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OWK – The Other World Kingdom

Posted on 01/08/2021 by Mistress Sidonia

OWK – The Other World Kingdom

The Other World Kingdom was a femdom micronation set-up in the buildings and grounds of a 16th century château in Černá, Czech Republic. It was an inspired and visionary undertaking to create an entire ‘femdom state’ – with a matriarchal, authoritarian society, based on the principles of female supremacy, BDSM and male sexual slavery. Although not recognized by any other country, it maintained its own currency (the DOM), passports, police force, courts, state flag and state hymn. It was opened to the public in 1997.

The OWK Coat of Arms with their motto “Women Over Men” & the state Flag

The site was huge, almost a small village – it had several buildings and extensive outdoor spaces including a 250m oval human pony cart track, lake and landscaped gardens. The main building was the Queen’s Palace, which was the residence of the monarch and contained a banqueting hall, library, throne room, tort*** chamber, schoolroom and an extensive basement prison with cells. There were also many other buildings for visiting Dominas and an indoor riding hall and stables.

The OWK was run by the elusive ‘Queen Patricia the 1st’ as its absolute monarch. Next came the ‘Sublime Ladies’ who formed the Kingdom’s nobility. To become a citizen, a woman must fulfill certain criteria including: owning at least one male slave; agreeing to the principles and laws of the OWK; and visiting the Kingdom for at least five nights. Males were either the Queen’s subjects, submissive men with some rights; or ‘slaves’ men who forfeited all their rights and are now property of the Queen or Sublime Ladies and are considered to be ‘on the level of a normal farm animal’.

The OWK was a sensation when it opened, it was immensely popular with dommes and slaves alike; with many world-famous dommes visiting its facilities and gaining passports. It held regular femdom events and celebrations throughout the year which visitors were invited to. There was an epic buzz about this monumental place. I remember the literature they put out for visitors and I had never seen anything like it – men enslaved in cages, cells, kennels and put to work doing hard labour. While cruel and beautiful leather-clad women wandered around using and abusing the men as they wished. All set within this beautiful castle where every room was spectacular! It was a fantasy come true, a real-life femdom enclave run by dominant women.

It should be noted behind the façade of the OWK and its ideology was a serious commercial endeavor. It was set up as a resort and BDSM facility for visiting dommes and subs from around the world, who paid to visit. While the venue was used for the femdom films & photoshoots used for the OWK magazines, books and website which was for a time, hugely successful.

Sadly, this unique real-world Femdom retreat closed in 2008 and has now become the stuff of legend. It is not exactly clear why it closed though several dominant women did band together (unsuccessfully) to try to save it. Today there is a website where old images and films can still be watched by members. I’ve been wanting to write about the OWK for a while now – it was a bold, audacious and visionary venture that should be recognised and praised in the annals of femdom.

Update 2021 The OWK is now open for filming and the clips are available on their C4S store, more details here:
Twitter.com/owkreal

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Celebrating Those Who Take Their Kink Seriously

Posted on 24/07/2021 by Mistress Sidonia

Celebrating Those Who Take Their Kink Seriously

Fetishism and BDSM gets a bad rap in the mainstream media, nearly always it’s linked with violence and abuse. However, genuine scene players understand that it is actually a lot of FUN! It’s playtime for consenting adults. A source of relaxation to aid our emotional well-being; and stimulation to fuel imagination, creativity and a lateral mindset.

Alternative kinky people often are highly intelligent, gifted individuals. They have a huge enthusiasm and myriad of innovative ways of getting their ‘kink on’. It is a way to express the inner self honestly and with vulnerability; and to heighten the intimacy between sexual partners. For some their kink is akin to a specialist hobby that they are totally dedicated to; for others it can also form a massive extension to their social life, a means to find others who share their passion.

So with absolutely no derision intended, this is dedicated with genuine reverence to those on the scene that take their kinkiness seriously!

