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More Music To Whip Guys By – Atmospheric Top Twenty #4

Posted on 01/10/2020 by Mistress Sidonia

Welcome to The English Mansion’s Top Twenty
Music To Whip Guys By ~ Atmospheric Mix #4
Our musical play lists dedicated to all things kinky

Welcome to another Top Twenty music chart of songs which exude sensuality and dark passions making them perfect for BDSM session play. Music is an essential backdrop to a scene it sets the mood and has an effect on our emotions. From high-energy dance for serious whipping to slow erotic ambient beats for more sensuous play; a scene moves through many phases and the right play-list compliments the action.

I’ve chosen these tracks for the atmophere they create, not for the words necessarily and certainly not for the videos. So here are a few more of my personal favourite atmospheric tracks for Kink & BDSM session play, all that have great pervy memories for me

Music To Whip Guys By ~ Atmospheric Mix #4
1 Les Nuits	Nightmares On Wax (1999)	Play Video
2 Out Of Heaven	Dreadzone (1995)	Play Video
3 Higher Than The Sun (A Dub Symphony In 2 Parts)	Screamadelica (1991)	Play Video
4 Lifeforms Path 4 joint with 4 Live With Me	The Future Sound of London (1994) Massive Attack (2006)	Play Video Play Video
5 Roads joint with 5 Ghosts	Portishead (1994) Japan (1981)	Play Video Play Video
6 Lullaby for Cain joint with 6 Under Ice	Sinead O’Connor (1999) Kate Bush (1985)	Play Video Play Video
7 Migrations joint with 7 Masked Ball	Jocelyn Pook (1999)	Play Video Play Video
8 We Don’t Die joint with 8 Eyes Open Wide	Tricky (2013) Jihae (2010)	Play Video Play Video
9 Sweet Dreams (Are Made of This)	Emily Browning (2011)	Play Video
10 Fall In The Light	Lori Carson & Graeme Revell (1995)	Play Video
11 Breathe	The Cinematic Orchestra Feat. Fontella Bass (2007)	Play Video
12 Rising joint with 12 Kurushi	Yoko Ono (1996)	Play Video Play Video
13 Lover	Sufi (1995)	Play Video
14 Something I Can Never Have	Nine Inch Nails (1989)	Play Video
15 Slow Motion Picture	Solomon Grey (2016)	Play Video
16 Weather Storm joint with 16 The Quiet American	Craig Armstrong (1997) & (2002)	Play Video Play Video
17 Toxic joint with 17 Halo (Goldfrapp Remix)	2WEI (2018) Depeche Mode (2004)	Play Video Play Video
18 Joga joint with 18 Lovely Head	Björk (1997) Goldfrapp (2000)	Play Video Play Video
19 An Ending (Ascent)	Brian Eno (1983)	Play Video
20 The Great Gig In The Sky	Pink Floyd (1973)	Play Video

The English Mansion’s Kinky Music Charts

Take a look at our other musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky
~ to be included the rules are: they must be big hits or tracks from internationally well-known performers.

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A Dangerous Pastime? Mountaineering vs BDSM

Posted on 19/09/2020 by Mistress Sidonia

The Importance difference between
Mountaineering & BDSM Play

Mountaineering vs BDSM Play
Mountaineerers	BDSM players
1. Spend their spare time engaged in their hobby	1. Spend their spare time engaged in their kink
2. Wear and use specialist gear	2. Wear and use specialist gear
3. Buy and amass equipment and specialist clothing	3. Buy and amass equipment and specialist clothing
4. Read books, blogs and tweet about their hobby	4. Read books, blogs and tweet about their kink
5. Meet and socialise with others also interested in their hobby	5. Meet and socialise with others also interested in their kink
6. Take photographs of their exploits & share them with fellow hobbyist	6. Take photographs of their exploits & share them with fellow kinksters
7. Are experts in harnesses, ropes, knots & body suspension	7. Are experts in harnesses, ropes, knots & body suspension
8. Want to find a partner who has an interest in their hobby or has an acceptance/ understanding of it	8. Want to find a partner who has an interest in their kink or has an acceptance/ understanding of it
9. May pay to be assisted by an expert to guide them	9. May pay to be assisted by an expert to guide them
10. Can be injured while engaging in their hobby	10. Can be injured while engaging in their kink
11. Can die while pursuing their hobby – mountaineering is a pursuit with a published mortality rate.	11.

“The BMC recognises that climbing, hill walking and mountaineering are activities with a danger of personal injury or death. Participants in these activities should be aware of and accept these risks and be responsible for their own actions and involvement.”

“Mont Blanc is the most popular glaciated mountain in Europe… According to the gendarmerie, 74 climbers died on this route between 1990 and 2011. The authorities are concerned that some climbers on this route are under-prepared and over-ambitious…Mortality rates are far higher on the world’s highest mountains… On Everest, the most popular 8,000-metre peak, a rough average of 420 people have been reaching the summit each year since the turn of the century while 94 people died trying, a mortality-success ratio of around 1.6 per cent. That has come down from around 3.2 percent in the 1990s.” The British Mountaineering Council – www.thebmc.co.uk.

