Spank You Very Much: Basic CP Tips Pt1

Mistress Courtney plays an interesting CP game called ‘Spin’


Spank You Very Much: Basic CP Tips Pt1

What is CP?

Corporal punishment literally means ‘physical punishment of the body’. Historically, CP was most commonly administered either institutionally as part of a judicial sentence or school discipline, or domestically to correct servants and children. We no longer see fit to physically punish the body and have dispensed with it as a means to correct the wayward. However, many people still find this intense physical act and the theatre surrounding it incredibly erotic and sexually arousing.

For some people, CP is just a fun, pleasurable, erotic sensation that can be enjoyed as part of sexual foreplay. For others it is bound up within punishment fantasies characterised by some kind of power play where one person has to submit to the will of the other. Those with masochistic leanings enjoy it purely for the intense painful sensations it can produce. And lastly there are those for whom CP is one element in a much larger submissive fantasy or scenario.


A Basic CP Technique

Always warm the area to be beaten first. Build up the intensity of the slaps and strokes, even during the warm up. Do not always hit the same spot. Alter where you let the slaps or strokes fall. With bottoms, aim to cover the whole of the buttocks. Be aware that with right-handed dominants there is a tendency for the right cheek to get all the punishment (and vice versa for the left handed). Pace your strokes; for a spanking, you need to develop a nice constant rhythm. When using heavier implements, such as the cane or a single tail whip, give the recipient a chance to recover between strikes. Any implement that you use for CP can cause serious damage to someone, so it is your responsibility to know how to use it safely. Only use equipment you have some familiarity with. Practice first using a pillow. Understand how it handles and perfect your aim. When using implements, be accurate. Use soft practice shots to begin with to check your aim.

Always be aware where the tip of an implement is landing. There is nothing worse for the submissive than bending over for a good thrashing with a dominant that lets the tip overshoot. This will cause the implement to wrap around the hips or sides of the body. This will leave heavy marks all around the Sub’s body, cause excruciating pain (of the wrong kind) and result in a very disappointed Sub. A good Dominant will measure the stroke before delivering it and ensure that the tip of the implement lands just over three-quarters of the way across the surface of the furthest bottom cheek. (See Fig.1)

Some men often forget that, although they can take anything a woman can give them, it is not always the case that the woman can take anything the man cares to dish out. The obvious reason behind this is that women do not have the same upper body strength to give out a beating and they are often smaller in stature to receive punishment. So men, try to be aware of your own physical strength as you can beat far harder than is reasonable or necessary.

Princess Aurora knows how to take these special ladies in hand

Always buy and use proper and appropriate CP equipment. Much of the equipment from regular sex shops is rubbish. Try to buy good quality equipment from specialists; they can give good advice and will have a much wider range of implements. Never use any piece of equipment half-heartedly, because that actually makes it more painful. Just use it properly and not excessively.

Control what you give out. If you want to give a harder stroke, then give it, but be in control – don’t let it be accidental. Practice tapping at the bottom and increasing the intensity, practice soft, medium and hard strokes. Don’t just thrash away without any thought to your technique and ability. Learn to use different pieces of equipment differently. There are parts of the body that should never be beaten, the head, the neck, the spine, the shins, any joints and the coccyx (the tail bone – found at the very base of the spine). The back can be a very erogenous place to beat but it is essential to avoid striking the spine directly and the kidneys – that is the area between the bottom of the ribcage and the pelvis. (See Fig.2)

You can beat the palms of the hands and the soles of the feet but be aware that both areas contain delicate bones which can easily be broken. You should, therefore, only use very light instruments for these areas and as both are full of nerve endings, even light instruments will have a very satisfactory effect.

Treat distinct parts of the body differently. The more fleshy an area the more punishment it can take. For example, the back is quite different from the buttocks. Different pieces of equipment are more suited to certain areas than others. It is also worth considering that people have different preferences, towards implements. This will affect their ability to receive punishment from them. Never thrash anyone excessively, beating is not a competition about force! As the dominant partner you need to determine what the Submissive can take. Judge from the colour of their bottom or flesh, from their reactions once you know them and most importantly from communicating with them. Ideally you can caress and rub the bottom or area being beaten during and after punishment.

Miss Woods, Miss Birch & Miss Harper are running a ‘Ladies Who Spank Men’ coffee morning

Remember pain is a relative concept and not a constant. It is something that can change from day to day. If the victim is tired, stressed or is a woman who is menstruating they will be far less able to handle the pain of a thrashing. So you can never be completely sure of what your play partner can take and must always monitor them closely.