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Wax Play Pt1 – An Essential Guide to Everything you ever Wanted & Needed to know about Wax Play

Posted on 16/07/2021 by Mistress Sidonia

Wax Play Pt 1

An Essential Guide to Everything you ever Wanted & Needed to know about Wax Play

Wax play is a great way to inflict slow sensuous pain, each drop imparting a momentary hot searing sensation onto the skin. Erotic hot fingers caressing and penetrating your body in an entirely unique way. Wax is visual, it’s dramatic, it has an intimacy and a punch – enough to get the endorphins flowing. Applied correctly wax should leave no marks nor do any damage to the skin, it most definitely should not cause scalds or burns. Yes, it may slightly redden the skin but this should pass after an hour or so. This is one of wax play’s major advantages – pain without lasting marks.

Types of Candle Wax

It’s essential to choose the correct type of wax for BDSM play, ones with a low melting point.
a) Firstly and most importantly, so it will not burn the skin;
b) But also because to use wax effectively you need it to be fast dripping or pourable.
So you need a soft wax that melts quickly while you are using it.

Candles are made from different types of wax, these melt at different temperatures. Most come from a derivative of petroleum, though there is also beeswax; tallow (animal fat wax); and natural waxes made from soy (beans) or plants. Generally, the higher the quality and cost, the harder the wax, the slower they burn. Like church pillar candles which are designed to burn for many hours as they are made from beeswax which has a very high melting point. So, this is one of the few areas of life where cheaper is better, as cheap candles burn quickly as the wax is softer and the softer the wax the lower the melting point.

Other factors may also increase the temperature of the hot wax – scented candles are made from essential oils and oil has a high burning temp. Most candle sticks contain hardeners (sterin or steric acid,) which increases the melt temperature to makes them burn longer with less drips. The dyes used for colours can make a candle burn hotter, this is especially true for richly pigmented candles. However, it’s best to use coloured candles, muted ones, as white, the most common candle colour is not ideal for candle wax play as it doesn’t show up well against the skin, thought it can work on darker skins.

Do Not Use
Beeswax candles
Long burning or very hard candles (including church pillar)
Metallic, richly pigmented or oil scented/perfumed candles

All have high melting points or contain hot oils and can seriously burn the skin. It’s best to buy specialist BDSM play candles or pouring wax with low melting points they come in fabulous colours and are easy to use. More about these later.

The Wax Test

A good rule is to always test wax on yourself first, an idea place is the back of your arm. Though, you must still remember that everyone feels wax differently and has a different tolerance to heat, even at the same wax temperatures. Dehydration, alcohol, some medications and skin conditions will play a role in a body’s reaction. Body moisturisers and perfumes on the skin can also make the wax hotter. While some people are allergic to paraffin used in most candles. So check and communicate with your play partners.

Other Factors Influencing Temperature

1. First drops Wax dripped onto wax is an entirely different sensation to wax dropped onto skin! So when you start dropping the wax on the skin it will be much hotter than later on.

2. Distance I’d suggest dropping the wax from at least 18 inches above the skin, this gives the drips time to cool. At the beginning start the drops high, once you have coverage you will need to lower the wax for the effect to still be felt through the layers.

3. Amount The amount of wax being poured will effect its temperature. Wax dripped slowly from above has time to air cool, however, wax poured from a jar from the same height and same temperature will not be able to do this. So more wax = more heat = risk of burning. While the wax is still ‘wet’ on the body it’s still hot so don’t use it too quickly, it’s a slow pleasure savour it! Also be aware it will naturally pool in depressions on the body taking longer to cool and harden so dropping more wax onto these areas will increase the heat.

4. Skin Sensitivity Wax on harder skin like the bottom or legs will feel less hot than wax dripped onto more sensitive places like the genitals.

Where To Drop

For BDSM hot wax dripped onto breasts, nipples, genitals, thighs can be very erotic, but wax can be used anywhere on the body. I think, however, it’s best to avoid the face, eyes obviously can’t be waxed and it is a nightmare if you get it in your hair (especially longhair) so take care. If used on the genitals, as the skin there is thinner and more sensitive remember this will make the wax feel hotter. I have known people who like to wax the tongue/mouth, I don’t think this will cause harm but care should be taken so that it does not block the air passage and given most wax is a derivative of petroleum it really isn’t a good idea to eat any of it. This is also an issue if wax is dripped into a vagina or anus, it’s not something I’d recommend but if this is something you are determined to try, make sure you get it all out afterwards.

