BDSM Advice – Dangerous Liaisons: Basic Bondage

Dangerous Liaisons….. Mistress Minerva offers some straightforward information and precautionary advice on Safe BDSM

We all agree that SM scenes should be consensual, but even consensual play can be dangerous. So it is important that we all play games, which are both safe and sane. As both a commercial and lifestyle Mistress for many years, I hope to draw your attention to some common accidents that can happen during SM play and how to avoid them. SM should be safe & fun. Ensure that the only suffering inflicted on or fear experienced by your partner is completely intentional.

Basic Bondage Pointers

These safety pointers and suggestions are only intended for beginners and light players wanting to have fun with erotic bondage play.

Rope is the material most associated with bondage however, it’s pretty heavy going against the skin. I would suggest investing in some leather cuffs/manacles that are fur-lined or padded. They are quick to get on and off and you can use ropes, chain, and clips with them allowing you to quickly change positions and move the subject around easily. Always insure that you can get your captive out of the bonds quickly if necessary. If you are engaging in rope bondage always a good idea to keep a sturdy pair of scissors to hand.

The main problem with bondage is that it can restrict circulation and in extreme situations cause tissue and nerve damage. To tie some one up securely it is not necessary to restrict circulation in order to make it inescapable. Make sure you can always get two fingers under any kind of bonds. Care should always be taken when anything is put around the waist because of the delicate organs beneath the skin. With the neck it is essential that it is not restrictive and that the bond is not tied to anything in case the subject falls over. Be aware that in the throes of passion – heat, sexual excitement, use of amyl nitrite, the neck can expand by up to two inches so any collar, rope etc. that begins loose can end up being too tight.

Unless you are an bondage expert who has an extremely good understanding of their play partner it is best not to leave someone totally alone while bound and it is never safe to leave someone if they are gagged.  Be aware people often panic once they are tied, they can get over hot or start palpitating so it’s essential to always have easy access to them and are able to quickly release them in an emergency.

For some, however, being left in bondage for long periods is what they desire so if you know your partner’s limits well and are going to leave them while still being in the vicinity, here are a few tips: always leave them in a comfortable, supported position – the best positions being lying and sitting down poses; if you are going to leave the room make sure you are always with earshot; you can also leave your captive with an alarm (like an attack alarm or remote doorbell) that can be simply set off; & another excellent safety purchase is a baby monitor, which can be used to monitor you helpless partner from another room.

It’s worth understanding that if a person is standing up or even walking around with any kind of bonds around their ankles or legs; it is easy for them to fall over and seriously hurt themselves. You must always be supporting them or perhaps tie them up standing at the foot of a bed so if they do fall they will fall back on to the bed. Gags are another point of concern and need to be carefully monitored. It is possible for people to start choking especially if they are lying on their backs. Never leave a gagged or fully hooded partner unsupervised. Suspension is an erotic idea but is really not a case of putting a bolt into the ceiling. Suspending a person is extremely dangerous, it is the area of play I have seen cause the most serious accidents during my career. Importantly suspension points must be put up safely, you will need to fully investigate this and buy proper suspension bars and leather equipment to accompany it.

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On The Road To Fetishville

It’s the Summer and the Holidays so it’s time for the fun posts…

All Roads Lead to Fetishville

If there was a fetish town then these would probably be the local road names, pub, shops & amenities…  Oh and these are all real signs & establishments by the way 😉

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Idolatry: Mistress T


Idolatry: The Cult of Mistress T

The illustrious Mistress T has deemed to grace us yet again with her divine presence, all those who already worship this beautiful Mistress understand her power and allure. She is one of the world’s foremost dommes, with her own unique style of ensnaring men and then mercilessly teasing, controlling and abusing them. They find themselves bewildered as they are sexually aroused and teased and yet ruthlessly mocked or cuckolded by her vicious tongue. She smiles sweetly and talks sensually all while delivering her unique unrelenting vituperation.

She is a voracious seductress, a femme fatale with a charm that draws men to her, intelligent and perceptive, her world is a cruel place for the male of the species. Her speciality lies not in physical punishement but in the destruction of the delicate male psyche. And, as such, she loves and excels in humiliation, femdom sex, cuckolding and turned-bi scenarios.

It’s easy to become devoted to Mistress T, to venerate her in idolatrous worship. She’s always at the top of the C4S studios and her personal website is hugely popular because of her superb verbal humiliation, downright filthy imagination and hardcore action. And you can join her cult following by: watching her here at The Mansion; visiting her C4S store here ;  visiting her excellent website here – highly recommended; check out her blog here; or see here for all her links.

So here’s a sneaky peak at just a few of the highlights of her Mansion visit, you’ll be seeing a lot more over the coming months. Click on any image to start the slide show:

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10 Domme Clad Ads


10 Commercial Adverts with Dominant Women
The dominatrix and ‘the dominant woman’ seem to pop up a lot in popular culture especially in advertising, so here are a few of my favourite telly adverts ☺


The Cream of Manchester


Not sure what’s this is selling but who cares! It’s damn sexy.


The Slag of All Snacks – a classic!


Now that’s a shoe fetish ☺


Bombay Bad Boy


Actually tabasco has quite a few uses in S&M I’ve used it myself with impressive results.


Weird science and male guinea pigs wanted – sounds like a medical fetish to me.


