s Biggest Kink (BDSM) & Leather Gathering’ and is now California’s third-largest outdoor event. Located on historic Folsom Street in San Francisco, around 400,000 leather and fetish players from all over the world converge. With over 200 exhibitor booths showcasing fetish gear and toys, ‘twisted’ alternative stage acts, dance arenas and erotic art zone. It’s fun in the sun, a joyful celebration of LGBT and all things kink! And yes, you can even be naked while out in the sunshine! Or pull your pony cart, walk your puppies and just strut about in your leather & fetish finery in the daylight.

Folsom Street Fair wasn’t originally such a huge affair and had a different name back in September 1984 when it started. Against a backdrop of the fear created by AIDS with all its early prejudices, an urban renewal campaign intended to evict a large number of SoMa’s (South of Market, a neighborhood in San Francisco) bathhouses/saunas and gay bars and replace them with high-rises. So the festival then named ‘Megahood’ was to signify and celebrate that the neighborhood was important, thriving and not an “urban dump”. What began as a neighborhood festival first, took on the leatherish theme of the gay bars that once dominated the area and then morphed over three decades into a much larger celebration of BDSM and fetish cultures for gay and straight alike.

It’s the giant dildo on the sideboard that gets me 🙂

This year the FSF was met with some sparsely attended, fairly disorganized ultra right-wing protests continuing the fundamental conflict that spawned the Folsom Street Fair — a subculture trying to maintain its presence and identity in the face of rapid corporate development. Underscoring the enduring importance of the event – as just for one day a sexual subculture gets out in the open and joyously dominates their neighborhood! Oh and… the Fair donates all its profits to local charities, the arts and fetish organizations.

I love the furries and ‘Pig/Pigs’ is the male gay communities word for Subs

Check out the website: www.folsomstreetevents.org

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Wet & Messy Punishments

Wet & Messy Punishment with Mistress Amrita now showing

We love wet and messy punishments at The English Mansion and they provide an extra layer of cruelty:

~ First you are physically exhausted and then hosed down with ice-cold water

~ Eggs put in your pants before a paddling leaving a big gooey mess there

~ Your face pushed into the mud as you are fucked hard by your Mistress’s big strapon

Your clothes, panties or tights filled with baked beans or custard before you are tied up and left squirming

~ Made to lick clean the dirt and mud from your domme’s stiletto boots

So many ways to leave you humiliated, sopping wet and sticky…

And you can watch Mistress Amrita in Wet & Messy Punishment right now where she devises a fiendish water bondage punishment for her sub. Rope bound and then placed into a clear container which was slowly filled with cold water leaving subby to breathe through a tube – see photos below.

So enjoy this gallery of English Mansion Wet & Messy Punishments

Mistress Amrita, Miss Jasmine, Goddess Snow, Mistress Sidonia, Lady Nina Birch, Mistress Nikki Whiplash, Miss Jessica Woods, Mistress Evilyne, Mistress Vixen & Princess Anuska.
See here for all the Mistress’s above info

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Silence is Golden – A Complete Compendium of Gags Pt2

Gagging picture story from John Willie’s seminal fetish Magazine ‘Bizarre’ published from 1946-1959

Gag Combos
This compendium focuses on ‘classic gags’ but there are many variations that just combine elements from these gags in different combinations. A ball gag may have a chin strap attached making it into a kind of open muzzle; mouth-guard gags can have an open valve at the front so that a tube and funnel can be attached turning them into a liquid gag; a cleave may go under a bandit which in turn might be covered with tape.

Safe Gagging
The biggest safety issue when using gags for erotic BDSM play is the danger of cutting off or blocking the wearer’s airway causing asphyxia (death from lack of oxygen!) This could be caused by something blocking the nose but also from the sub choking or even possibly vomiting while wearing a gag.

For this reason it’s essential to stay in constant visual contact with a gagged sub. Remember it’s never safe to leave an individual who has been gagged alone, not even for a few minutes and why importantly the use of gags requires continued awareness and diligent monitoring on the part of the dom/top.  And you must always retain easy access to remove the gag quickly in an emergency.

Because many gags prevent a submissive from breathing through their mouth, it becomes absolutely essential that they be able to breathe well though their nose. If a sub has a blocked nose from allergies/hay fever, sinus problems or a cold etc. then it is not safe to use a gag.

As I have outlined a safeword can not be used while a gag is in place so you need to establish prearranged physical signs: e.g. three unique grunts; a distinct hand signal; or a hand alarm. A hand alarm is a battery operated door bell, the bound and gagged sub keeps the alarm button in their hand while the dom keeps the chime near them. They are especially useful if the sub is in a sack, arm-sleeve or cling-film.

