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Slave Mesmerism – Free MP3

Posted on 11/03/2016 by Mistress Sidonia

Download & Listen to my Slave Mesmerism

Let me Mesmerise you from afar
Now close your mind slave and think on nothing but me – hear only this – think on my face gazing down on you, think on my voice whispering these words close to your ear, think of your place kneeling in submission before me…

Slave you are now entering my world
While here you will remember
two simple rules – be submissive and be obedient

You will be completely subservient at all times
You will be obedient and will jump when I snap my fingers
submissive and obedient
VERY SIMPLE
Your feelings and wishes are irrelevant to me
You are here for my pleasure
My toy, my slave, my slut
To use and abuse, in any way I see fit
Remember submissive and obedient
submissive and obedient

There are no hiding places here slave, no safe-words
you are my property, mine to use as I see fit
You will trust that I know your limitations
I will push you, mould you
You will learn to serve
To obey, to leave yourself behind and become a new being
I will drive you, I will take you far further than you imagined
You will suffer for me, you will blush for me, you will work for me,
you will put me before all else

You will be punished even when you repent or beg for mercy
for you will suffer a little each time you offend me
I don’t make idle threats
disobey my rules or displease me – and you will be punished
Expect to suffer for your sins.
This is the path you will tread

Many means will be used to mould you into my perfect slave
I will see all your weaknesses, you will not hide them from me
I know what you hate, I know how to really make you smart
I must train and shape you with either pain or humiliation or a lack of privileges

You will accept this
You will accept my will
You will be trained
You will be controlled completely

You are my property and therefore it does not benefit me
to damage you or hurt you unintentionally
You are mine now, I take care of all your needs, your well-being
As my slave you are valuable property and will be treated as such
A damaged slave cannot work effectively
I have told you concentrate on being submissive in attitude and obedient in nature
do not concern yourself with anything else

I shall watch you while you suffer
to love and care is easy, yet to hurt is true intimacy, a true bond
a sublime and decadent pleasure
I want to see your devotion
Suffer for me and in your pain remember me
think on my face and the smile that slowly covers it as you writhe and sweat in suffering
Agony in your face – Ecstasy in mine

I love to have you at my feet naked, crawling, collared
that is when I feel powerful and sexy
I look down at you groveling at my feet or my shoes or boots
You are nothing and I am everything
I will drag you around at the end of my chain
Obeying my every whim

You may be honored by signing yourself away
and become a contracted, permanently collared slave
You will have a new name
You will wear my mark somewhere on your body
You will serve my female friends
You may be lent out
You will perform for me anyway I choose

I want to know that I can do anything I wish to you
You are mine
I am now your creator
You will worship and adore me
You will live only for me and through me
I will give you the nourishment you need
I will take hold of your body, your mind and then your soul

You belong to me
You belong to me
You belong to me

Situation Vacant… Now Filled

Posted on 06/03/2016 by Mistress Sidonia

Imagine you took a strange job, found in the ‘Situations Vacant’ column in the newspaper, and found yourself as the willing slave for two beautiful dominant women. Kept as their pet and used for their amusement and harsher duties in their private compound in the middle of nowhere.

Broken to their will and trained to their exacting standards. Could you endure all their torments… see below what they had in store for the new applicant (fresh meat)…

So don’t miss out – Situation Vacant our new feature length femdom film, Pts 1, 2 & 3 are already showing inside The English Mansion and Pt4 starts next week. Featuring elite USA dominatrix Goddess Alexandra Snow. You can find out more about the stunning Domina Alexandra Snow here

Beautiful Tyrant: Lady Mephista

Posted on 28/02/2016 by Mistress Sidonia

Beautiful Tyrant: Lady Mephista

“To love, to be loved, what happiness! And yet how the glamour of this pales in comparison with the tormenting bliss of worshipping a woman who makes a plaything out of us, of being the slave of a beautiful tyrant who treads us pitilessly underfoot.” Venus in Furs – Leopold von Sacher-Masoch

Lady Mephista is a stunning, statuesque and graceful German dominatrix. Intelligent, cultured and thoughtful this classic domina’s beauty is equal to her cruel nature. Undoubtedly an authoritarian, autocratic whose sadism is ideally suited to consistently shape a slave into her plaything. So to serve, be prepared to suffer for her pleasure then fall under her spell. She is a prodom based at Studio Avalon in Berlin, Germany. More Info Here

Don’t miss out on the amazing femdom films featuring Lady Mephista showing right now, including Invasive Latex Medical, inside The English Mansion…Get Access Here

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Mansils in Distress Pt2

Posted on 19/02/2016 by Mistress Sidonia

My own personal drinks stand & art work, perfect for my next Mistresses Party

4 Reasons To Love Bound Boys

So what is it exactly that I love about having a bound and gagged slaveboy, totally at my mercy…

1. Senses: The Aesthetic Beauty and Artistry
There is a beauty, artistry and aesthetic pleasure to elaborate bondage, my good friend Meisterin J.Zara called male bondage ‘living sculpture’. You are the creator, while they exist as puppets to be moulded and fashioned into a new beautiful form. (Probably why I like a certain tidiness and symmetry to my creations.) A literal objectification – where man becomes object becomes possession.

2. Mind: Total Power & Control
While bound and completely restrained the slave is totally at my mercy. I become their total focus – omnipotent and benevolent. I am a god and my whims may bestow favours or torments: pain or pleasure, tease or release. Power is such a heady, decadent pleasure.