The New World Order, I like it – Agent Provocateur


Wodka


Voodoo

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Another Mansion Garden Party

Pony racing at our last Summer Garden Party

Party Time
We’re having another party – a Mansion Garden Party in the afternoon of Saturday the 18th of August. A high protocol event for true, dedicated slaves and maids alike. With 8 resident Mansion mistresses in attendance! There will be cruel games for the Mistresses’ amusement, ponyboy races, food throwing at any punished pilloried slaves, a strapon competition and probably lashings all round 😉

Human Beasts of Burden Wanted!
We have plenty of subs but are particularly interested in any willing ponyboys to pull carts as with so many dommes in attendance we may need a few spares. Also possibly any useful high protocol/submissive/obedient slaves – let me know why you should be here.
So if you’ve always wanted to visit The Mansion this is your chance… All limits respected and CP is not essential.

We have now recieved enough applicants. MSVB

We love parties at The Mansion

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The Inner Circle: Femdom Fiction

The Inner Circle

They caught me on the way to work, a journey I had repeated many times before without incident, a van stopped suddenly as I exited the subway, three people with hoods grabbed me and pressed a handkerchief over my nose, sending me into a quiet, dark place.

When I awoke, my body being bumped, the noise of a screeching engine, I remembered, the back of the van uncomfortable, my arms and legs bound with chains. On the other side of the van I could only see some high heel boots, the rest of the person was in the shade. A teasing, well spoken but sharp voice spoke out,

“Hmm, what do we have here, some new meat for my slave-stable?”

I answered, in a meek, frightened voice, that they have to free me immediately, but laughter was the only answer. Now I recognized, that there were two other women in this van. One of them, very beautiful in black leather with black hair, put a collar around me and another device around my balls and my cock and sat down again on her seat.

“My little slave, I will only explain once, what we expect from you. You will be our slave for as long as we desire. We own you now! If you follow our rules, your suffering will be less or you can try to resist and feel the meaning of pain. The device around your neck and your balls can only be removed by us. We will now unchain you and show you how this works.”

The other gorgeous lady came and opened my chain. Immediately I tried to stand on my feet to open the van door, but an incredible pain in my cock brings me back on the bottom of the van. I formed myself into a ball, because the pain was unbelievable. Laughter arose again.

The voice came forward and for the first time I could see the Mistress. Just her eyes forced me down on my knees and my inner voice said that I would do everything for a woman like her. She showed me a little remote control in her hand.

“Every time you do not follow our rules, you get a little electrical shock. This time it was put on medium, so you better take care what you are doing. Understood?”

“Yes.” She pressed the button again. “You better say: Yes, Mistress” “Yes, Mistress”

“We will now have our five o clock tea with some friends, do what we order and your life will be less miserable.”

After some minutes the van stopped. They told me, that I had to follow them and I got another electrical jolt because I was not following them on my knees. The road was wet, so my smart suit trousers were ruined but nobody cared.

We entered a huge villa and the entrance hall was dominated by two huge staircases leading to the second floor. But I was dragged to a door, which lead to the basement, which was made of stones and brick and filled with cells, in which naked males were locked away. Some were in chains with their arms tied up above their head, some were in tight bondage, only their mouth and cock exposed and some were on all fours, anal hooks and mouth gags keeping them in position. At the end of this hall was an ornate hall, where in large arm-chairs many more gorgeous women were already waiting for us.

The mistress raised her voice,”Welcome everyone to our monthly toy-day. This time we picked up a small ugly rat from the street and we will scientifically examine, how this rat will behave under electrical treatment. It’s a sort of Pavlov’s rat we see today. So, first we would like to enjoy a slow, erotic striptease. Start, rat!”

With this command, she turned the electrical device on. It was not as painful as before, but it brought me to quick attention, if I did not follow her order, I had no doubt at the pain that could follow.

I tried my very best to perform as well as possible and to help me they turned on some music. But pieces by pieces I stripped, the level of pain was getting higher, until I started to forget the embarrassment of this surreal experience, so that when I had only my underpants on, I fell down to grab my pained dick. This was a bad mistake, because the mistress turned it on maximum, shouting that I should not dare to touch her property without her permission.

My pathetic striptease was over, but the play was just starting for her. Now I had to serve them with drinks. For that I had to hold the glasses, bring them to these beautiful women, but was only allowed to crawl, which was not that easy on the cold, hard, stone floor. Every time I failed, I was punished and it was always the honour of that lady, which was nearest to me to decide, which punishment I had to follow. I had no chance to disobey because the electrical device made me follow their cruel ideas.

They used all kinds of whips and paddles, while the favourite game of one mistress was to put her strap-on dildo into me and fuck me. Other tasks were being their human ashtray and using my mouth to get rid of the ash and butts, a real headfuck for a fervent non smoker like me. Another favourite game was to clamp my nipples and put weights on them, making them distend from my chest, biting hard into my tender, sensitive flesh. This went on for many hours and finally I was totally exhausted, yet it was interesting that I somehow liked it, because my dick was hard all the time.

“I would like to see, how it cums!” one Lady suggested. So I was made to stand in the middle of the room and masturbate. To make it more difficult they told me that they will count down and I should not cum before I hear zero. They began counting back very fast but coming to the lower figures they suddenly slowed down, so that my cum burst out too early and I couldn’t stop it. “Oh, you failed. Lick it up and then we do it again!” When I bent down to lick it, I felt the first stroke on my bottom from a stinging cane. “This is just to help you in getting it done. We do not want to wait too long.”

So, I had to masturbate another time and I failed. This game started again and after that there was nothing more to cum. That’s why I am now sitting here in a cell, my nipples and backside raw and a chastity device round my cock, ready to be used again as a toy for the ladies, whenever they call…

by slave chump

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