To be continued in Pt2
Read Part 2 Here

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Afternoon Tea With Entertainment: Femdom Fiction

Posted on 09/07/2021 by Mistress Sidonia

Afternoon Tea With Entertainment:
Femdom Fiction
Warning: offensive wordplay/verbal humiliation

He felt the collar move slightly on his neck as he knelt to the right of the sofa as per Mistress’ instruction. Mistress Sidonia give him one more appraising look before taking a seat alongside the other dark haired Mistress. Another blonde domme sat on a separate chair, positioned at the side of the coffee table. Once again he took in a sharp intake of breath as he considered them. Their beauty was transcendent and their power manifest. They were quite simply stunning and it was difficult to articulate their charisma or effect on him. He felt once again another stirring in his cock. Only 24-hours previously he had been at his desk, lumbering through some paperwork, when his mobile buzzed. The message was short and to the point – ‘Present yourself at the Mansion tomorrow at 1pm for an afternoon of servitude.’

It was what he had agreed to after the initial induction session some months ago. Indeed, his induction into this world was still underway, and he had wondered for the rest of the evening what was in store for him. The drive out the country in the temperate Spring weather had been as pleasant, and indeed liberating, as always. He had instructed his secretary he was gone to meet a client for the afternoon, and told his wife he would most likely be late due to an important meeting.

Upon arrival Eve, or Mistress Sidonia, as he now addressed her, had met him. He had bowed before her, before she led him to the prep room. He had stripped upon her order, and she gave him a brief synopsis of the afternoon’s schedule. She was enjoying the company of two other domme friends in afternoon tea, and his role was essentially to be a piece of human furniture, to be used as they saw fit. There would be another servant, who would serve the tea. Immediately, he had visions of a sexy slave girl maid, and his mind had run riot.

As he knelt here and they chatted, he tried to visualise what the maid could possibly look like. Who knows, they might order him to perform on her. His mind was jolted back to the present, when Mistress Sidonia asked her friends were they ready for tea. They assented and she rang a small bell. The moment was here. Again, he felt his cock grow expectant, awaiting the entrance. The door opened. A young man stepped through the door, tray in hand. He was naked except for a frilly black and pint apron. His face was painted white, his lips dark red, and there seemed to be purple eyeshadow. The effect made him look like a pure slut, a veritable harlot.

He stepped forward with the tray, placing it on the table and proceeding to serve the Mistresses.
“Good slave boy,” chuckled Mistress Sidonia. She turned to him. “What do you think, slut Penny?”
The other dommes giggled mischievously.
“Yes, certainly interesting, Mistress,” he replied.
“Do you hear that slave boy. Penny thinks you are interesting.”
“Yes, Miss,” responded slave boy.
“Let us look at you,” said MSVB. “Stand back and turn around slowly. You may look as well, Penny.”

Slave boy did as he was instructed. His eyes lifted up to look at him. He turned around. His skin was pale. He was well built, fit and obviously worked out. He stood for a second with his back to them. His arse was prim and pert and, despite himself, his eyes immediately latched on it. He flinched, when he felt MSVB’s gaze upon him. He could sense she was smiling.
“Mmm, very good,” she said.
“I think we should have some fun with slave boy,” she commented to the other dommes. They chuckled.
“He’s here for our entertainment, after all.”
MSVB stood and approached slave boy. “Quite fetching isn’t he. What do you think, Penny?”
He nodded and grunted, “Yes, Mistress.”

The other two dommes stood and, as if on cue, all three removed their tops. His cock stiffened as he cast a furtive glance at their exposed breasts. MSVB approached him. “Stand up, Penny.”
He stood, his cock now fully erect.
“You dirty bitch,” she scolded him.
“Come here, slave boy.”
Slave boy approached and stood in front of him as instructed.
“Fluff his cock, slave boy.”
Penny gulped.
Slave boy knelt and poised himself in front of his cock.
“Lick his balls, then the shaft.”
He felt the moist tongue touch his balls and then its sweep as it eagerly engulfed his sack.
Then it was scaling up his shaft, encircling the circumference. It reached the head.
“Kiss it,” ordered MSVB.
He felt the lips on his tip, and then the tongue was licking the head slavishly.
“Now suck it.”
The mouth enveloped his cock, quickly and greedily establishing a rhythm. He groaned as he felt slave boy’s mouth engulf his protuberance. A minute or two passed and he felt the build up to a climax. He groaned more.
“Stop,” said MSVB. “It’s not time for Penny to cum just yet.
“Go and stand against that headboard slave boy and then bend over.”

