Mistress Sidonia's Femdom Blog

Adventures in Bondageland

Posted on 03/10/2013 by Mistress Sidonia

Kept In Bondage for 48 Hours
One of my personal loves is bondage, particularly when it is elaborate and inescapable. It’s a huge turn-on for me for have a slave totally at my mercy, hooded, suspended, dehumanised, turned into a new creation for me to toy with. I’m also fascinated with Sendep (Sensory Deprivation) scenes and have experimented with mummification, white-noise, ear plugs, extreme hoods and other devices to achieve the most extreme effects. Interestingly, it can sometimes unexpectedly become a spiritual experience and not just a sexual one for the player.

I have a huge number of bondage fantasies, many so unusual they require me to build my own equipment/devices or have them commissioned for me. So a few weeks ago I started building some new kit for an elaborate session I had planned for one of my slaves. I had decided I was going to keep him in complete bondage for 48 hours basically an entire weekend. Starting on the Friday evening and finishing on the Sunday evening, with long periods in sendep and two overnights in bondage.

Croquet Anyone?
I had something special planned for the Saturday with some metal hoops (which were hacksawed down), these were hammered into the ground and used in conjunction with steel bondage ball mittens & head ball. These were recently made for me by AllNaughtyFunForYou and I was looking forward to trying them out. I also had a grill put onto one side of the head ball (not visible in this photo) which allows some access to the sub – perfect for this weekend’s scene as it allowed me to pee in his face and then leave him with the aroma for a few hours.

Most of the preparation for the weekend was building the Sendep box which I wanted to use in two different ways: firstly, for extreme mummification where I had the idea of using foam to prevent the sub having any movement while wrapped; secondly, for an extreme sendep scene where I used 4 insertable pillories to further isolate and immobilise the boxed sub. I had also evilly decided to use it as a pain box – as my sub would be left for 4 hours in complete sendep to heighten the pain sensations, mainly from electrics that I left him in. It was hugely sexy for me knowing he was left like that, in the box, in such torment.

It was actually quite a complicated process, and this was the second attempt with both the box and foam as it initially needed a rough prototype to work out how best to build and use it.

The bondage below (and 1st photo above) worked really well – seat-belt webbing, industrial staple gun and a huge board (so big it had to be delivered by B&Q), it was easy to adapt/change and completely inescapable. I used it in conjunction with my F-Machine which I love, it’s so flexible and easy to use. Perfect for leaving my poor subbie strapped down and left being fucked for a few hours.

strapping-bondage-torment

The slave slept in my purpose-built cell on the Saturday night, hooded in chains under the watchful eye of my webcam but on the Friday I decided to leave him locked up overnight in the outdoor underground slave pit. I did have a few concerns about the build up of CO2 and hypothermia (it was the end of September) but luckily it was a mild night and I checked on him throughout. Though I don’t think he had much sleep leaving him nice and pliable for more abuse the next day 🙂

You’ll be able to see ‘some’ of what happened over the weekend in upcoming movies showing at The English Mansion (unfortunately some of the play would be too much for the censors).

Posted in -Femdom Films News, -MSVB's Wicked Exploits, Bondage, Top EngMan Films | Tagged bondage, gags, hoods, mummification, sendep, sensory deprivation | 3 Comments

A Ponyboy’s Life Pt2: Femdom Fiction

Posted on 29/09/2013 by Mistress Sidonia

A Ponyboy’s Life Pt 2 – An English Mansion Story
(Read Part 1 Here)
I was now ten months into my ‘work contract’, when the big day I had sensed was looming – finally arrived. My employer put me into a new, elaborate, body and head harness which incorporated a metal cock cage and my arms were pulled back and strapped up. Today it had been ‘tarted’ up with lots of red ribbons. Attached to it was a bit gag for my mouth, eye-blinkers, reins and a special saddle. A huge anal plug with a long black tail was inserted. I now understood why I had been made to sleep with bigger and bigger plugs each night for the last month. Lastly, she clamped little bell clips to my nipples that jangled when I moved. I could see my employer was very pleased with her new creation – Me!

