The Rise of the Cougar Domme

5 Reasons Why Older Dommes are Pretty Awesome
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1. Sexual Confidence
2. Technical Ability
3. Sex Drive
4. Chic Sophistication
5. Experience

So what is a Cougar? It’s a sexually predatory older woman who knows what she wants… and how to get it. Cougars are part of a new breed of mature single women who don’t necessarily want children, cohabitation or commitment. It’s female empowerment for women over 40. And there are plenty of men their age and younger who are willing to be taken advantage of.

Today’s women in their 40s are healthy with great bodies and look younger than ever with nutritious diets, fitness regimes and advances in non-invasive cosmetic surgery. The aim is not to look younger, just to look amazing for your age. Older women are often skilled sexually, fabulous in bed, sexually liberated in ways younger women may find eye-opening and can probably teach their younger partners a thing or two.

So naturally all Cougars are Dommes at heart: and all older Dommes are Cougars 🙂 And we mustn’t forget Pumas women in their 30s & Jaguars women in their 50s who are also pretty accomplished dominatrixes. So here are…

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Style, sophistication, elegance and legs that go on & on… Goddess Zena

5 Reasons Why Older Dommes Are Pretty Awesome

1. Sexual Confidence
In your youth you need to take time exploring your sexuality and discovering your preferences, finding out what you like. Well you don’t know till you’ve tried it. Older dommes have probably had a “few” sexual and play partners which is going to make them well versed in their desires. You need considerable maturity and sexual confidence to know what you want – in order to be able to command someone else to give it to you!

2. Technical Ability
Let’s face it a lot of BDSM is super technical: electrics; suspension & mummification; enemas; milking & fucking machines – are just some of the classic ‘tools’ of the trade. It takes years, with many hours of practice (and many horrible messy mistakes, with perhaps a trip to A&E) to become totally adept.

Mistress-T-DominatrixPuma on her way to Cougarhood, Viturperess and Queen of Tease Mistress T

3. Sex Drive
I don’t know if it’s hormonal but I know from experience a woman’s sex drive increases as she matures and the desire is for quality, satisfying encounters. Scientific studies argue that the rise of the cougar, an older woman’s desire for more and more sex, it’s just an unconscious primal last chance for a bambino. For me, I can attest it’s just more and better sex!

4. Chic Sophistication
Older dommes are killer dressers, after years of outfit faux pas, they now know what suits them. (They’ve done the purple hair, extensions, shaved bits and panda eyed goth look.) Plus they know what trappings turn men on and how to use their attire as part of a seduction.

5. Experience
Older dominatrixes have seen it all before, they’ve got the T-shirt, nothing is going to shock or embarrass them. When someone tells me a little about what they are interested in (or what they don’t!) I immediately know other areas they will love before they do, years of experience have shown me how certain fetishes compliment each other. I have the skill, the confidence and the experience to effortlessly take them on an awesome adventure. Trust me – I can still blow a sub’s mind in a hotel room at 3am with some toothpaste, the cord from a dressing gown, a bottle from the mini bar and a rolled up copy of a travel magazine 🙂

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Fashionista, rubber elegance personified and technical BDSM expert Miss Velour

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Shakespearean Femdom

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Today, the 23rd April 2016, marks the 400th anniversary of the death of celebrated English playwright & poet William Shakespeare. I have always been struck as to how beautifully his sonnet no.57 (published just before his death in 1609) encapsulates the desires of a true submissive. The need to serve; to worship her as a queen or goddess; and to wait as a cuckold, existing only for her pleasure.

Sonnet LVII
Being your slave, what should I do but tend
Upon the hours and times of your desire?
I have no precious time at all to spend,
Nor services to do, till you require.
Nor dare I chide the world-without-end hour
Whilst I, my sovereign, watch the clock for you,
Nor think the bitterness of absence sour
When you have bid your servant once adieu;
Nor dare I question with my jealous thought
Where you may be, or your affairs suppose,
But, like a sad slave, stay and think of nought
Save, where you are how happy you make those.
So true a fool is love that in your will,
Though you do any thing, he thinks no ill.

 

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Lady Nina’s Special Feminisation Regime Pt3

Tiffany_Real_DollWe’ve been honoured at The English Mansion to be given exclusive access to Lady Nina Birch’s Special Feminisation Regime, which we will post here over the next few months. This is an extensive, light-hearted guide and an essential read for all Ladies & special girls who want to engage in the world of feminisation. Lady Nina Birch is the UK’s foremost feminatrix with many years of experience and extensive knowledge on crossdressing and full-feminisation.