Slave boy pulled off his cock and did as he was told. His arse was cocked in mid air now, inviting almost. The other two dommes had donned strap ons. MSVB now did the same.
He couldn’t believe his luck. They were going to fuck the slut in front of him. This would be fun. MSVB approached him with something in her hand.
“Put this on, Penny.”
He looked non plussed at the condom. His cock stood rigid, in anticipation of the live sex show he imagined taking place. Nonetheless, he put the condom on, without any real comprehension as to why this was necessary. The other two dommes had been lubing slave boy’s hole. MSVB grabbed him by the collar.
“Penny your task to is get slave boy ready for us.”
She placed him in front of slave boy. He presumed the task would be to hold him, as the dommes took turns on him. There was absolute silence in the room. MSVB had retreated.
He stood, ready for the order. He felt a slight movement behind him, and then MSVB was at his ear.

“Mount him, Penny,” she hissed.
He grimaced and shuddered.
“Yes, you bitch, fuck him like the slut he is.”
He cast a sideways glance at her and was about to mumble a protest when the cane struck his rump. Now her hand was on his cock and she pulled it to slave boy’s arse. He moved forward, his cock moving between the cheeks, exploring the canyon and pushing on to the hole. He gulped as it found purchase in the tight hole and slowly entered more. He pushed and pulled back slightly, getting a slow rhythm going. Slave boy groaned. The rhythm increased in tempo as his confidence grew. He couldn’t believe he was fucking another guy. MSVB was on his shoulder, and her hands were now pinching his nipples.
“Yes, that’s it bitch. Now go deeper. Give him a good hard fucking.”

The other two dommes squealed in delight. He gripped slave boy’s hips, now taking to the task, as the tight hole yielded.
“I want you to cum in him,” said MSVB.
The tempo increased as the last vestige of his inhibition was shredded. He could feel his cock building to a climax, as it thrust up slave boy’s hole. He grunted and exhaled as the climax came, the spasms making the thrusts more aggressive. Then the exhalation after the release. He released his grip on slave boy as he slowly pulled out. MSVB stood in front of him.

“Well, that was fun.”
“What do you think ladies. Have you been entertained?
“What will we give them out of ten?”
His scorecard turned out to be seven. Slave boy’s was also seven.
“Plenty of room for improvement,” commented MSVB.
“I think next time, we shall have to dress you up Penny.”
He nodded, as his mind raced to fully comprehend what had taken place.
He had just fucked another guy. It would take him some time to process it.
This Mistress and her friends had bended him to their will in every sense.
They had made him their faggot, as he fucked a faggot.
“Ladies,” said MSVB, “I think it’s time for a toilet break.”
“Yes,” both replied, “we need to go as well.
“Come along Penny,” said MSVB. “Your next task awaits you…….”

by slut penny

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Wow! 10 Million Femdom Blog Visits ~10,000,000

Posted on 01/07/2021 by Mistress Sidonia

Mistress Sidonia’s Femdom Blog
reaches 10,000,000 visits

We are still getting new unique visitors everyday which is why we’re celebrating reaching
10 Million visits to this Femdom Blog!

Daily that’s approx. 1,000 unique users & 4,000 to 10,000 post views. Plus the counter was only started in Aug 2010, while I actually began this blog in Aug 2003.

Yes, our traffic’s now so huge we’ve had to add another zero to our counter!

So a giant thank you to all our supporters, dedicated members, fellow dommes and pervy friends.
So if you’re new here? And love femdom then step inside…

So What’s This Femdom Blog All About?

Predominantly, this blog focuses on the World of Femdom with posts on:

~ Features & contacts for the world’s top dominatrices & prodoms
~ Specialist BDSM equipment
~ Fetish art & photography
~ In depth Articles and Femdom Fiction
~ Scene News & Events
~ My personal philosophy or general musings on female domination
~ What’s happening inside The English Mansion – new films, my wicked exploits and introducing new dominas

A question I often get asked… yes, everything on this blog is written by me personally (with the exception of a handful of femdom fiction stories which are credited to the contributors.)