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Exotic Cancer: Don’t Mess with a Goddess

Posted on 01/11/2025 by Mistress Sidonia

Exotic Cancer: Don’t Mess with a Goddess

Exotic Cancer, a Melbourne based digital artist, kicked off her creative journey in 2017 by posting her artwork on Instagram. Her carnal and provocative illustrations, shaped by her experiences in the world of strip clubs, grabbed

attention fast with their unfiltered direct storytelling. Transforming raw, intimate moments into satirical, empowering narratives that challenge societal stigmas around the sex industry. She soon transitioned from a passion project to a full-time career.

She says the themes within her work can be summarized in three words: female sexual empowerment. The aesthetic is both playful, unflinching and confrontational, with clean lines, vibrant contrasts, and a touch of the macabre, creating a visually striking commentary on sexuality. She explores the darker facets of human desire, lust, male & female power dynamics, and the tangled web of human connection, casting these themes against a dark, dystopian backdrop.

Nightshift – The Board Game
Alongside her potent, suggestive illustrations and animations, Exotic Cancer pours her imagination into standout product designs, jumping across all sorts of mediums with her signature darkness. Nightshift, her board game smashed through crowdfunding expectations, raking in over a million dollars on Kickstarter, transforming her art and life experiences into an interactive experience.

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Exotic Cancer’s online shop offers a curated selection of merchandise reflecting her provocative, sex-positive art. Featuring the bestselling Exotic Cancer Tarot Deck, art prints, cushions, crop tops, socks, and accessories like key-chains and phone cases, with worldwide shipping.

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I absolutely adore, adore, adore! Exotic Cancer’s illustrations, annimations and merch. Driven by her unfiltered female perspective, she smashes traditional boundaries, a true original with her defiant, provocative empowering work. Here, I’ve highlighted her Femdom-inspired pieces, but her portfolio also includes striking mini-animations and illustrations celebrating womanhood, sexwork, and the female body.

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The Power of Chastity in Femdom

Posted on 25/10/2025 by Mistress Sidonia

Photo from: Training Her Houseboy featuring Miss Suzanna Maxwell

The Power of Chastity in Femdom:
A Psychological Dance of Control and Desire
An Ode To Locktober

In the intricate world of Female-Led Relationships (FLR) and Femdom dynamics, chastity play is a powerful tool that transcends physical restraint, weaving a complex tapestry of psychological control, devotion, and desire. A chastity device is not merely a lock on a sub’s genitals; it’s a symbol of the Domina’s authority over their most intimate urges, creating a dynamic charged with anticipation, vulnerability, and power. Chastity amplifies the psychological connection between Dominant and submissive. While my previous articles: A Beginner’s Guide to Wearing a Chastity Device Pts1, 2&3 covered practicalities like choosing a cage, here I explore the psychological power of chastity in Femdom.

Amplifying Dominance Through Chastity

Chastity is a powerful tool for a Domina to wield. It’s not merely a physical restraint; it’s a psychological leash that keeps a submissive tethered to her, craving her command. Chastity symbolizes the submissive’s surrender of control over their sexual desires to the Mistress. Once locked, the device turns teasing: verbal or physical, into a delicious torment, heightening arousal and transforming daily moments into erotic tension. With the sub’s desire sharpening their submission, this continued denial redirects their energy from personal urges to devoted service, fostering self-control, curbing habits like excessive masturbation, and deepening intimacy with the Mistress.

Keyholding & Denial

As a keyholder, the Domina often wears the key around her neck, a constant reminder of her control dangling in plain sight. For added devotion, the submissive’s chastity cage padlock can be engraved with the Dominant’s initials, a mark of ownership felt with every step. Tasks and rewards transform submission into a game designed by the Mistress. Menial chores, acts of service, humiliation or daily affirmations of the Dominant’s power may be assigned. With fleeting moments of freedom from the device earned through compliance and obedience or withheld for the smallest infractions. A missed task? Answering back with cheek? They are denied. This keeps their focus razor-sharp, their motivation burning to please their Mistress. This interplay of control, anticipation, and consequence illustrates the intricate psychological layers of chastity within a Femdom relationship.