 Naming & House Uniforms

Part 3 Choosing his New Name & Outfitting him

So now it’s time to up-the-ante and decide on his first ‘house uniform’ – this is what he has to slip into as soon as he gets home, (unless you have laid out something ‘special’ for him). It can be as slutty or as frilly as you want. Ask your girlfriends for suggestions, by this time some of them should be secretly ‘breaking in’ their partners. Purchase some fantastic fake breasts they feel like the real thing and have sexy realistic nipples. You could add a corset or waist nipper to any of these outfits to correct his posture. Or perhaps a chastity device to truly enforce his femininity and lock away forever his former manhood.

Once his outfit has been chosen this is now the time to give him his new fem name, this will take away his last vestiges of masculinity. Choose something suitably humiliating like Marigold, Lulu or Fifi. Use it always! Even in public as that will get heads turning and his face flushing with embarrassment. It’s revenge time now ladies and no name is too degrading or embarrassing.

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House Uniform Options

Slut
Red PVC or leather mini-skirt, black fishnet stockings, black PVC knee-boots or red shiny platform shoes, black transparent body or blouse, red lacy bra and panties. Apply heavy make-up, including cock-sucking juicy red lipstick and a long platinum wig. (If he’s cheated on you in the past then this is most definitely the outfit for him!)

Sissy
Candy pink short satin dress, lilac or pink ultra frilly pants, preferably with satin bows on, but if you can’t get these you can send him to the haberdashery department; his sewing skills will now come to fruition. Finish with white lace-top stockings, pink or lilac multi-strap suspender belt or a corselet, blonde ringlet wig with some little bows tied in. For footwear pink or white ‘Mary-Jane’ shoes.

College Slut
Black or white over the knee socks, short pleated kilt or skirt (any colour you think brings out his eyes), a tight white blouse, full white transparent bra and panties, breasts (you should be able to just see the nipples showing through the material) highlighted brown long wig, tied in cute bunches and platform wedge shoes.

Classic Maid
Black satin maids dress, white frilly bibbed apron, white satin frilly panties, black or flesh  stockings, smart black court shoes, white lace cap, black or brunette bobbed wig.

Fetish Maid
Black PVC short dress, white PVC short apron, black fishnet stockings, PVC suspender belt & panties, patent high heels, blonde shoulder length wig.

More dressing notes: By now you should have enforced his full body shaving routine; eyebrow shaping; hand, skin and nail care; and exchanged his aftershave & toiletries for the more feminine ‘perfumed’ kinds.

I will continue this in Pt4 – Coming Soon. Lady Nina  x
© Lady Nina Birch

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Cruel Intentions: Bully Girl Miss Analisa

Young Humiliatrix Bully Girl – Miss Analisa

Here at The English Mansion we always bring you the world’s most superior and cruel women, all of whom genuinely play in their personal lives and many are available for 1 on 1 sessions. The adorable Miss Analisa is a resident Mansion domina coming along to many Mansion soirées and regularly featuring in our content, usually she’s up to no good as this young lady always has rather cruel intentions when our subs are to hand.

Miss Analisa is a truly striking and beautiful domina, petite with a mischievous charm, she carries an alternative look, covered with artistic tattoos and a few discreet piercings; probably why she is also a top, internationally published model appearing in alternative & tattoo magazines. Although young, she is extremely experienced and has forged her very own unique style of domination, where she focuses on humiliating men, she calls them her play pets. Pets she can tease or bully to her hearts desire.

For Miss Analisa totally understands the nature of humiliation and enjoys the power it gives her and despite her youth, she is self-assured, confident and totally able in her abilities to make you suffer, squirm and blush – a total natural. She adores verbal humiliation, CBT and foot worship but mainly your suffering is a means to amuse her and make her laugh.

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You can watch Miss Analisa at her most cruel, right now inside The English Mansion

Miss Analisa specialises in: Humiliation & Verbal Humiliation; CBT; Young Dom/Bully Girl; & Foot Worship. More Info.
Some photos courtesy of Bilacous & Em Coulter Photography

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Mistress Sidonia’s Musings on Decadent Desires

MistressSidoniavonBork Portrait of Mistress Sidonia von Bork by Sardax. I love the symbolism of the doorway, taking centre stage here, and to where our eyes are drawn (after admiring the stunning Mistress is the foreground, obviously 🙂 ) Doorways open new possibilities, hide secrets, or can be frightening, we don’t know who or what’s behind a door.

