After 3 years of heart-felt hard work The English Mansion’s very own resident domina Mistress T has publish an honest and revealing account of her life so far; giving its readers a peak behing the glamourous curtain of sex work while venturing to humanize herself and other sex workers.
Well I’ll let her explain a little more…
You think you’re worthy of reading this book? Don’t make me laugh. This book isn’t for your gratification. It’s not going to point out all the flaws in your useless cock, or help you jerk off to thoughts of a woman controlling your orgasm for her pleasure. This is a book about a real person, not some inane male fantasy. This is a book about Mistress T.
This is the true story of a poor girl from small-town Nova Scotia, and her transformation into one of the most successful Dominatrix porn stars in the world. It’s a story that is, at turns, both funny and insightful, a story of sex, dr*gs, and stilettos. But it’s also a candid look at relationships, at human connection, at love, at the flawed families who make us who we are. A frank and revealing memoir, THERE IS MORE TO THE STORY manages to both explore the sex industry, and humanize the women who work in it.
This is a book about Mistress T, but not the Mistress T you know. And it’s the closest you’re ever going to get without paying for it.
“How often do you get to peek into someones life who does something so different from the rest of us? Add to that the honestly and introspection from a woman who has taken the time to analyze herself, then lay herself bare for the rest of us to witness. Well written, sexy, and fascinating!” Amazon Reviews
Hard, paperback & kindle versions are available from Amazon UK & USA and exclusive signed copies can also be obtained from Mistress T directly – see here.
If you regularly read this blog you already know what a bondage aficionado I am; as I adore extreme & predicament bondage and love to devise fiendish dilemmas for my poor slaves. So here are a few recent examples of amazing bondage scenarios, some predicament, that my fellow Mansion dommes and myself have been enjoying. Click on first image to start slide show:
For Predicament Bondage Lovers
In the last photo – Predicament Day Pt2b with Mistress Sidonia, this scenario includes a particularly evil and inventive piece of predicament bondage – the slave is connected to an enforced consumption bladder and made to drink this filling his own bladder over time. In turn his cock is encased and connected to a liquid container hanging from his own nipples – if he pees the weight in this container will increase and eventually pull off the nipple clamps… because recycling is important 🙂
And all the action from these real BDSM scenes are now showing inside The English Mansion.
This blog tries to regularly feature the best erotic art and I’ve been endeavouring to specifically promote more female artists. So it was doubly amazing to discover these gorgeous images produced by a woman and someone from the vanilla world who refreshingly has presented sex workers in such an honest and unprejudiced way.
One that, for once, does not perpetuate the false narrative that always swirls around the sex industry, seeking to titillate while self-righteously damning it with its misogynistic and sexist notion that all sex workers are victims in need of saving; not capable of the self-determination or personal freedom allowed to every other worker who sells their labour.
The Act
Few workers are as judged, stigmatised and heaped with the pre-conceived notions of others as sex workers. And in order to explore and understand what might lead a woman to become a sex worker through choice, fine art photographer Julia Fullerton-Batten has produced a new book featuring women who choose to use their bodies as their livelihoods. Each sex worker is beautifully photographed in stylised performances of them in ‘the act’ with which they earn their living.
Julia explained, “I was curious as to what motivated women, some well-educated with university degrees, to forsake such normality and voluntarily enter the sex industry, thereby risking social stigma and the disapproval of their families.”
Her book features escorts, adult entertainment performers, lap and pole-dancers, a stripper, a webcam girl, sex ‘slaves’, a dominatrix, a burlesque dancer; aerial artistes and a ping-pong girl. Each sex worker is depicted on a constructed stage but one where we can see back stage or ‘behind the curtain’. This highlights the fact that these acts are highly skilled performances where the women are in control and in the starring role.
“… during my meetings with my models, both before and during the shoot, I sensed that they tend to live their entire working lives as if on a stage. They are women who are proud of their bodies and choose to use their bodies in order to make an income.”
She also expanded the scope of the project to include video interviews to try to understand the women’s reasons for entering the sex industry and enable them to tell their own stories. And despite their X-rated professions and the nude poses, Julia explains that she was careful to avoid the images turning into pornography,
“The subject matter involved is controversial. Nudity always causes tensions. The images were obviously going to be erotic,” she says. “Eroticism is a subtle, sensitive and individual thing. Each viewer has their own consideration of what is acceptable or not. I can’t influence that… There is nudity but that is the state of undress in which my models perform their act…”
Julia was also acutely aware of being in a position of power as the one wielding the camera and ultimately deciding how they women were portrayed. This process shifted her view on the industry.
“During the shoot, I was a voyeur with a camera observing the actresses performing their act for me I was observing behaviour that I had never seen before…I even began to understand to some degree the reasoning behind their career choice. They were all positive, happy and content, almost care-free at what they were doing. I respect them more now than I did before the shoot as persons, not necessarily because they are sex workers. They did change my view of things, I like to think it’s been in a positive direction. I wish them all well, without exception.”
We highly recommended The Act by Julia Fullerton-Batten. Generously sized, beautifully printed, hand-crafted, sumptuously bound in a soft material flesh-like to the touch, and embellished with a lace garter, the book is a dream for collectors of fine-art photography. A DVD containing videoed interviews and behind the scenes glimpses accompanies the book. All copies are signed and numbered by Julia Fullerton-Batten. It can be purchased here: https://www.juliafullerton-batten.com/book.php
And the dominatrix featured in the book is an English Mansion featured domme, the stunning Morrigan Hel
I’m going to pick out my favourite English Mansion toys and tell you all about them in a series of blogs called ‘A Few of My Favourite Things’. So in no particular order: No. 12 – The Doxy Die Cast & The Doxy No. 3
Doxy Die Cast in Aluminium & the new Doxy No.3
Doxy Die Cast
The Doxy Die Cast is the gold standard of vibrating wands – it’s quality gadgetry, utterly desirable and beautiful to behold. (This is no cheap plastic, easily broken import.) It’s the luxury edition of their classic Doxy wand massager, slightly heavier, cast in aluminum and comes in 4 metalic colours: black, aluminium, red & purple.
