Madame Caramel’s Fem Dom Ball 2019


Fem Dom Ball 2019

Saturday the 5th October from 6pm to Midnight

Mistresses, lifestyle couples and naturally submissive men from all over the world are gathering to attend a celebration of Female Supremacy at the annual Fem Dom Ball. Held at a top-secret and glamorous location in the City of London and hosted by the gorgeous Madame Caramel.

Visit Fem Dom Ball for all the details.
Note: Make sure you familiarise yourself with all the required etiquette for this event or you may be refused entry.

Although the event is currently sold out, you can sign up to a waiting list as more tickets will be released nearer to the event.

from the FemDomBall 2017

The venue: a top-secret & glamorous City of London location

from the FemDomBall 2018

Visit the FemDomBall’s website here

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Throne Games ~ New Mansion Dommes 2019

Throne Games
New Dominas Coming to The English Mansion in 2019

We have three very different leading ladies making their debut very soon at The English Mansion. So get ready to bow down before the thrones of three killer Queens: Miss Vivienne Hardy, Mistress Bliss & Miss Suzanna Maxwell. All enjoy toying with men and have their own unique style and interests within female domination.

Here at the English Mansion we have no fixed rules about what constitutes femdom – it can be empowering, sexual, fetishistic or downright sadistic with infinite other permutations. We give our dominas a free rein and then just let them indulge in what they most enjoy :)

Miss Vivienne Hardy
Miss Vivienne Hardy is a gorgeous and sultry, young switch who is enjoying exploring her dominant side. She’s an adorable lady who easily beguiles all those in her presence with her exuberant glee for all things kink. She is available for prodom sessions and based in Greater London, UK.
Vivienne Hardy ~ More Information & Links Here

Mistress Bliss
Mistress Bliss is a stunning, statuesque & lithe dominatrix and model with a naturally entrancing mien. Her look is striking and extreme – she is pierced, tattooed and always tightly laced in corsets showing off her incredibly tiny waist. But don’t be scared Mistress Bliss is an approachable, open-minded and super smart domme.  Australian born, this lady is a lifestyle fetishist & a skilled and knowledgable prodom based in London, UK specialising in erotic sadism, anal play & degradation.
Mistress Bliss ~ More Information & Links Here

Miss Suzanna Maxwell
Miss Maxwell is a beautiful domme with long blonde locks and a phenomenal body akin to Barbie if she were made flesh. Intelligent and eloquent this multi-talented lady inspires submission and worship. With many years of experience she enjoys training men to her exacting standard and turning them into her slaves demanding their total devotion and loyalty. She is a prodom based in Manchester, North UK and often travels.
Miss Suzanna Maxwell ~ More Information & Links Here

You’ll be seeing more of them at The English Mansion very soon…

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The Power & The Glory – In Blood Red Films

Photo by Ariel B

The Power & The Glory – In Blood Red Films

Note: This art film is Not Showing at or in anyway connected with The English Mansion
As an artist a few year ago, I made a number of short art films. I wanted to elaborate here on one in particular – Old Enough to Bleed, which I think expressed some of my darker leanings. This was not one film but four shorts exploring aspects of womanhood and the female rites of passage – Virgin, Whore, Wife/Mother and Goddess. The section I want to draw attention to is that of Wife.

This film was based on a story/monologue that I had written entitled ‘The Power & the Glory’. It’s about a female serial-killer who dru*s, rap*s and murders her male victims, always in hotels, the bastion of men’s secret love-affairs. She toys with the police who at first cannot believe a woman could kill like this and think it is a homosexual killer.

In the film we witness her picking up a man in a hotel bar taking him back to her room for sex where she dru*s and uses him before rap*ng him with a bottle and castr*ting him. During the assault and murder it becomes apparent she is getting a sexual kick from the murder. The film ends with her smiling and enjoying a post-coital cigarette while touching up her lipstick as her victim bleeds to death. She is empowered and sexually excited, not just by the murders per-se but by the fact that men everywhere who secretly meet women for sex will be afraid. That is her power and that is the glory she basks in.

Still from OETB: Wife

The subject matter may seem horrific but as a woman I felt these are the kind of images we constantly see on television. Except the victims are always women – naked, rap*d murdered. This is in some way a reflection of women’s position in society, with the innate lack of physical strength and with less power we make better victims. I wanted to reverse this to create a character that would make men afraid, make men the victims.

Note: As a woman I enjoyed exploring the powerful fantasy of castr*ting a man, to completely emasculate and de-sexualize him. However, these fantasies are just sex games with no place in reality. I abhor all violence. Art here is being used to explore repressed female  anger and comment on the ubiquitous nature of violence against women in our society.