So let’s continue with Pt 2…
or See Pt 1 here


A Complete Compendium of Gags cont. pt2
More Complex Gags
9. Funnel & Liquid gags
Funnel gags comprise of a large funnel with a spout fixed through a shield which is strapped into the mouth with more straps supporting the funnel and strapping around the head. They look rather extreme and are quite humiliating for the wearer. Liquid consumption gags are another variation – a simple tube gag (sometimes inside an inflatable) is placed in the mouth and strapped around the head. Then either a funnel or gravity bladder (drip bag) with a long rubber/plastic tube can be attached and detached as needed – and filled from a distance. These gags are used to allow or make the bound person drink fluids while tied. Always take extreme care to pour fluids very slowly to avoid choking! The sub can learn to use their tongue to block the spout periodically to allow then to swallow the liquid at their own pace.
10. Spider & Ring gags
Ring gags are another variant of ball gags but the ball is replaced by a hollow ring (metal or leather) which allows access to the inside of the mouth. And a variation on the ring gag is the spider gag which has four ‘legs’ on the sides so as to keep the wearer from flipping the ring horizontally in their mouth; as this is a problem with ring gags. Generally these gags have interchangeable rings to accommodate both the wearer’s mouth and the size of any object that might be inserted through the ring.
11. Inflatable gags – Balls & Butterflies
These gags have either a small rubber ball balloon or butterfly inflated by a hand pump filing up the mouth. A rubber butterfly gag is a wing-shaped gag, the central part fits behind the teeth to fill up the mouth, while the wings go between the teeth and the cheeks (an intense gagging experience!) Inflatable gags will not hold in the gagged person’s mouth well because as you inflate them they pop out so need to be paired with tape or an Over-The-Mouth gag to keep then in place. Often they come with a strap on mouth shield that sits over the mouth to prevent this problem. These gags are excellent for actually quieting the wearer and look super lewd ‘n’ sexy with the long ‘tail’ popping out of the sub’s mouth 🙂 Some of these inflatable gags come with an additional opening for a breathing or liquid consumption tube.
12. Pecker & Kissing gags
Pecker gags have a mouth shield with a short rubber/silicone phallus or penis on the inside that is placed into the mouth with straps to hold it in place. This gag can be used for humiliation as the wearer is made to have a ‘cock’ in their mouth ideal as for the run up to turned bi scenes or as a useful training tool for cock sucking. There is also a double pecker gag more commonly known as a kissing gag this is where two peckers are fixed back to back and used on two sub’s facing each other tied, giving the effect that they are kissing 🙂
 13. Tape gagging
Using sticky tape over the mouth is really another variant of the Over-The-Mouth gag. The most commonly used tape is Duct Tape, Electrical Tape and Scotch Tape. Duct tape is a good width (two inches) has a cloth backing making it super strong which is ideal; however more flexible electrical tape with its thinner width is more useful for more elaborate taping and it comes off the skin easier. The tape can be wrapped under and around the chin restricting jaw movement, making the gag more effective. Removing the tape can be problematic you have to take extreme care not to damage the lips and skin, alcohol can be used to remove any residue. Though in my experience saliva and sweat usually make them come away after any period of time. A solution is to use a thin layer of cling-film under the tape or just to use non-sticky bondage tape. Care must be taken not to tape over hair or beards they should be covered first.
14. Stuffing
Stuffing is the process by where a person’s mouth is stuffed with cloth items like handkerchiefs, scarves, stockings, panties or any item rolled into a ball, acting as a stopper, similar to a ball gag. To add to the humiliation it may be dirty panties etc. or for a fetishist a specific item like worn stockings.  To be effective the stuffing must be used in conjunction with other forms of gagging otherwise the wearer will instinctively just push out the items. To reduce the chances of choking, the stuff gag is never pushed all the way into the person’s mouth. It’s important to be aware that items in the mouth can cause reflex retching and that as the material used will soak up the saliva it can make the mouth very dry and uncomfortable over time.
15. Muzzle
Muzzles have a large lower face shield/cover or 3D cone which straps over the mouth, chin and sometimes the cheeks. Some secured up over each side of the nose and the sides of the head, other just around the lower part of the face. Muzzle gags have a strong psychological effect on some people, because of their resemblance to being muzzled like an animal. Perfect for puppy scenes.
16.  Head Harness
Harnesses encircle the head, with various straps secured by numerous buckles fastened at the back and sides. Harnesses can come with a variety of fitted or even interchangeable gags. For pony play they come with a bit gag this is because the wearer needs lots of air plus attachments for reins and why other gags are not suitable. These devices are also perfect in elaborate bondage scenes providing useful attachment points. Head harnesses may also function as a gag by themselves, by restricting the ability to open the mouth with tight jaw straps.
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