Emasculation

Some submissives are never permitted a release and are kept permanently locked by their Mistress: possibly due to their inadequate cocks; her desire to cuckold them; or to keep them pussy-free and forever denied sexual release or pleasure as Sissies or BAVs. Here chastity may serve to emasculate the male submissive, stripping him of his cock’s function and ability to penetrate, rendering him symbolically impotent. This may be part of his re-education in order to learn his place as nothing more than an asexual object within his Mistress’s household. Separately, chastity may enforce feminization, here reinforced through sissy training and feminized attire in order to totally reshape his identity, to obliterate his former ‘maleness’ under her control.

Chastity Rituals

Rituals have power; in Femdom, we create sacred moments around locking and unlocking. A slave may be required to stand before his Mistress, eyes lowered, hands behind their back, as she secures the device, reinforcing her authority with each click. These rituals aren’t just for show, they etch the power the domina holds into the psyche of the sub while fostering a profound connection, feeling their ‘owned status’. Unlike most Femdom play, chastity extends beyond the dungeon; while a collar may not be worn publicly, a chastity device can be discreetly worn 24/7. As play continues in the ‘real world,’ dominas may enforce rules like daily check-ins, tasks, or photo verification.

Other chastity rituals and games deepen the Femdom dynamic, through daily or weekly ceremonies, such as morning affirmations where the submissive declares, “I surrender my desires to you,” or bedtime lock-ins paired with anal plugs to heighten vulnerability. Tease sessions, whether edging or playful “chastity roulette” games, amplify anticipation. For long-distance dynamics, app-controlled cages with vibrating denial or timed key safes extend the Mistress’s authority across any distance.

Discussions about their denial cultivate a profound sense of owned submission, with submissives required to beg for release, earn freedom through devoted tasks, or wear the device 247. A release date may be set or left to the Dominant’s discretion, amplifying the submissive’s total surrender. A chastity device, much like a promise ring, symbolizes a vow to the Mistress, a way to endure and show their unwavering devotion.

Locktober

Locktober is a month-long event celebrated every October within the BDSM and kink communities. Subs and slaves commit to remaining in chastity, typically by wearing a chastity device (though a chastity promise/vow/pledge is also used) for the entire month, guided by their Mistress. This practice intensifies the power exchange, with Dominas setting rules, challenges, or tasks to keep the submissive on track and devoted. Locktober has gained popularity through online communities, where participants share experiences, challenges, and tips. The month-long duration introduces an element of endurance, testing the submissive’s commitment and deepening the bond with their Mistress.

Safety and Consent: Chastity devices must be comfortable, hygienic, and properly fitted to prevent injury. Regular check-ins and open communication ensure ongoing consent and comfort, while fostering trust. Read Pt3 of my Beginner’s Guide to Femdom for more information!

So, lock those bad boys up – it’s not just for their own good, it’s a deliciously deviant and hot way to deepen your Femdom dynamic. Keeping Doms in control and subs utterly devoted!

A Beginner’s Guide to Wearing a Chastity Device Pt1
A Beginner’s Guide to Wearing a Chastity Device Pt2
A Beginner’s Guide to Wearing a Chastity Device Pt3

The Power of Chastity in Femdom: A Psychological Dance of Control and Desire

LOCKtober – The Glorious 31 Day Non-Stop Caged Boner!

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Property Of Superior Women

Posted on 19/10/2025 by Mistress Sidonia

Property Of Superior Women

In a world where superior women reign supreme, slaves are nothing but their degraded property, trussed up in tight leather and coarse rope, twisted into humiliating predicament bondage positions that expose their weakness.

Stunning, merciless goddesses revel in their power, cruelly pegging their pathetic submissives with strapons, zapping them with electrified torment, harnessing them to chariots and subjecting them to relentless anal fucking machines that pound them into submission. Slaves, reduced to groveling, beaten, obedient toys, who exist solely to amuse their beautiful, sadistic mistresses, who delight in their suffering and demand absolute, humiliating devotion.

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A Regal Debut: Femdom Royalty Magazine

Posted on 13/10/2025 by Mistress Sidonia

A Regal Debut: Femdom Royalty Magazine

Femdom Royalty has burst onto the scene like a whip crack in a silent dungeon, a female-led quarterly magazine and femdom lifestyle blog that elevates the art of Female Domination to its rightful throne. Curated with unflinching authenticity and packed with high-quality photographs that capture the raw elegance and commanding presence of its subjects. This inaugural issue is a testament to the power of women reclaiming their narrative in a world too often filtered through the male lens.