3. Body: Bondage Sex & Strapon Fucking
Most importantly is my base desire and greedy lust to take, enter and violate them while they are bound and gagged. To objectify them into nothing more than helpless fucktoys for my sexual gratification. This is an essential psychological element to their enslavement to me. To take, use and fill them at my whim, they exist only as a vessel for my pleasure. Relegated to communicating with feeble nods, muffled moans and pathetic whimpers. So *Hot*!

4. Spirit: The Intense Bond
There is a deep bond that exists when you have a slave in extreme bondage, you control everything even their breathing, an intense responsibility. This connection is built on total trust within this consensual arrangement; they freely surrender themselves to me and I in return respectfully treasure this gift. This concord also encompasses the divine maternal, they return to primal child-like state, are in my care I may feed them, pet them or punish them. This is a symbiotic relationship where domme and sub find peace and succour – ultimately we both share the pleasure I receive.

MSVB’s Bonus Bondage Thursdays
I have been indulging my dark cravings over the last year, in a series of films showcasing my personal bondage fantasies, with my real-life slaves serving me. So for 2016, every Thursday, we’ll be updating a bonus film, exclusive for English Mansion members. (And, all the photos in this article are from showing or coming soon movies from this new series.)

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Sick: The Life and Death of Bob Flanagan, Supermasochist

Posted on 14/02/2016 by Mistress Sidonia

Sick: The Life and Death of Bob Flanagan, Supermasochist

This 1996 internationally acclaimed, award-winning documentary, directed by Kirby Dick chronicles the life and art of Bob Flanagan; an American performance artist, stand-up comic, poet and lifelong sufferer from cystic fibrosis. Flanagan began routinely maiming his own body to deal with and overcome the acute physical pain he felt every day. He was the literal embodiment of the joke about the man who liked to hit himself with a hammer because it felt so good when he stopped. The film explores how his masochism and BDSM experiences helped him manage the pain of his illness.

Flanagan’s self-torturing habits are the basis for his avant-garde live performances, which are featured prominently in the film. He met his perfect dominatrix partner in Sheree Rose and married her in 1982 while she hung him upside down from a ceiling, as Flanagan wryly comments during one his shows, ‘You always hurt the one you love’.

Kirby Dick follows Bob and Sheree through the last years of Flanagan’s life. Deeply moving, often hilarious, Sick is a profile of a unique artist, giving an insight into Flanagan’s warmth, courage and, especially his sense of humour. Flanagan had agreed to participate under the condition that his death be included in the final film.

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Lady Nina’s Special Feminisation Regime Pt1

Posted on 06/02/2016 by Mistress Sidonia

We’ve been honoured at The English Mansion to be given exclusive access to Lady Nina Birch’s Special Feminisation Regime, which we will post here over the next few months. This is an extensive, light-hearted guide and an essential read for all Ladies & special girls who want to engage in the world of feminisation. Lady Nina Birch is the UK’s foremost feminatrix with many years of experience and extensive knowledge on crossdressing and full-feminisation.

How to Turn your Man into a Sissy
without him Noticing

Your husband makes no effort with you any more? Sex with him is boring? He leaves the house in a mess? He doesn’t give you the love and respect you deserve? Make him useful again and totally devoted to you!

I’ll let you into a little secret ‘husband feminisation’ is going on in suburbia right now, behind closed curtains maybe even next door, husbands are being subtly trained and secretly coerced into ‘dressing’ for their partners. I have done it myself and I’m going to share with you the secrets of my ‘subtle training regime’. This will transform even the most macho or arrogant man without him even realising.

Just follow these simple steps and with time and patience you will have the perfect feminised partner:

Part 1 Feminising his Subconscious

1) Mention while you are giving him an amazing blow job, that you love the feel of satin panties and playfully slip some on him whilst panting with pleasure – then give him the wildest sex he has ever had.

2) Act coolly towards him for the next couple of weeks or however long it takes for him to miss your attentions. Leave the panties close by in the bedroom where he can see them. He is bound to slip them on again hoping he’s going to get wild sex again.

3) Put on your stockings and suspenders whilst he is wearing the panties, then tease him about the time you kissed a girlfriend and she was wearing stockings as well, explain how the feel of nylons rubbing together drove you both wild. When he asks for more details, which he invariably will, say you can’t quite remember but if he slips some on, you are sure the memories will come flooding back. Then tell him loads of horny mind-blowing stuff and he’s well on his way to being your ‘fem-plaything’.

4) Along with the dressing you require to get really horny introduce him to anal play just a small butt plug. Remember – only give him great sex when he wears his plug or does something ‘feminine’ for you.

5) Suggest that you may get a girlfriend around for a threesome, this will totally blow his mind. But then say – you would ONLY feel comfortable if you were all dressed as girls and she would be turned on by that too. At the idea of a hot threesome most guys would do anything. Of course he’ll have to practice with you first. If he proves difficult go back to the no sex plan until he caves.

6) Over a period of time introduce more: lingerie, make up, bigger dildos, full female outfits, etc. Say it’s such a turn on you want some photos to masturbate over and set up a little shoot. Once you get some really compromising photos of him; say for example: he’s fully dressed pushing a dildo up himself; keep them in a safe place, these will prove useful later…

Now you have these compromising photos tucked safely away, it’s time to take a more direct course and start to strictly enforce his feminisation training.

You can find our more about Lady Nina Birch here on her personal website