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A Very Public Humiliation

Posted on 21/08/2014 by Mistress Sidonia

Mistress Evilyne takes her slave for a walk along the streets of Soho, London

It’s the ultimate in humiliation and submission exhibiting to the world your lowly slave status and demonstrating your total obedience for all to see out in public. It’s exciting, edgy, shameful and scary but also a huge sexy thrill. You’re being shown off and watched by others. It puts your submission to the test – how far will you demean yourself for your Mistress.

I was taken with these fabulous photos of Mistress Evilyne talking her slave for a walk around central London. A slave on a leash is surely this years’ ‘must have’ accessory. The à la mode appendage for all chic Mistresses. Plus he’ll come in handy as a human stool at busy taxi ranks and to carry all the shopping bags.

One Queen visits another 🙂

Public Humiliation – An Ethical Argument?
For: BDSM is mainstream today and we live in a free country we should be able to express ourselves as we wish. Like the gay rights movement, why should we hide away shamefully we must ‘come out’ to the world. How else can we address the public’s attitudes and perceptions.

Well the women passers-by seem to be enjoying the advantages of a male pet

Against: Public humiliation means involving others in the scene, (it wouldn’t work in an empty place) they haven’t consented to this. What about younger people seeing what is happening does it leave families with difficult explanations.

Shoe worship in the park

Context: The scenes shown here happened in central London – full of tourists and busy jaded unshockable Londoners. The public seem to be enjoying watching something outlandish happening (real English eccentricity) taking photos and smiling. Perhaps this wouldn’t work so well in a small town or village.

To find out more about Mistress Evilyne check out her website here:

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If You Go Down To The Woods Today – Outdoor Femdom

Posted on 08/08/2014 by Mistress Sidonia

With the Summer in full bloom it has been the perfect weather for outdoor fun and games; and what better place for cruel Mistress & slave play than the Mansion woodlands – a dark desolate place where bad things happen and no one can hear the screams 🙂

And, what a lot of ‘fun’ we’ve been having and you’ll be seeing it all very soon inside The English Mansion…

If you go down to the woods today- You’re sure of a big surprise!
Showing and coming soon films with (clockwise) Mistress Sidonia, Miss Jasmine,
Lady Natalie Black, Mistress Vixen, Miss Shay Hendrix, Miss Savannah Sly,
Mistress T, Mistress Sophia Black & Domina Dante Posh.

Watch Staked Out in the Woods a new & exclusive film just started

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BDSM Mainstreaming – Top Ten Commercial BDSM Films

Posted on 02/08/2014 by Mistress Sidonia

Welcome to The English Mansion’s Top Ten Commercial BDSM Films

The Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon will yet again shine a massive spotlight onto the world of BDSM when the film is released in February 2015. Actually, fetishism, BDSM and general perviness abounds in a huge number of ‘Hollywood’ type films but very few focus entirely around them. I’ve endevoured to compile a list of the top ten best ones.

So, to get into this list the movie had to: centre around BDSM or very pervy themes (not just have one incredible scene); to be (fairly) well-known; and to prove it was mainstream to have at least one A-lister starring in it. So here is my list of the Top Ten Mainstream BDSM (ish) Movies.

1. Personal Services 1987 The British really do it best! An account of Cynthia Pain’s life as a madam in a suburban pervy brothel. Plus Julie Waters in a PVC catsuit.

2. Secretary 2003 with James Spader & Maggie Gyllenhaal. “Assume the position…” This film explored the relationship between a sexually dominant boss and his submissive secretary. Interestingly, Spader’s character was called ‘Mr Grey’.

3. 9 & 1/2 Weeks 1985 with Micky Rourke & Kim Basinger. Before 50 Shades of Grey there was 9 1/2 weeks.

4. Bitter Moon 1992 Directed by Roman Polanski with Hugh Grant & Kristin Scott Thomas. Eroticism, madness and sexual obsession. Where does the sexual relationship that has tried everything go…

5. Kinky Boots 2005 with Chiwetel Ejiofor & Joel Edgerton. Loved the Tranny dance scenes. Loosely based on a true story, a struggling British shoe factory develops a plan to produce custom footwear for TVs, CDs & drag queens.

6. Eyes Wide Shut 1999 Dir. Stanley Kubrick with Tom Cruise & Nicole Kidman. Cruise’s character stumbles into a secret society’s masked orgy.

7. Misery 1990 with Kathy Bates. An obsessive fan keeps a writer prisoner – no one will ever forget the hobbling, he can’t run away now – she was scary, really scary! (OK this is not strictly BDSM and yet its underlying femdom theme is unquestionable.)

8. The Rocky Horror Show 1975 with Tim Curry & Susan Sarandon. “I’m just a Sweet Transvestite from Transsexual, Transylvania.” Sexual deviance in all its glory.

9. Basic Instinct 1992 with Sharon Stone & Michael Douglas. More of a sexual thriller – bondage+sex=ice pick murder but the character of Catherine Trammel is etched into our psyches.