This was an idea I had about how differently BDSM is viewed compared to say Mountaineering especially with regard to ‘consent’. For example, can a person consent to something where they might be injured and how far should the state go to protect them from their choices – and don’t get me started on boxing!

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Prima Dominas ~ New Mansion Dommes 2020

Posted on 13/09/2020 by Mistress Sidonia

Prima Dominas
New Dominas Coming to The English Mansion in 2020

We have three very different leading ladies making their debut at The English Mansion: Lady Bellatrix, Mistress Damara & Mistress Lorraine. Each enjoy toying with men and have their own unique style of domination. You’ll be meeting them all before the end of 2020.

At the English Mansion we have no fixed rules about what constitutes femdom – it can be empowering, psychological, worshipful, sexual, fetishistic or downright sadistic with infinite other permutations. We give dominant women, switches and our dominatrixes a free rein and let them just indulge in what they most enjoy.

Lady Bellatrix
Queen of Mean Lady Bellatrix is a prodom based in Paris, France with an amazing svelte and graceful figure. Attractive, intelligent and well-spoken she will entrance you with her natural authority and passion for perversion. While her strict demeanour commands ‘classic slave protocol’ from her protégés. Bellatrix has a love of heavy rubber and is always fabulously attired in one of her many latex outfits.
Lady Bellatrix ~ More Information & Links Here

Mistress Damara
Mistress Damara is a beautiful shapely Latina prodom based in central London, UK. She has a natural passion and enthusiasm for BDSM play, with a unique style that totally overwhelms and entrances her subs. Turning them into her obedient playthings. She specialises in anal/strapon play and enforced bi scenes.
Mistress Damara ~ More Information & Links Here

Mistress Lorraine
Mistress Lorraine is a gorgeous statuesque prodom with a toned body and never tiring right arm. An empathic thoughtful domina, Lorraine will not roar at you but will gently guide you into obedience. She also owns The Essex Dungeon (Dungeon Rental and B&B see here ) in Chelmsford.
Mistress Lorraine ~ More Information & Links Here

You’ll be seeing more of them at The English Mansion very soon…

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Yay! Our 100th Femdom Virtual Reality 3D Experience

Posted on 07/09/2020 by Mistress Sidonia

Celebrating 100
VR 3D Femdom Experiences!

This week we’re releasing our 100th femdom VR 3D experience! Thus continuing our commitment to regularly upload these special & unique virtual 1 on 1 sessions for our Members. Especially as we understand that those who enjoy them have had to obtain headsets with which to watch them fully. (You can still watch our VRs without a headset as POVs but don’t get to appreciate 1% of the incredible virtual experience.)

Mistress Sidonia and her domestic alter ego Miss Eve Harper feature predominantly but there are still over 20 other dominas for you to meet and serve within our virtual femdom world. Where you get to be actually inside The English Mansion, its dungeon, clinic, main house, compound and extensive grounds.

Trick or Treat Game – Interactive Femdom VR

So to celebrate this momentus occasion we’ve put together an extra special 3D VR experience: Trick or Treat – it’s virtual but also interactive. You must first put on your chastity device and then choose either A or B….*

“Well, I have a fun game for us to play today, you are such a lucky boy being subjected to my devious mind. I know it’s such a long time since I allowed you to empty those balls. They are looking so full and desperate, your cock goes hard as soon as you hear the rattling of the chastity key and the clicking of my stilettos. So, let’s get started, keep looking at my beautiful body as I make you edge yourself over and over. I might treat you with my bare breasts or bare bottom, I haven’t decided yet. So, follow my commands, will today be the day I let you cum or will you be denied? Let’s find out shall we – let the game begin!”
* You may only watch A or B within a 24hr period. Suggested Watching Position: Kneeling, (If possible wearing a chastity device, with the key ready)

For more information about our Femdom VRs: See here & here & here

So here are some other recent Femdom VR experiences:

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Hurrah! 9 Million Femdom Blog Visits

Posted on 01/09/2020 by Mistress Sidonia

Mistress Sidonia’s Femdom Blog
reaches 9 Million Visits

We’re still getting new unique visitors everyday which is why we’re celebrating reaching 9 Million visits to this Femdom Blog!

Daily that’s approx. 1,000 unique users & 4,000 to 10,000 post views. Plus the counter was only started in Aug 2010, while I actually began this blog in Aug 2003.

Our traffic’s now so huge we’ve had to add another zero to our counter!

So a giant thank you to all our supporters, dedicated members, fellow dommes and pervy friends.

So What’s This Femdom Blog All About?

Predominantly, this blog focuses on the World of Femdom – specialist equipment; art, fiction, articles; some of the world’s top dominatrixes & prodoms; scene news; my personal philosophy or general musings; and where Femdom crosses over into the mainstream. Plus of course what’s happening inside The English Mansion – new films, my wicked exploits and of course introducing new dominas who’ve recently come to stay over!

A question I often get asked… yes, everything on this blog is written by me personally (with the exception of a handful of femdom fiction stories which are credited to the contributors.)