Post Punishment

Once the punishment or scenario is over it can be nice for the Dom to offer to rub some kind of soothing cream into the Submissive’s sore bottom. I think the best creams are foot balms as they often contain cooling ingredients such as peppermint oil. You can even keep these lotions in the fridge so they are ice cold before you apply them. Dominants, remember you have the ability to give a pleasurable and erotic experience or you can put someone off CP for life.

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VR 180° 3D Femdom Experiences – Spring 2023

Femdom VR: 3D 180° Virtual Reality Experiences

We now have over 230 diverse femdom 3D 180° VR Experiences. That’s over 35 hrs of VR films, featuring 25 different, gorgeous dominatrices & dominant women. You can get closer than ever before to your favourite domme, you can serve and worship them as their virtual slave/sub/toy and find out what it’s really like to be at the feet of a beautiful, truly dominant woman.

Over 230 Experiences Available
Virtual Reality is an immersive video experience, it has similarities with the 3D films you have watched at the cinema but it’s more personal and engaging. Wearing a special headset you enter a three-dimensional setting which you can explore and interact with – you are no long a passive observer but part of the action. Our new & exclusive POV Femdom Virtual Reality Experiences will place you literally in the room with magnificent dominant women. It’s a totally mind-blowing, immersive 3D femdom encounter!

Top Virtual Reality Encounters
Popular encounters include: JOI, CEI, Extreme Verbal Humiliation, Chastity Play, Boot Worship, Foot/Pantyhose/Heel Worship, Smoking, Goddess Worship, Virtual Strapon Sucking, Virtual Cock Sucking/Cum Facials, Slave Training, Virtual CBT & NT, Lady Boss/Dom Wife Scenarios, Xdressing & Sissy Transformations.

So if this is new concept to you, why not think about treating yourself to a headset this coming Xmas. It may open a whole new femdom virtual world…

Mansion VR Experiences
Recent 3D Virtual Reality Experiences updates
all Now Showing inside our Members’ Area

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Top Dom: Mistress Courtney

Meet Resident English Mansion Dominas
The English Mansion always invites the world’s top dominas to come over, stay and play! We thought we should salute the very best of them and show you some of their finest moments. So here’s the absolutely stunning Mistress Courtney…

Top Dom: Mistress Courtney
Mistress Courtney is one of the UK’s premier dominatrices, she’s a prodom, fetishist, model and accomplished kink producer. Cultured and educated, the petite and very beautiful Courtney is a warm, approachable genteel lady, as well as a sadistic seductress – it’s an intoxicating mixture! She is always immaculately attired, elegant, stylish and smartly coiffed – and possesses an extensive collection of rubber & fetish outfits. This woman adores kink and is never happier than having men at her feet worshipping her. Falling naturally in the role of a classic domme who is strict and severe but who also laughs and smiles. She specialises in: Foot Worship, CBT, CP & Chastity play.

Miss Courtney is an experienced prodom available for sessions from her exclusive & private, equipped dungeon and playspace in Hereford but in addition travels. What’s more she’s a talented fetish film producer and international fetish model. Producing custom clips or you can see her in action on her clips stores, or devote yourself to her on Only Fans. We highly recommend you check out all of Mistress Courtney’s links Here.

So here’s the divine Mistress Courtney in action at The English Mansion…

 

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See also other ~  English Mansion Top Doms
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No Ordinary Love – Dominance & Submission Top Ten Music Chart

Welcome to The English Mansion’s
No Ordinary Love –
Dominance & Submission Top Ten Music Chart

Our musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky

“…one of these day these boots are gonna walk all over you”
Love is often described as a kind of all-encompassing madness and the feelings engendered in a sub/dom relationship are akin to this. Though with an added intensity – to own that person, take them over, consume them, die for them, be them… Difficult to express but the words and emotion of some of these tracks certainy convey some of it.

No Ordinary Love
Dominance & Submission Top Ten
1   Erotica
Madonna (1992) Play Video
2   These Boots Are Made For Walking
Nancy Sinatra (1966) Play Video
3   Bad Things
Jace Everett (2005) Play Video
4  I Put a Spell On You Creedence Clearwater Revival (1968)
or Screamin Jay Hawkins
(1956)
or Nina Simone (1965)
Play Video
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5   Master & Servant Depeche Mode (1984) Play Video
6   I Wanna Be Your Dog
The Stooges (1969) Play Video
7   Hanky Panky
Madonna (1990) Play Video
8   You Belong To Me
joint with
8   All Mine
Bob Dylan (1992)
Portishead (1997)
Play Video
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9   No Ordinary Love
Sade (1992) Play Video
10   I Scare Myself
joint with
10   Hurts So Good
joint with
10   #1 Crush
Thomas Dolby (1984)
Susan Cadogan (1975)
Garbage (2003)
Play Video
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Contenders that didn’t quite make it into our Top Ten:

My Heart Belongs To Daddy by Eartha Kitt (1953) Play Video
These Boots Are Made For Walking by Jessica Simpson (2005) Play Video
I’m A Slave 4 U by Britney Spears (2001)  Play Video

The English Mansion’s Kinky Music Charts

Take a look at our other musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky
~ to be included the rules are: they must be big hits or tracks from internationally well-known performers.