I always wanted to own a male sex slave. I used to fantasize about going to a slave auction and buying a slave to train up as my own. I would walk up and down the chained line of goods looking carefully at each in turn. Making them open their mouths to examine their tongues, or bend them over to view their bottoms. I loved imagining how embarrassed they’d look and their humiliation as I paid particular attention to inspecting their genitals. I would eventually choose a slave and bid for him in the auction, nothing would prevent me from obtaining the slave I had chosen. After paying I would walk up to my new purchase, attach a chain to his neck and drag him off. Then my fun would really start…

For me, domination is not a lifestyle but a liaison. A secret time and space where I can let the dark part of myself roam free. I use those who wish to become initiates into my world. This is a universe where my laws, desires and wishes rule. Here eroticism is bound up with power and femininity. I dominate men because I am a woman, because that is my power, to seduce, to tease, to manipulate – all men are weak when it comes to gratification. It is a scent that is irresistible to them; it intoxicates and turns them into faithful, obedient ‘lap’ dogs. My title of Mistress comes later for I am a woman, and my slaves will learn firstly, to kneel and worship at that altar.

slaves-mantraWomen are magnificent, intelligent, intuitive creatures with intense, dark depths rippling beneath their exteriors. Men will always be merely toys to use and abuse as I wish. They are only truly happy once they are dangling like puppets on a woman’s invisible string; mesmerized by her all-inspiring beauty and perfection, something he must strive always to obtain but knows he never shall.

The male of the species must learn to control his desires through guidance or, if necessary, chastity devices. His seed shall only be spent for my pleasure, draining him of his life force and leading him unto ‘le petit mort’. I find the period before his release the moment when I am most able to captivate him. To control and train him to my exacting, strict and high standards. He must learn that he has become a mere object for my pleasure. He no longer has needs or desires of his own but must put me, my whims and desires foremost in his thoughts and actions.

msvb-english-mansionIt is thrilling to have a slave so completely bound that he cannot move; even to breathe he is at my mercy. Now I can torment freely until he begs – yet still I ignore. I can use completely and then discard once I am satisfied or bored. He lives lost in the darkness awaiting me so that he might live again. To hood and collar the slave is to take away his last sense of self – his face is gone, covered. He becomes a new creature at the end of my chain, no longer anything except that which I wish him to become. I will change his name and torment him until he is broken to my will. He no longer remembers his life outside my world, it is a blur. He jumps when I snap my fingers, a Pavlovian success. His training has been long and arduous and has remade him into my ideal. Indoctrinated into my law with painful remonstrations that have seeped into his very psyche, he no longer thinks but obeys.

Mistress Sidonia’s musing continue in The Song of the Siren coming soon.

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Sidonia’s Prison For Slaves: Femdom Fiction

Sidonia’s Prison For Slaves

Mistress Sidonia von Bork was well known at the auction house for slaves. Every Thursday afternoon she would cut the crowds to silence as she swept through the slave gallery hunting Her prey. They all new what she was looking for, and she was hard to please. Only occasionally after much inspection of the pathetic men did she take possession. She pushed aside the other bidders to get directly at some male that looked as though he could be trained. Thrusting forward she would have him kneel and throw back his head so that she could examine his mouth with a stick. The slaves would groan at the discomfort but much worse was to come when she grabbed and firmly felt the wretch’s balls. By the time she asked for a display of his erect penis these sad creatures were delighted to oblige; for it didn’t hurt. No one would get in her way or try to stop her treating the men this way.

It was my bad luck, I felt, to be on show and for sale this Thursday as the Mistress approached. Maybe I looked pathetic to Her, maybe she saw a glimpse of intelligence in me. She knew of course that the more intelligent and aware her subject the more he would suffer as she broke him. I was inspected. She seemed especially interested in how well I squealed as she crushed my balls in her strong and well practiced hand. Having pleased herself with that reaction she wrenched my nipples and watched my cock rise. It was then, as she watched my member that a tiny, almost invisible, smile broke around her mouth. Her eyes were magnetic, I just had to stare into them, and she stared back. She said nothing, but as she squeezed my nipples even harder …just a tiny sigh; then a very faint smile broke as though she realised too much was already revealed.

Time passed until I was presented to the crowd for auction. She stepped to the front and, as soon as the bidding opened She cried out, ‘That is mine, five pounds’. It was money way beyond any other bidding so far that day. The crowd was silent, no one would match the bid. Throwing the money at the collector she lunged forward and grabbed my neck chain from my guard and dragged me out of the gallery.

We rode in her coach for some time. I was commanded to curl around her feet to keep them warm. I wore no clothing and was very cold. As we drove the evening came, day turned to night. The coach stopped and the horse’s bridled. She lifted one foot and pushed me across the carriage floor away from her, steeping out into the dark air.

