Ice Lock Time Lock Bondage

I’ve been indulging my love of bondage with some inventive new toys… so, my slave was locked in chastity and then bound with my used stockings and pantyhose. Next heavy-duty locking leather manacles hogtied my slave to an ice lock – a cunning device that is filled with water and then frozen to allow an eventual self release from the bondage. While the chastity key was also locked away in a time release safe. I then left my slave at the mercy of the slowly melting ice lock which I monitored with my ‘slavecam’ also capturing the almost 2hrs of ‘bondage squirming’ with its time-lapse camera. (You can watch all this in the footage, in Ice Lock Time Lock now showing.)

The Ice Lock

A home-made ice lock for all us cheapskates

The Ice lock was developed for self bondage or time release scenes. It’s basically a lock with 2 fixed attachment rings, that releases itself after a set period of time. You fill the stainless steel cylinder with water, put the removable center stick in place and leave in the freezer for 24 hours. The stick and its attachment points will now be locked firmly in place until the ice melts. This allows you a locked anchor point for whatever bondage set up you’re planning.

The larger the cylinder the longer the time it will take to melt plus other factors like ambient room temperature and how much you struggle 🙂 For the large lock this could be between 2-3 hours and for the small one 1-2 hours. It’s always a good idea to test and time it before its first use.

A large & small ice lock & a time release food safe (actually, I put the key, not the chastity device itself in the safe but that doesn’t work for the photo)

 

Time Release Food Safe

The lovely Jessica Dee turned me on to this fabulous timed release bondage idea  – dieters can now buy little time locking food canisters. Once the timer is set and the button is pressed, the safe will remain locked until the timer reaches zero. There’s no override! Perfect for chastity scenes – lock your slave’s manhood away then place the key in the safe for the desired period, then give it to them to take away. It’s the perfect tease leaving them both subjugated and frustrated watching the countdown on its digital clock.

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Fierce Angels ~ New Mansion Dommes 2017

Fierce Angels
New Dominas Coming to The English Mansion in 2017

We have three very different leading ladies making their debut very soon at The English Mansion: Mistress Courtney, Mistress Scarlett Black & Miss Brooke. All natural born dominas, fierce angels who enjoy toying with men and have their own unique style and interests within female domination.

Here at the English Mansion we have no fixed rules about what constitutes femdom – it can be empowering, psychological, worshipful, sexual, fetishistic or downright sadistic with infinite other permutations. We give dominant women, switches and our dominatrixes a free rein and let them just indulge in what they most enjoy.

Mistress Courtney
Mistress Courtney is a beautiful petit, cultured, prodom based in Manchester but making frequent visits to London. She is always immaculately attired, elegant, stylish and smartly coiffed. A classic Mistress to worship and serve.

Mistress Courtney ~ More Information & Links Here

Mistress Scarlett Black
Mistress Scarlett Black is a gorgeous, sensual, approachable prodom with many years of experience based in the East Midlands, UK with her own well-equipped chambers. Specialising in strapon & anal play and role play scenarios.
Mistress Scarlett Black ~ More Information & Links Here

Miss Brooke
Miss Brooke is a lovely leggy young prodom who is exploring her dominant side, while also being a foot fetishist and lover of strapon play.
Miss Brooke ~ More Information & Links Here

Come and see what they have been getting up to inside The English Mansion…

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The Siren’s Song

Mistress-Sidonia-whipThe Siren’s Song

More of Mistress Sidonia’s musing on her decadent desires and philosophy of female domination.

I have always liked to tease and seduce men. Using all of my feminine and seemingly innocent charm to overpower and ensnare them. To to weave a web that lures men to my lair where I slowly toy with them, playing with their minds and abusing their bodies. My power lies not in my darkened chamber, elaborate equipment or wicked toys but within myself for my greatest tool is my femininity.

Female sexuality is an incredibly powerful force. It is quite a different entity from male sexuality, which is probably why it is so repressed and surrounded by misunderstanding. Women have superior beauty to men, that is an innate fact. Women know how to manipulate men to do exactly what they want, a gift that naturally develops when you do not possess the greater physical strength. The Dominant woman knows how to use these gifts to completely mesmerise the men that flock to her. Using her devilish smile and seductive manner she will look deep in to your eyes until you melt. She doesn’t MAKE you submit – you WANT to submit and therein lies the crux of her power.

I am a dominant woman that is my sexual preference and the more a man submits to me the more attracted to him I am. Dominating men is a sexual encounter I find it extremely arousing to have men at my beck and call to know that they will do anything I wish and can do anything I like to them. To know that by using my femininity I can completely control them. However, my sexual dominance is more than just a game played in the boudoir. It is an important part of my philosophy on life. As a woman I am in control of my destiny and sexuality. I know what I want and how to achieve it. I am free and in control.