At its helm stands the indomitable Lady Bellatrix, a British-Canadian Dominatrix with 15 years of professional pro-domming prowess and a journalistic pedigree that includes columns in major UK newspapers, and freelance features for top publications. Her vision – to spotlight the unsung architects of the BDSM universe has transformed what could have been another glossy fetish rag into a sophisticated chronicle of resilience, innovation, and unapologetic supremacy. From her Paris base, Bellatrix doesn’t just edit; she commands, infusing every page with the sharp intellect and lived experience that only a true practitioner can muster.

What sets Femdom Royalty apart is its relentless commitment to quality, striking photos, well-researched content that delves beyond surface-level kink into the psychological, cultural, and professional bedrock of Femdom. Gone are the recycled tropes and objectifying fantasies; in their place are nuanced explorations drawn from decades of global expertise. This isn’t armchair erotica, it’s a curated archive of voices that have weathered pandemics, legislative battles, and societal stigma! Highly recommended by industry titans like Ms. Velvet-Bound and Mistress Sidonia, the magazine has already garnered praise for its empowering ethos and refusal to pander. In an era where Femdom media often prioritizes spectacle over substance, Femdom Royalty restores dignity, making it an instant must-have for serious enthusiasts.

Quarterly Editions
Subscription is straightforward and accessible via the magazine’s sleek online portal at femdomroyalty.com, with digital editions delivered quarterly – for $49.99 annually, well worth every penny. Physical copies, printed on premium matte stock with evocative photography, ship worldwide for an additional $15 per year. This isn’t just a magazine; it’s an exclusive club for connoisseurs of Femdom and loyal subjects of Dominas around the world, fostering a sense of belonging amid its pages. Members gain bonus access to a private online forum for discussions, event listings, and previews of future issues.

Domina In-Depth Interviews
Extensive interviews form the magazine’s glittering spine, kicking off with Domina Silvia of Germany – a 30-year veteran whose path from 1990s Duisburg curiosity to global icon is riveting. Bellatrix’s sharp questions trace her rise from Düsseldorf dungeon observer to pioneer of authentic fetish films via SM Studio Berlin; unpacking insights on national kinks, instinctive psychological tools, and candid unexplored fantasies that reveal dominance’s intimate core, delivering a masterclass in intuition.

Equally captivating is Philadelphia’s Mistress Tissa, a “natural born Dominant”. Blending goth roots and academic rigour into her 2007 pro-Domme pivot, reframing feminization through L’Autel de la Femme as empowerment over emasculation while rejecting misogynistic tropes. From kink-competent counselling to founding BDSMProfessionals.com as a traditionalist haven, she guards the craft with sensual steel.

Rounding out the trio is Mistress Lorraine of Essex, UK, whose 10-year reign is marked by a “gym-toned body with a never-tiring right arm” and a charisma that disarms before it dominates. She co-owns the Essex and Maida Vale Dungeons with Madame Caramel. Mistress Lorraine uses her expansionist “Fempire” call and psychological edge to fully ‘take over’ her submissives, her motto, “We all deserve to be happy,” reframes D/s as fulfillment over mere control.

Words of Wisdomme
Lady Bellatrix‘s own feature, “Words of Wisdomme: Myth of the Personal Slave,” is a tour de force that skewers the entitled fantasies peddled by “hobosexuals” on FetLife, insisting that professionalism demands tribute, not free labor. Drawing from her pivot from journalism to full-time Domination in 2010, she dismantles the live-in slave delusion with humor and hard truths- why would an A-list Mistress trade session fees for “unpaid man babysitting”? It’s a rallying cry for boundaries!

Complementing this is “Mansplaining with Authentically Kinky,” where podcast host John (Hi There, Catsuit) offers a rare male perspective on ethical submission. Emphasizing kindness as kink and communication as catharsis, all while challenging stereotypes without overstepping.

Agony Aunt & Reviews
The Agony Aunt column by Mistress Simone Worthington, with her 30 years spanning Chicago and St. Louis, provides pragmatic balm for submissives’ woes, from tailored aftercare to avoid sub-drop, to impressing a Domme with honesty and punctuality, to navigating doubles with complementary energies. Her advice is no-nonsense yet nurturing, urging novices to embrace their inexperience and veterans to seek novelty, all while stressing mutual respect in professional play.

The reviews section is a treasure trove of vetted excellence: Jane Boon‘s “Bold Strokes” novel earns raves for its thrilling sequel to “Edge Play,” immersing readers in art-world intrigue and authentic Dominatrix psyche through Erika Grieg’s high-stakes double life. Justine Cross‘s Stella Obscura dungeon in LA dazzles as an all-white, neon-lit sanctuary blending luxury with bespoke gear for elite play.