After a long ride in the back of a dark truck, I was pulled out by the reins, my eyes blinked to get used to the light. And what a sight! There were maybe 10-12 men like myself all harnessed up each with female owners fussing over them, some were even being petted. I was taken to a paddock and left chained up. Eventually my employer collected me, she looked stunning, wearing tight jodhpurs, shiny riding boots, a crisp see-thru tight white blouse and stock that showed her very ample breasts. She held a long cruel whip in her hand and wore spurs on her boots. Taking me to a block she mounted me, (I now knew what the weights on my back had been for), then rode me around the arena, showing me off to the other ladies there.

Cruel Spurs at The English Mansion

Something seemed to be happening, there was a flurry and all the ponymen were lined up each with a Lady riding them. I realised it was a race, I heard a pop and felt my employer urge me on just like our months of training. I acted on impulse and streaked ahead. I could see a board saying 10 laps and around I went. At 6, I then felt her whip on my rump and the crowd of onlookers shouting and cheering. By the time it said 2, I was exhausted pouring with sweat but now there were only two other ponymen keeping up with me, it was close, her whip kept bearing down urging me on cracking loudly on my sore backside. One lap to go just me and one other head to head, it was then I felt her spurs and I made that last push and she had won. Cheers everywhere. I wanted to collapse but collected myself. I was taken back to the paddock area, lots of the other ladies came to look at me, poking and groping.

That was almost two months ago and I have strangely started to enjoy my simple life of obedience to Her. Out of the blue I was taken to her office, she informed me our agreement was at an end, a year had passed. I didn’t want to go, I didn’t care about the money, I had nothing to go back to. I begged her to stay on, on any terms she wanted. She seemed pleased and said yes she would keep me for another year but now another line of training would have to be explored…

Posted in -Fiction & Writting, English Mansion Short Stories | Tagged back riding, head harness, ponyboy, riding mistress, riding slaves | 2 Comments

Well Hello, Dominant Dolly!

Posted on 20/09/2013 by Mistress Sidonia

As I have often expounded, domination/bsdm takes many forms usually guided by the practitioner, as different dominas each embrace their own unique style of domination. We are therefore pleased at The English Mansion to welcome a very special dominatrix T-Girl Dominant Dolly.

Dominant Dolly is the TV Mistress who has ‘everything’. She specialises in TV/CD dressing, bondage and humiliation and of course is perfect subs who want to improve their cock sucking/worship training. She loves teaming up with other strapon clad Mistresses giving poor subbies the ultimate ‘spitroast’ experience; or after training him on their strapon they can improve his cocksucking with the real thing, getting right up-close to make sure the subbie is working hard, ‘whipping’ him along if necessary.

Watch Dominant Dolly in action at The English Mansion.
Dominant Dolly has limitied availablility for 1 2 1 sessions.
Visit her Website here: http://www.dominantdolly.com or HERE for more details

Posted in -Prodoms, Crossdressing & Sissies, Dominant Dolly | Tagged crossdressing, dolly hood, rubber doll, sissy, tgirl, transformation, transvestite, Xdressing | 1 Comment

The Puppy Dog Tail – A Few of My Favourite Things No.7

Posted on 13/09/2013 by Mistress Sidonia

I’m going to pick out my 10 favourite English Mansion toys and tell you all about them in a series of blogs called ‘These are a Few of My Favourite Things’. So in no particular order:
No. 7 – The Puppy Dog Tail

The puppy dog tail – well they say necessity is the mother of all invention – and what’s more important than a wagging dog tail for the human slave puppy! Made of black rubber it’s also a butt plug which ensures it is positioned in exactly the right spot.
It’s a mastery of engineering and who knows what mathematics it took to create this perfect wagging motion – because what’s special about this butt plug is that the motion of the wearer causes it to wag.

Simple Harmonic Kinetic Energy of a Pendulum

You really need to see the tail in action – so here’s a little clip of it in an upcoming Mansion movie – Rubber Puppy with Miss Kinky Dirty Bitch & Lady Nina Birch (now showing), the photos for the poster are from Lexi’s New Puppy with Goddess Lexi (now showing).