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Femdom Horoscopes – Dominas Part 2

How to Recognize a Mistress based on her Star Sign
or Let this Zodiac
Guide you into Meeting your Perfect Mistress

Part 2 Dommes:
Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius & Pisces

This guide has been produced by none other than Mistress Stella Interstellar, who has contemplated the constellations and turned over the cards of fate, to reveal all the secrets of a fetish horoscope. So slaves let this guide help you to understand and/or recognise a Mistress based on her star sign and thus give you some secret insights into how to really please her.

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The Libran Mistress: These women are not only very attractive but probably the most intelligent sign within the Zodiac with impressive, sharp and analytical minds. Her motto is “I WEIGH up your fate!” With a mind like hers she loves role-plays especially interrogations where she can verbally crush you and school scenes where her fairness allows her to play on your guilt. She could look like a strict schoolmarm, be wearing a designer suit with seemed stockings and high heels or any kind of smart uniform. She is also the mistress most likely to wear glasses. This Mistress will weigh up your misdemeanours carefully – then your fate – before exacting a very appropriate punishment.

Mansion Mistresses Libra: Mistress Anastaxia, Mistress Lola Ruin, Mistress Amrita, Madame Ingrid, Mistress Claudia, Mistress Rebekka & Miss Foxx

The Scorpio Mistress: Well this is an obviously powerful woman with an electric intensity about her person. She exudes her dark sexuality from her hypnotically penetrating gaze that will pierce right into you. Her motto is “I DESIRE your submission!” As one of the most sexual and dominant of the star signs her favourite activity is of course, to fuck her slaves with the huge strap-on that she loves to wear. Slaves may even end up on their knees sucking and worshipping this Mistress’s strap-on cock but they are also at the mercy of her metaphorical balls. She loves the feel of leather against her skin so will be found clad in classic black leather clothes. She also likes to have full access to her most sexual regions – maybe no panties under a tight leather mini skirt or fully exposed in a open leather body harness. As a lover of secrets and mystery she is also wears masks. Always be careful with this woman, as she’ll hypnotise you, tease, taunt and use you and just when you think she’s finished remember she has a very sharp sting in the tail.

Mansion Mistresses Scorpio: Mistress Sidonia, Mistress Veronica, Governess Ely, Domina Darla & Dominant Dolly

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The Sagittarian Mistress: This is a classy, sophisticated and powerful woman with a stunning, often athletic and tall build. She has an infectious energy and a magnetic personality. Her motto is “I SEEK your devotion!” As a natural exhibitionist she loves parties or group sessions expecting her slaves to demonstrate their devotion and admiration in public. As an archer she also loves to shoot down her slaves which gives her an obsessive love of needles and piercing. Someone who always stands out in a crowd, she loves shiny materials and elaborate costumes. You can never escape this woman as she will hunt you down, she is not possessive though, so don’t expect long-term commitment. Once you have served your purpose you’ll be left in the dust of her galloping exit.

Mansion Mistresses Sagittarius: Mistress Katerina, Goddess Lexi, Miss Jessica Wood, Mistress Ella Kross & Miss Vivienne L’Amore

The Capricorn Mistress: Capricorns are strong, muscular women but this does not mean they are not feminine, it is just that under the lingerie and tight suit is a stunning body that can literally knock you over. Her motto is “I USE you for my pleasure!” As an earth sigh she enjoys her physical prowess and may enjoy trampling, boxing or wrestling her men. You may think you have a chance but before you realise what’s happened you’ll be on your back seeing stars. She will often dress to blend into the shadows wearing lots of black or a suit in straight situations. She may seem rather unimposing but don’t be mislead – she’s just standing back eyeing up her prey before she strikes. This sturdy, surefooted sign always get her man right where she wants him in the end.

Mansion Mistresses Capricorn: Mistress Dante-Posh, Hunteress, Mistress Vixen, Switch Leia, Lady Natalie Black, Princess Anuska & Domina January

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The Aquarian Mistress: This woman may look like an eccentric wild woman or a famous glamorous film star, so she won’t go unnoticed with her distinctly individual, if somewhat strange, style. Her motto is a very definite “I KNOW your secret desires!” Her favourite scene activity is playing with sparks – yes electricity, as it’s so unpredictable just like her. She is open to anything she’s never tried and especially anything strange, bizarre or alternative. She loves to defy public opinion as she hates conformity so could easily go out dressed head to foot in a black PVC cat suit with a spiked collar possibly carrying an 8-foot bull whip. Her love of the alternative means she is likely to be tattooed or pierced (even if you can’t see them). She loves spiky collars, motorcycle leathers, in fact anything bizarre. She is the water bearer and when it pours it’s a torrent so don’t get in her way.