‘Follow pathetic male’ she ordered, and I did despite my coldness and increasing hunger, ‘Follow at my knee’. We passed slowly down a lit pathway. I was straining my head up to see her beautiful face as the pools of light and shadows passed across it. She was indeed so beautiful, very very beautiful. She glanced down at me. I looked quickly down to the floor and felt honoured. We stopped. All was quiet. Then from ahead I heard a moan, then another lower moan. She told me to look up. We were at the entrance to a large stone built room, a little like the inside of a church. Then I saw the source of the moans. At each side of the large room were raised pathways. Poles fixed between the path and the roof supported people…men…slaves. They were partly clothed in some dark material, their genitals displayed. They all looked in agony. ‘Good evening worthless slaves’ She opined. Heads turned and bowed ‘Good evening our Mistress’ they coursed in a well rehearsed manner.

We walked on down the length of the room with the slaves elevated above us. Now I could see that a pipe work system ran down the poles to where each slave was secured. Each was manacled at his feet and secured back to the pole. His hands were restrained together behind the pole, only his head was free to move. Then I saw as we moved on that the pipe work was attached to the slave, it ran into his arse! I stared in disbelief but I had been seen. A sharp hand slapped me on the side of my head to return my gaze to straight ahead and we moved through the wooden door and into the lower part of a tower.

A spiral staircase lay ahead and my Mistress beckoned me forwards. I stood up to ascend the stairs and the wroth of hell descended on my erroneous head. ‘Knees, crawl’ She shouted at the top of he voice, reverberating in the stonework. I crawled and we arrived in an attic above the slave room. She sat on a throne like chair and directed me to kneel at her feet. We stared into each other’s eyes for a few meaningful seconds. Now she spoke to me; ‘you are Mine’ she said as a fact, a fact I would not deny. ‘Yes Mistress’ I instinctively replied. ‘Shortly you will join my other slaves below’. ‘I call one of them according to My needs. If you perform well and please me you will be called most often. If you fail to please me I may send you to the cells’.

I paused thinking if I dare ask, but I did ‘The cells Mistress what are these’. To my surprise She gave me an answer. ‘We passed them as we walked by the slaves. Look’, she opened a trapdoor in the floor and we could see the slaves below. ’There in the wall beneath their useless feet, see the bars’ I did. The 4 or 5 feet of wall beneath the raised pathways of slaves contained a barred window. ‘That’s where you will go if you fail to please me’. I pondered how being in the cell could be worse than being manacled to the pole and attached to a pipe.

‘Now my boots are dirty from this afternoon’s outing, clean them with your tongue’. I promptly shone the boots. As I worked She spoke again. ‘ I need to name you. I have a system for naming my slaves. She glanced to a list on the wall. ‘You will be ‘122’’.

‘Guards’ she shouted, ‘Take the new and pitiful creature,122, to the slave gallery. Install him such that he will receive food’. Two heavy men hurried me down the stairs and tightly bound me to a pole, arms and feet. In a final act one held the pipe whilst the other pushed me back onto it, I screamed and fell silent with the others.

A little while passed, the trapdoor lifted and the room echoed to ‘Guards, 122’. I was taken down and rushed to the Mistress. ‘I want you to see how I feed my slaves 122’. Fetch that bucket from by the stove. Good now look away’. I did as she bid and heard a sound that made me think she was urinating in the bucket. ‘Look now slave’. She had added her offering to a mostly full bucket of urine. ‘See now; empty the bucket into this funnel’. I did, and as I did, I realised what was happening, the clue was the groaning from below. ‘Yes that’s right’ She said, ‘straight into their arses. This is what they get to eat, you can have yours later when you are desperate for food’.

‘I leave it a while then have more water funneled down to them’. ‘You are generous Mistress’ I replied’. ‘Yes slave, bountiful indeed, but you see there is another purpose. Their arses grow full, they moan, I love the moans, so many, so loud. Eventually one of them will leak the contents of his bowels and quickly the others will follow as more water goes down. Then what happens?’. ‘If it pleases you Mistress…I don’t know’ I said meekly. ‘I dare say YOU don’t, but the poor wretches in the cells do..ha.’ She laughed for all She was worth and had the Guards poor in the water. The moaning came, then squeals, then a dreadful smell came up though the trapdoor. ‘Look down slave’. I saw horrid trails of faeces running down and into the cells. Now weak groans and complaints came from the cells. It was repulsive. ‘See; ALL slaves are fed’.

She was excited, and had me grovel in front of Her whilst She caned me harder and harder. Overcome by excitement she called in the guards to take me below onto the pole. ‘You have pleased me 122. Guards, see that he is fed twice as much as the others’.

by Rod

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