Like the Doxy, you can either switch on the vibration and then increase or decrease the power with the + & – buttons; or by holding the power button down for 4 seconds switch on the escalating pulse modes again using the + & – button to scroll through these settings.
For the absolute ultimate in wands they also produce a gold-plated 24 karat Doxy Die Cast that comes in a beautiful walnut case, a steal at £1k 🙂
Doxy No.3 with Prostate Massager Attachment
Doxy No.3 – Highly Recommended
Alongside the Doxy is a new addition to the family, its super cute little brother: the Doxy No.3 – a mini compact version of the Doxy Die Cast. For me this is one of the best vibrating wands available, I highly recommend it. It has the elegant aesthetic of the Die Cast but is smaller, lighter and quieter but just as powerful… and it brilliantly has a super long cable! It also has a detachable head allowing a number of different attachments to be screwed onto it including a: rabbit, masturbator sleeve, clit stimulator & prostate stimulator.
At the moment Doxy have a deal where if you buy a Doxy No.3 you receive a free head attachment – see here.
Also check out their Doxy Don, we have one, it’s like a vibrating thumb and can be used externally or internally and is excellent for tie and tease sessions.
Brand Doxy
The original Doxy was launched in 2013 and was designed, engineered and assembled at their factory in Cornwall, South West England. Doxy is the only UK based vibrator manufacturer and a company committed to producing beautiful, powerful sex toys that give an exceptional experience. They offer free shipping on all orders which come discreetly packaged, have excellent customer support and offer a year-long warranty on their products.
For most of us drawn to the BDSM world our motivation is a base, sexually driven one. There is however, occasionally, an unexpected by-product – a slip into the realm of mysticism and spiritual transformation. This is not the goal of sado-masochistic play so it can be a surprising, unnerving and powerful encounter. These experiences should not be confused with ‘subspace’ which is a common altered state for most submissives – part letting go, part lust and part adrenaline high. These are deeper and more powerful transcendental occurrences which are hard to explain as they need to be ‘experienced’ however, I will attempt to try to outline how and when some of the overlaps occur.
Rites of Passage Most ancient cultures had initiation rituals to mark the transition from childhood to adulthood – rites of passage. These could be: a test of endurance or pain; facing a dangerous or terrifying situation; or to be injured or physically marked, such as scarification or tattooing. To face a ritualised manifestation of fear as an individual separate from the community and overcome it. It has been argued that modern society’s increased interest in sadomasochism/tattooing/piercing is due to a subconscious need for people to realise these transition rites in order to create a separate identity for themselves. Today we live in an aseptic, safe environment filled with antibacterial wipes under the protection of ‘health & safety’. Unlike our forbears we have had no horrific wars thrust upon us. Our interest in BDSM is an outlet for primal urges that are suffocated by the act of being civilised. Born out of a need to separate from our sterile, homogenous, materialistic, spiritually void culture.
Often in heavy play scenes the submissive is required to do something they are fearful of, something painful, or mentally challenging, this requirement mirrors ancients rites of passage. These experiences alter you, by facing your fears or doing something you don’t want to do you become something more than you were before, you become greater than the sum of your parts – you have transformed and thus expanded your capacity for being.
A Retreat from Ego The act of submission and service to another, main requirements of a dom/sub scene, both require a repression of the ‘I’ or ‘Ego’ this results in a loss of self and a shift into a state of nothingness/oneness. The ‘I’ or self-centredness of everyday life is put aside, providing a retreat from our exhausting egos. This is a relief for our real ‘self’ and an opportunity for reflection. These benevolent, selfless, giving acts also mirror the tenets of many religions, in the bible it says, “… in humility count others more significant than yourselves” (Phil 2:1-11), thus humility and service to others, increase our self-worth and on an inner level act as a means of spiritual purification.
Another huge aspect of sub/dom play involves the act of worship, doms are put on a pedestal, while subs express or are overwhelmed with reverence and adoration of their created deity. This is all an echo of religious worship to a godhead. We are often drawn to religion in time of need, to feel the protection of an omnipotent parental figure who will always be there for us and we can return to a childlike state.
The Unintended Spiritual Path Read Pt1 Here: Rites of Passage & A Retreat from Ego Read Pt2 Here: Bondage as Meditation & Outer Transformation as a means to Inner Transformation Read Pt3 Here: Beyond Subspace into the Mystic: Mortification of the Flesh & Pain as the Pathway
We’re so pleased to welcome Goddess Anastaxia to The English Mansion. Beautiful, well-travelled and cultured this stunning and super fit Lady is an expert wrestler and face-sitting queen known for her gorgeous legs and powerful thighs. She is also a knowledgable pro-dominatrix specialising in humiliation, foot-worship and roleplay scenes.
Enjoying a peripatetic lifestyle, she is available for sessions worldwide, so check out her schedule as she may be visiting a city near you very soon. She is currently in Hong Kong, SRA China and available for sessions; then she’ll be making her way to Zürich, Switzerland; and from there onto London, UK. See her website Here or More Info Here
You can see Goddess Anastaxia in action right now inside The English Mansion attending our Femdom High-Protocol Gala.
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