Mansion Mistresses Aquarius: Princess Aurora, Miss Marilyn, DSO, Mistress Ava Black, Miss Savannah Sly, Mistress Clawdia & Mistress Heelena

The Piscean Mistress: These women have deep penetrating beautiful eyes, look into them and you will be gazing into the deep emotional depths that are swelling below her surface. Her motto is “I BELIEVE you are mine!” This woman loves dressing to impress and especially fetish footwear. She can’t close the wardrobe door because of the 6 inch heels and thigh-high boots packed inside. Her favourite activities are of course having them or even her feet worshipped. She may also love to trample you or your delicate genitals beneath them. As for attire, other than her obsession with fetish footwear, she loves shiny or metallic, tight fitting clothes especially dresses and pencil skirts.

Mansion Mistresses Pisces: Cybill Troy, Lady Nina Birch, Mistress Ezada Sinn, Fetish Liza, Goddess Zena, Mistress Miranda, Mistress Jezabel & Mistress Eleise du Lacy

Part 2 of 4

Read Part 1 of 4 Here   Dommes: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo & Virgo
Read Part 2 of 4 Here   Dommes: Libra,Scorpio, Sagittarius,Capricorn, Aquarius & Pisces
Read Part 3 of 4 Here   Subs: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo & Virgo
Read Part 4 of 4 Here   Subs: Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius & Pisces

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Femdom Horoscopes – Dominas Part 1

How to Recognize a Mistress based on her Star Sign
or  Let this Zodiac
Guide you into Meeting your Perfect Mistress

Part 1 Dommes:
Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo & Virgo

This guide has been produced by none other than Mistress Stella Interstellar, who has contemplated the constellations and turned over the cards of fate, to reveal all the secrets of a fetish horoscope. So slaves let this guide help you to understand and/or recognise a Mistress based on her star sign and thus give you some secret insights into how to really please her.

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The Aries Mistress: This smart, highly sexual woman will always make an instant impression. She’ll bowl you over like a butting ram with her enthusiasm and lust for just about anything. Her motto is “I AM first in your life!” This youthful, active Mistress loves vigorous Corporal Punishment so watch out if you get in her bad books as she may just charge into you. She often wears red – Red rubber, red leather and red PVC – after all she is a very fiery character. Aries symbol is the ram and a ram has two horns … and yes this lady is certainly horny.

Mansion Mistresses Aries:  AstroDomina, Mistress Evilyne & Mistress Anna Regent.

The Taurean Mistress: These Mistress always have the most beautiful faces and are often gorgeously curvy and full of ample charm. Taurean women are born dominant! Control runs through every vein of their bodies. Her motto is “I HAVE complete control of you!” As one of the earth signs she loves material pleasures and luxuries and will probably be found dressed in a very expensive brand new designer rubber outfit. As an earthly control freak she is of course the queen of bondage and suspension. She loves to have you completely trusted up and hanging helplessly. There are no negotiations with this Mistress – it’s her way or no way! She is as stubborn as a bull and those horns will throw you around helplessly if you even squeak the wrong way.

Mansion Mistresses Taurus: Mistress T, Lady Bellatrix, Miss Jasmine, Mistress Ursula, Lady Victoria Valente, Goddess Lillith, Mistress Xena, Mistress Kulit, Lady Lana & Mistress Arella. How interesting this is the most common sign for our dommes, we have ten Taureans – who our guide claims to be the most dominant sign.

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The Gemini Mistress: These Mistresses are usually very pretty and graceful, often with tall and slender builds and very wicked smiles. They are always energetic and sociable rushing here there and everywhere. They love to flirt, entice and play with men using all their feminine charms to entrap them. Her motto is “I THINK I’ll toy with you!” Below her friendly exterior, this woman can be very cruel and sadistic, she particularly enjoys slow and deliberate cock and ball torment. Her favourite costumes are sexy lingerie, stockings, corsets and anything lacy. Born under the sign of the twins, her strange dual personality becomes apparent when in one moment she can be flirty, friendly and deceptively sweet and then in the next she becomes totally detached while she mercilessly torments you.

Mansion Mistresses Gemimi: Mistress Inka, Lady Sophia Black, Mistress Velvet, Mistress Kiana, Sub Suzie & Mistress Robera

The Cancerian Mistress: This Mistress often looks rather angelic, she can be very tactile and pervades a sensuous sexuality. Her motto is “I FEEL you are part of me!” She revels in water-sports, any kind of wet games and especially ‘Gummi’ full rubber scenes. Adoring the feel of tight rubber against her skin and the layer of wet perspiration beneath. She is the mistress most likely to be found clad from head to foot in layers of tight latex. She also loves gas masks & any kind of elaborate body armour. This sensuous, erotic woman is very possessive so beware because once she has set her sights on you, you won’t escape from her strong claws without getting very scratched.

Mansion Mistresses Cancerian: Miss Zara du Rose, Miss Vivienne Hardy, Mistress Valkyrie & Lydia Supremacy.