Goddess Lexi with her pup

Check out the A Pup’s Tail website with our friend Pup K http://pupstail.com Woof Woof 🙂 Buy Dog Tail UK here & here ~ Buy Dog Tail US here

Posted in -Favourite BDSM Toys | Tagged butt plug dog tail, human animals, human dog, human puppy, puppy dog tail, puppy play, rubber dog, rubber puppy | Comments Off

A Gilded Cage

Posted on 07/09/2013 by Mistress Sidonia

Mistress Sidonia was recently presented with a beautiful, ornate Birdcage as a gift. It’s actually much more than a unique bdsm cage, it’s an objet d’art, a stunning sculpture with beautiful detailing on the metal work, which was all produced by hand. Each piece of metal bar was individually hammered to create the texture, the cage was then painted, first of all in black, then highlighted using bronze.

It’s ideal for elaborate outside bondage/suspension play. It also has a (removable) little swing inside making it perfect for leaving pretty little Sissies elegantly tied up. We now have some where to put the ‘maid’ when she’s not wanted during our next garden party plus she’ll make a nice display for all the guests.

It was was designed and created byby Paul Grahame, Master blacksmith at Red Hot Forge a company based in the North of England specialising in bespoke BDSM iron work, they describe it as ‘furniture you become attached to….’

Red Hot Forge can make any piece to suit individual requirements, any enquiries should be directed to Paul where he will be happy to discuss your design & requirements with utmost confidentiality .

It you look closely at the cage it has a rather rude locking pin, I have included a close up of it here on the top left-hand side of this photo.

Here’s a little home made clip of my rubber dolly maid left chained up in the cage 🙂

Posted in -Femdom Films News, Bondage | Tagged bespoke furniture, birdcage, cage, ornate cage, rubber maid, Xdressing maid | 2 Comments

Human Pets & Puppies

Posted on 02/09/2013 by Mistress Sidonia

This month at The English Mansion we’re featuring human pets, focusing on puppies and doggies – though there are also kittens, birdies, ponies and piggies. Role playing an animal can have a huge appeal – animals don’t speak or think, or even walk upright. They are owned and trained to be obedient, but also loved and even pampered. You can let go of your humanity and immerse yourself in a new alien mindset. There are obvious parallels to slavery within animal play, most notably the collar & leash and the desire to be owned.

The psychology of human animal role-play generally falls into two categories: those who love immersing themselves into the role of a human animal and who relish being dressed up and trained to become the best they can be (Pampered Pets); and those who are turned into animals by their cruel Mistresses as a means to totally humiliate and literally dehumanise them (Dehumanised Animals). (These examples show two opposing aspects of the psychology however there is much cross-over and most of the actualities of the play is the same.)

Pampered Pets
Firstly, there are those who want to play at or become a human animal, most usually a dog or puppy. What appeals to them and their ‘owners’ is the innate characteristics of the animals’ nature that come into play, these being: obedience; loyalty; devotion; total reliance on their owners, instinctively wanting to please; and the need to be trained.

Pampered Pups tend to be younger and enjoy being playful and petted. Well behaved human pups can also be quite pampered by adoring dom owners and shown off in public. I was once quite jealous when I saw an amazing well trained human Dalmatian puppy walking around Erotica one year.

Dehumanised Animals
This is where a useless, old or disobedient slave is turned by his Mistress into a dog or pig to totally break and humiliate him. It’s the end of the line, he is no longer even a lowly slave, from now on he’s not even human any more. He will no longer be able to talk or walk upright. If necessary he can be kept gagged and put in hobble chains (chains that are not long enough for you to stand in). He will eat her scraps from a bowl on the floor (mittens can be used to stop him using his hands). This can be an extreme punishment/humiliation for a slave, he may have already lost much of his sense of self, his name ect. but now he will not even be treated as human anymore.

Dressing The Part
Pampered Pets love to dress the part -you can now buy some amazing kit: doggie hoods; (bondage) paw mittens; (inserted) tails, even wagging tails (see my blog next week about these); muzzle gags – all which act to transform you into a human animal. Helping you let go of yourself and your human traits and allow you to immerse yourself into becoming something totally different.

At The English Mansion in 2013 we’re having Special Feature Months, this month we’re featuring Pet & Puppies with special films, blogs & fiction – so get ready for these films starting this month Rubber Puppy with Miss Kinky Dirty Bitch & Lady Nina and Lexi’s New Puppy with Goddess Lexi.

Take a peak at a PupsTail.com, a puppy I’ve had the pleasure of training!
Highly Recommended 🙂 Here are some fabulous photos of the pup bound, caged and chained up in the gardens of The English Mansion