10. Quills 2000 Set in 1794, a fictional tale of the Marquis de Sade and his desire to have his stories published whilst imprisoned in a mental asylum. A fascinating exploration of hypocrisy & sexuality with Jeffrey Rush, Kate Winslet & Michael Caine

And if there was going to be runner-up it would be:
The Handmaid’s Tale 1990 with Natasha Richardson & Faye Dunaway. Sexual slavery and foot canings just to begin with!

I didn’t forget Exit to Eden 1994 it’s such a terrible movie it didn’t deserve to be on the list; or Preaching to the Perverted 1997 but it didn’t have an A-Lister, so didn’t make it. And Boxing Helena 1993 was excluded for both the above reasons.

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SM Aphrodisiacs, Hate Fucks & Tongue Lashes

Posted on 30/07/2014 by Mistress Sidonia

In Search of the (better) Female Orgasm Pt 2
Mistress Pandora using the electric face sitting/pussy licking chair – the perfect way sit back in comfort and get his tongue exactly where you want it

Heightening your Orgasm: The Aphrodisiac of (someone else’s) Pain
I guess I have a bit of a sick and twisted side 🙂 but pain has an aphrodisiac effect on me – my slave’s pain that is! I would highly recommend more women try it.There is something about his sweat, little grimaced red face and quiet moans that gets me all hot and horny. It most definitely heightens my orgasm.

Mistress T took the idea a little further by both hurting a slave while not even fucking him, as on top of this he was cuckolded as she fucked another slave beside him, he was even hooded so he could not even watch! So used together the cries of one slave were the aphrodisiac while the other provided the relief.

In the film Whipped For Her Orgasm Lady Nina & myself give a slave a hard whipping while Fetish Liza enjoys masturbating herself watching him suffering. Hate Fucking
As regular readers of this blog will know – I am fascinated with how to completely physically and psychologically break my male slaves – the most important factor is to destroy their self-worth and sense of individuality. I have been experimenting with ‘hate fucking’ when I fuck a slave either sexually or with a huge strapon when I’m genuinely angry and annoyed with them. Fucking someone with total contempt is so hot for me, yet so degrading for them. Recently a slave of mine found himself cruelly fucked all over the Mansion grounds in every position possible with my biggest strapon at night in the wet and cold. I was fully dressed and furious – the fuck was exhilarating and cathartic for me while he was left sore, used and broken!

Vituperation – Extreme Verbal Humiliation
I also love to verbally abuse slaves when fucking them – and my cutting tongue can be as cruel as any whip. To like to remind them how worthless they are and I never let them cum. They are nothing more than human vibrators there for my use. Somehow this treatment and degradation of them focuses the whole of the sexual act on me and my sexual pleasure – again a sure way to let me achieve a huge orgasm.

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A Lady & A Vamp – Nina Birch

Posted on 25/07/2014 by Mistress Sidonia

Lady-Nina-Birch-English-Mansion-collection-2014 Two recent Mansion films (Maid Trained Maid Milked & Nina’s Sissy Slut Girls) and two up-coming ones featuring Lady Nina Birch and some of her ‘special girls’ Felicity, Natalie & Tiffany.

All New Website
Lady Nina Birch resident English Mansion Domina, cock controlling dom wife and sissification specialist has completely revamped her personal website with a huge number of new and recent photos of Ms Birch in action.

Lady-Nina-Birch-dot-com Visit the all new www.ladyninabirch.com

Lady Nina’s main focus is domestic-style domination. She loves to play at being your strict wife – she’ll train, control, tease and humiliate you and your ‘little man’. Her other passion is for TV, Slut & Sissy training and you’ll soon find yourself dressed up and worshipping her strapon. Her huge wardrobe also extends to everything from slut wear to full sissification attire, to make up and wigs. She also specialises in clothing & leg/foot fetishists.

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Jessica Dee’s Thoughts of a Submissive CD
Also check out this great blog about Jessica’s visit to the Mansion English Mansion – Third time’s a charm where she gets taken in hand by both Lady Nina Birch & Miss Jessica Wood here

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Last Little Man Standing

Posted on 13/07/2014 by Mistress Sidonia

The Lost Village of Mini Men
The village where men are shrunk down to size (literally!)

Here at The English Mansion we have a coven of female witches – The Sisters of Circe who congregate on special days to work their wicked magic. One mystical moonlit night they cast a powerful spell that shrunk a local village down to 10 times its normal size.

Giantess-Fun-Annimation-Mistress-T

Turning it into a miniature curiosity for dominant woman. The spell specifically included the villages’ young males who must now reside there forever.

Mistress T – Gives good head!

We keep these mini men as tiny pets and an amusement for the dommes who visit us. Unfortunately, while Mistress T was visiting, she decided to break into the Village and while there caused a little havoc… Giantess-Fun-Annimation-Mistress-T-02 So many powerless men to play with… tiny men the perfect size to slip into your pocket or keep between your cleavage.

You can visit Mistress T’s website here, highly recommended
Verbal Humiliation, Masturbation Instruction,
Cuckolding, Giantess, Age Play, Foot & Body Worship