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The Leo Mistress: Well she’s a glamour puss, a starlet who outshines all those around her. Her motto is “I WILL make you desire me!” Her favourite scene or activity is to be completely worshiped sitting up in her magnificent throne room looking down on her willing subjects or massaged all over whilst being given a long slow bubble bath. She dresses in full cat suits and anything in leopard skin and of course drips in fur. These all certainly signify her playfulness but never forget she is just toying with you and behind that purrr-fect kitten is a tigress with very sharp claws.

Mansion Mistresses Leo: Mistress Courtney, Dominatrix An Li, Maitresse Madeline Marlowe, Domina Alexandra Snow, Mistress Pandora, Empress Victoria & Mistress Akella.

The Virgo Mistress: This Mistress is all woman and will entrance you with her feminine charm. They often have beautiful fine or long flowing hair. Her motto is “I ANALYSE your weaknesses!” She may look sweet but her favourite activities are medical procedures – clad in tight latex gloves in completely hygienic sterile conditions you could easily find her concentrating on lining up all her stitches perfectly across the top of your foreskin! With her critical exacting mind she can be very strict and keen to dish out punishments. This makes her perfect for School scenarios readily administering harsh discipline. Born under the sign of a virgin this woman rarely shows any flesh and can be found covered head to foot in rubber or as a perfectionist always impeccably and smartly dressed perhaps in a crisp virginally white nurses uniform.

Mansion Mistresses Virgo: Mistress Nikki Whiplash, Miss Analisa, Mistress Roug’e & Dominatrix V

Part 1 of 4

Read Part 1 of 4 Here   Dommes: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo & Virgo
Read Part 2 of 4 Here   Dommes: Libra,Scorpio, Sagittarius,Capricorn, Aquarius & Pisces
Read Part 3 of 4 Here   Subs: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo & Virgo
Read Part 4 of 4 Here   Subs: Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius & Pisces

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The Unintended Spiritual Path Pt3

Mistress-sidona-von-borkThe Unintended Spiritual Path Pt3

For most of us drawn to the BDSM world our motivation is a base, sexually driven one. There is however, occasionally, an unexpected by-product – a slip into the realm of mysticism and spiritual transformation. This is not the goal of sado-masochistic play so it can be a surprising, unnerving and powerful encounter. These experiences should not be confused with ‘subspace’ which is a common altered state for most submissives – part letting go, part lust and part adrenaline high. These are deeper and more powerful transcendental occurrences which are hard to explain as they need to be ‘experienced’ however, I will attempt to try to outline how and when some of the overlaps occur.

Beyond Subspace into the Mystic:
Mortification of the Flesh & Pain as the Pathway
One of the most direct links between BDSM and reaching an unintended spiritual state is the infliction of pain. Many religions and spiritual philosophies use physical pain as part of a ritualised ordeal, in Christianity the practice of ‘mortification of the flesh’ involves fasting; sleep deprivation; the wearing of uncomfortable clothing; or self-flagellation. The tradition of self-flagellation, usually whipping oneself, is still prevalent around the world in Catholic & Shi’a Islamic communities. (For Christians this act allows them to join Christ in his redemptive suffering.) While Shamans use physical pain to enter a spiritual trance in order to peel away illusion and enter the spirit world.

Pain can be a ‘rite of passage’ as we must deal with our fear of pain, however fear exits in the mind while pain is truly of the body – an unmistakable sensation that puts us in the moment and reminds us we are alive. In BDSM we accept the pain, we don’t fight it, we go into the centre of the pain, we bask in it. We experience the ecstasy (or rapture) of pain. It becomes an acknowledgment that the body is just our vessel and that we exist beyond it.

The implementation of pain can induce a state known in BDSM as ‘subspace’, the ‘high’ or exhilaration a submissive can feel during a scene, induced through sustained intense pain/pleasure.  This response is created by our sympathetic nervous system as it produces adrenaline & endorphins, to cope with the experience, this also happens during exercise or extreme sports. This natural physiological and emotion response can be a first step towards a spiritual state.

Mortification of the flesh is not always directly connected with physical pain, it is at act of subduing one’s bodily desires, in Christianity it was the act of ‘putting your sin to death’. BDSM games can indulge in sexual tease’n’denial, cuckolding and enforced chastity; here the ‘subduing of one’s sexual desire’ with denial and suffering paradoxically become deeply sexualised acts.

Our interest in BDSM is driven by our base sexual desires and unconscious primal urges and not intended as a means to enlightenment and transformation – though interestingly it has huge overlaps with religious rituals and these unexpected spiritual revelations and altered states still leave a deep impression.

The Unintended Spiritual Path
Read Pt1 Here:   Rites of Passage & A Retreat from Ego
Read Pt2 Here:   Bondage as Meditation & Outer Transformation as a means to Inner Transformation
Read Pt3 Here:   Beyond Subspace into the Mystic: Mortification of the Flesh & Pain as the Pathway

Read also: Entering Subspace – Altered States

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