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The Mansion’s Summer Femdom Party 2022 – 2nd Half

The Mansion’s Summer Femdom Party 2022 – 2nd Half

Wow What A Day!
We had an absolute ball at our Summer Femdom Party with no less than six stunning Mistresses in attendance: Mistress Nikki Whiplash, Mistress Sophia Sahara, Mistress Sandra, Fetish Nikki, Mistress Lola Ruin, & Mistress Sidonia. All captured by discreet roving cameras – allowing our members the opportunity to peek inside The English Mansion and see what happens at one of our high-protocol summer kinky soirees. Yes continuous action footage from inside a real femdom party.

Late Afternoon (see here for the early part)
The party continues in the dungeon as Mistresses Sidonia, Lola, Sandra and Sophia Sahara take their sissy sluts for some pole dancing action. They are going to put on a marvellous show, as the superior ladies cajole, excite and humiliate their dancing, the subs trying to impress, pulling out all the stops as they prance, spin and beg for attention. When the Mistresses have seen all the action, they declare a winner and demand a sexy show from the sluts, supervising some special cock teasing, making sure the winner is allowed to shoot a big cum load, whilst the loser is humiliated.

Meanwhile… in the lounge as Mistresses Whiplash and Nikki have decided to supervise a sexy bi session, using their big dicked bull to provide the hardness and the two beta subs eager to follow direction and please. They feed the throbbing member into the sluts mouths, one by one , seeing who is doing the best job. They are then told to double please, the dominant women making sure their mouths are going deep and sensual. The best sucker is then rewarded with some sucking on his cock, as the loser strokes and sucks the bull to completion, to the amusement of the ladies.

The party finishes outdoors as Mistresses Sidonia, Whiplash, Sophia Sahara, Lola and Nikki relax in the hot tub. Sidonia reads through the slaves’ report cards, ranking their scores and deciding appropriate punishments for the losers and winners. Subs are dragged into the tub for a wet spanking and paddling, humiliated and put in their places. The dominant ladies then demand foot worship, the eager subs working hard to please. They also decide to have a little bi show in the tub with plenty of cock sucking as they supervise closely. The action is continuous and *hot* with trampling, wet games and lots of fun and laughter, to round off an amazing day!

The Mansion’s Summer Femdom Party 2022 2nd half of the day

So don’t miss out, the party’s started inside The English Mansion.

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Last Year’s Best & New Year News 2023

with the stunning Miss Zara DuRose

Adieu 2022

Happy New Year 2023
Wow, 2022 passed so quickly. We finally managed to throw a Mansion High-Protocol Femdom party over the summer – what an incredible day! However, we’re still missing our visits from international dominas. Let’s hope things are easier next year. We entertained lots of amazing new dominatrixes at The English Mansion this year including: Madam Esmeralda, Mistress Terra, Miss Anna Elite, Lady Sara Borgia, Mistress Sophia Sahara, Mistress Ruby Marks, Fetish Nikki & Lady Valeska. As well as welcoming back the gorgeous Princess Aurora, Mistress Courntey, Miss Zara DuRose, Tainted Maitrise, Mistress Lola Ruin & Mistress Amrita. Plus of course all our resident, super talented dominas who together create our kinky alternative ‘framily’ 😉 See Here

Thank You All
A huge thank you to everyone who was part of it or supported us – fellow dommes, subs & slaves, members, devotees & all our pervy friends. I always stand in awe at the real-life amazing dominatrices and domme women who visit the Mansion: their intelligence, enthusiasm & dedication. So, I want to offer my gratitude and support to these special women in control of their lives and desires.
Long Live Female World Domination!

Bonus Updates!
Double Weekend Updates Staying for 2023! We’re keeping double weekend film updates in 2021 on Fridays & Saturdays ~ excluding the Summer – June, July & Aug). With classic Mansion gold movies – updated with improved higher quality versions/compressions, staying on Mondays.

So here are some of
My favourite moments from 2022 😄
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Find out about these real-life dominatrixes & dominant women here

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