A Work of Love
Meet some purveyors of fine fetish bespoke items whose work is not so much a commercial endeavour but a complete work of love…
Rosebuds – Bespoke anal plugs & fetish jewelry
Weird and wonderful – even if you don’t want to buy anything, take a visit to this website which is more a strange interactive art experience than anal plug shop. I particularly loved the kaleidoscope wallpapers made up from human sphincters. This site not only offers incredible bespoke anal plugs but a huge variety of beautiful nipple and CBT jewelry and kinky sex toys. This is one man’s obsession – made art – made shopping. visit Rosebuds
ainsely-t – handcrafted Shoes & Boots Handcrafted erotic shoes and boots that will make you stand out from the crowd! visit ainsely-t
The stunning Baltic blonde Mistress Akella of London makes her debut this week at The Mansion – with Leather worship & Cigar smoking.
Mistress Akella is a tall, long-legged, stunning Baltic blonde. As a Mistress she’s sensuous and seductive but with an extremely cruel streak gaining great pleasure from inflicting torment and pain. She will captivate you with her stunning beauty and then use you for her sadistic pleasure. She has a great love of leather and high heels, particularly soft leather stiletto heeled boots and takes great pride in ensuring her stable of slaves keeps them licked clean. She also specializes in smoking fetish including cigars and human ashtray scenes.
Highly recommended Club Rub– a well established fetish club, hosted by the gorgeous Kim. Rub’s a fantastic place to party hard in all your pervy gear and to meet and play with other kinky souls. So get dressed up and get out and party. Skin Two Review from the Last Club Rub Skin Two Interview with Kim from Club Rub
Membership has its benefits and here at The Mansion everyone signed up for our monthly newsletter got first dibs on 20 Free Tickets to the next ‘most excellent’ Club Rub on the 17th April.
Plus of course every month you get the chance to win one of 5 free site passes – see here for more details
Exploring The Emotional & Psychological Aspects of A Domination Session Through A Visual Medium
One of the facets of female domination that I find particularly arousing is the psychological and emotional aspect of the relationship between a Mistress & slave. Queen & pawn. The one to one eye contact, the flow of energy, the exhilarating power exchange, the intensity and charged atmosphere of the session. These are all areas that are, at best, difficult and often impossible to try and capture or convey within the current genre of femdom movies.
The English Mistress – Video/DVD Series
Diversicor/ GwenMedia, Released 2001 USA only
In attempting to try and overcome this problem I have been experimenting with alternative kinds of film making. This is how The English Mistress series of Videos/DVD’s came into being. These films capture real-life, real-time domination sessions. They are filmed in black and white, some sections with a drop-frame effect which gives them a dream like quality ~ ‘that you have but slumber’d here, while these visions did appear’. Filming without colour draws the viewer into the action and enhances the sensual texture of many of the implements and costumes of SM play and especially leather.
Where there was little verbal action or no sound I have added ethnic background music often with ethereal female chanting to add a reminder of the powerful and hypnotic nature of female energy. I also wanted my devotees to hear my voice speaking directly to them and so have added a voice-over to a number of the movies designed to mesmerize the viewer and draw them into my world. I discuss my philosophy of female domination including an in-depth introduction to what is expected from a contracted slave. I also comment on the action as it unfolds giving the viewer more of an insight into the psychology of domination and understanding of my equipment and implements.
Wet Sex
I’ve been having a busy time at The English Mansion over this traditionally wet English summer, enjoying some fantastic sessions. And, speaking of wet, I have been revisiting my great love of WS where I reward my slaves good behaviour with my golden liquid or for the less obedient slaves some encouraged consumption way beyond their means! As you all know, I like to keep a sex slave or two, to fulfill my large sexual needs, a way of achieving a multiple orgasm for me is to gush and fuck their male member simultaneously. This is a skill that takes some practice but once mastered adds a whole new dimension of sensation, the feel of that hot liquid lubricating the shaft is amazing. The icing on the cake, is after taking my orgasm from the poor, used slave, is to follow this by a torrent of pee all over his body and face, this often gives me a further orgasm, a great finish to a session for me.
Turning Your ‘He’ into Your ‘She’ Some feminisation suggestions from Mistress Sidonia
As an experienced Mistress I have found that with a recalcitrant and difficult male/husband/slave that ‘encouraged’ feminisation is the ultimate way to totally break and control them. Take away everything he has – his identity, name and even gender. Perhaps start by dressing him in stockings and suspenders and some nice frilly or bright red panties. Eventually move onto fully transforming him – make up, wigs, shaving his body, corseting him, using the electric sucking machine everyday on his nipples to develop them and buying him his first gel breasts, which he must wear constantly even being made to sleep in them.
Next he must be made to wear butt plugs, increasing the size over time (ones that can be locked in are available) and a chastity device. The chastity device is essential to help control his old ‘male’ urges and the butt plugs will help himdevelop his new ‘pussy’. Now it’s time to cut up his old male clothes in front of him – show him his old life is gone – forever!
At first when he is being difficult about this new regime I find extended periods of bondage ideal, as once he is fully dressed, you can ‘trap’ him in his female attire, giving him time to become accustomed to his new transformed ‘body’. Also once tied I can practice make up and wigs on him and he can’t be too difficult. Some TV’s respond to the more extreme rubber transformations with doll hoods and rubber female genitals. Others may require total sissification, you can usually discover what produces the most contrition over time or just dress them up the way you like to see them. Like a lovely human dolly to play with.
All these techniques are excellent for her new body but time must be spent reprogramming her mind, referring to ‘him’ as ‘her’ continually, re-naming ‘her’ and working on ‘her’ inner femininity – those old arrogant male traits can be the most difficult to remove. Some transformation may need more extreme measures – pain aversion can be a great Pavlovian device by associating the male behaviour you don’t like with CP or electrics etc..
Now it’s time to make the change more permanent by showing her off, very humiliating but essential for her training, this can be a little party with some of your girlfriends, she can maid, serve drinks, put on a little show, punishing her in public can be excellent for her training as it’s extra shameful. Then there are trips out, shopping for her clothes, making her try on and buy large sizes when out and about, even discussing what suits her with the shop attendants.
If she still has to go to work, allow her to wear her male clothes but make sure she wears panties and stockings under these clothes and a chastity device (when required) – but always make sure the second she comes home she immediately changes back to her feminine clothes and presents herself to you for inspection.
To fully accomplish the change she must be engaged sexually, start with strapon cock sucking training, then stretch her up with plugs and make sure you fuck her regularly with a strapon. I have a vibrating one where part of it is inside me so I can cum while fucking her – I might as well make full use of her. Later, I think it’s essential to bring in a male and put her to work on a real cock, as she needs the experience of having it spunk in her face and mouth. If you know another Mistress or girlfriend with a TV slave, set up a party, perhaps with a sex show for you – a lovely afternoons entertainment.
As the years pass you’ll be amazed at what a transformation you can make!
Welcome to the Realm of Mistress Sidonia Supreme Ruler of The English Mansion. Leather clad 'n' booted bitch, highly sexed martinet & cruel male slave trainer
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