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Kinky Monkey – Harnesses Every Which Way!

Kinky-Monky-Promo1Here at The English Mansion we want to highly recommend Kinky-Monkey.com  purveyors of beautifully made soft leather harnesses. They specialise in just about every kind of strap-on harnesses you can think of: classic strapon dildo harness; double penetration harness; thigh-ride harness; chin dildo harness; & other harness extras. So you can get pegging just about every-which-way! 🙂

orgasm-harnessI also love their locked-in orgasm harness (see image right) the ultimate in cruel teasing; and their butt-plug harness, useful as plugs do seem to want to eject themselves – usually at an inopportune moment!

Members of The English Mansion will be familiar with DSO’s giant strapons requiring specialist harnesses (see here for more: Queen of Dongs)  – well these amazing pieces of bespoke and highly engineered kit harnessing-giant-strapondesigned were created for her by Kinky-Monkey.com. They explained the difficulties of harnessing DSO’s largest dildo so far,

“It took 10 square feet of leather 96 rivets, 16 buckles, 1 x 140 mm stainless steel marine ring and 1 long day in the workshop!”10456190_818681778154758_5636678913852194298_n
(see image left)

Another plus for Kinky-Monkey’s harnesses is that they come in a huge variety of colours, so perfect for co-ordinating your strapon cock with your outfit.

(see right image, Claire from Kinky-Monkey & DSO)

So take a look at their website or facebook page, Kinky-Monkey is a great fetish artisan business with super kit. They are also often at the BBB (the Birmingham Fetish Market).

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Serial Bitch – Human Stress Toys


Human Stress Toys – More Musings from MSVB

Chatting with an extremely masochistic sub friend he told me about a session he had with an American dominatrix. She seriously ‘went to town’ on him with whips and cigarettes (which he loved) and after the session she had said, “Wow, I really needed that!”

I can totally identify with her, I would say in my day-to-day life I’m a pretty kind, considerate person but within the confines of my role as a domme I find hurting, being cruel and generally just bullying someone a huge stress reliever. Making me grateful that there are slaves and submissive men who allow me this release in a consensual and hopefully mutually beneficial way. The perception that slaves are somehow weak and pathetic is ironically, so wrong. I need physically and mentally strong men who can withstand all that I want to impart on them and am continually impressed with what my slaves will take for me.

When out in public eating certain table manners are usually expected, while as a domme I can suddenly take it upon myself to stab my eating partner in the hand; or take the lid off the salt canister and pour it all over his food totally spoiling it so he has to go hungry; or as on one memorable occasion, I suddenly and for no other reason than bullying, cracked a sub friend over the head with a large table-spoon – what an interesting sound. Appalling behaviour and yet such a relief to be able to indulge that need to be the queen of mean!

If I’m whipping someone hard over a long period it can be totally exhausting but it also gives me a similar release, a heady power rush probably akin to the endorphins the sub receiving the lashes gets. I love that feeling, perspiring with the effort while relishing in the cries of another’s pain. Sometimes it’s hard to hold back and not go too far and why group domination scenes can often slip into a pack frenzy 😉 Oops

So thank you subs for making such great human stress toys providing excellent cruel kicks or a needed source of release – for us dommes who know how to indulge our inner serial bitch 🙂

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Meeting a Mistress – A little Nostalgia


Now most subs think the process of meeting a dominant woman or prodom is a pretty difficult one – actually, you should all think yourselves lucky, just try and imagine what it was like before the advent of the Internet! When I first started we put coded cards in newsagents windows – we’d sometimes get comical responses when someone got hold of the wrong end of the stick (pun intended 🙂 ).

We also put out personals in contact mags where you were given a code and interested parties would write to you, it wouldn’t be unusual to receive a sack of replies but the process of responding to them was epic. Later, with the revolutionary introduction of the mobile phone contact mags allowed phone numbers and if Mistresses think they get wank**s and no-shows now; it’s nothing compared to the days before caller display, back then you’d receive weird, deep breathing (keep talking I’m almost there) and even threatening calls, pretty much on an hourly basis. We were treated as a free sex phone call service. We didn’t even have appointment times for new clients we just booked in everyone and hoped for the best.


Now if I was playing spot the domme, we’d have: Mistress Caroline, Mistress Teresa May, Miss Parker, Mistress Severity, Mistress Annette,  Mistress Patricia, Mistress Eve/Karla, Mistress Xena, Mistress Zena, Mistress Anna (Brighton), Mistress Anna, Mistress Kate & Mistress Suzanna.

See also: DDI Domination Directory International – A Glorious Revolution

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