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In Femdom Royalty, Lady Bellatrix has forged not just a magazine, but a manifesto for the future of Female Domination, bursting with substance that educates as it arouses, this quarterly gem is indispensable for Dominas, kinksters, fetishists, and subs alike.

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The Perv Index: Femdom Fiction

Posted on 07/10/2025 by Mistress Sidonia

Photo: Miss Jessica Woods, Lady Nina Birch & Miss Eve Harper (from A Well Trained Husband)

The Perv Index: Femdom Fiction

He knocked on the door and it was promptly opened by Miss Jill. He entered the apartment taking in the décor and the soft ambience of the furnishings and art on the walls. Ms Harper had invited him for a celebratory drink to ‘cement’ as she put it their new business partnership. The ink was still probably drying on the contract which they had signed just that afternoon, he reflected. It had been the culmination of months of negotiation, with a particularly intense phase during the latter stages. She was a hard nosed business person, but the deal was mutually beneficial.

He had cancelled his voluntary work that evening at the last moment. The local community group would have to do without his talk on family values. His wife too had been somewhat discommoded, but he explained to her that it was important to see out the formulation of this contract. And now there she was. Miss Harper stood in the living room. She was still in business dress, minus the jacket. She held a glass in her hand.

“Good evening Michael,” she intoned. “I’m glad you could make it, to get our new partnership off to a promising start.”
Miss Jill appeared at this side with a tulip glass of champagne. He accepted it and approached Ms Harper. She held out his glass and they duly clinked.
“To many promising years of business,” she toasted.
Another woman entered the room.
“This is another business partner of mine, Michael,” said Ms Harper.
“Meet Zita.”
He gladly took her hand, noticing straight away her ample cleavage. Zita took a seat, while Ms Jill fetched her a drink. Ms Harper took his arm.
“Stand over here, you bitch,” she said. He started, unsure of what he had heard.
“What,” he said.
“Oh you heard me, stand over here.”
He took up his place where she directed against the wall. She clicked her fingers. From around the far corner a guy appeared, bare chested bar an apron which covered his groin area. Apart from that he seemed to be naked. He inhaled sharply.
“What the hell,” he thought.
“Michael, I’d like you to meet my manservant, Pierre,” Ms Harper said.
“Pierre performs a variety of household tasks for me, as well as providing copious entertainment for me and my friends. He has many uses and talents. Isn’t that right, Pierre?”
The servant, if that what he was, nodded.
He was well toned and in great shape.
Ms Harper continued: “I thought we’d relax and celebrate our deal Michael. Pierre here is going to help.”

With that she started unbuttoning her skirt. It slipped off. Again she clicked her fingers. As if on cue Pierre approached her and dropped to his knees. As if well practiced he began to remove her black lace panties using his mouth. It took two circuits of her, but eventually her panties slipped to the floor.

He inhaled sharply and he could feel the beads of sweat forming on his neck. What was going on here he thought. He could also feel something else taking shape in his pants, a direct reaction to what he was seeing. Ms Jill and Zita had now began to slowly strip, divesting themselves of their attire in a teasing fashion. Ms Harper turned to him, naked except for her sexy stockings and business shirt.

“Not exactly Sunday school, now is it Michael,” she giggled.
She approached him, leaning her face close into his and whispering into his ear.
“You see you won the contract not just for what you were bringing in a business sense.
“I had plenty of other offers, which I carefully vetted. But you were the one who made the grade.
“And you know, why?”
He looked at her dumbstruck and shook his head.
She grabbed his crotch, her fingers exploring and her palm encapsulating and rubbing his manhood.
“You see Michael, you registered on what I call my Perv Index. None of the others did.
“I saw the way you looked at me on those summer days when I wore a low cut dress. I saw you stealing glances at my cleavage. I saw the way you took in Ms Jill’s arse when she brought us in papers. I saw the bulge in your pants, which is now in my hands.”

With that she undid his belt, pulling it off with an exclamatory force. She unbuttoned his fly and aggressively pulled down his pants and his boxers.
“My, what have we here,” she exclaimed.
She cupped his balls and the hand which only hours before he had watched with assiduity sign the contract, now stroked his unashamedly erect penis.
“You see, Michael, I looked at you and I saw your true nature. I knew you were a perv. And I knew then I could bend you to my will. It’s a very important quality for me in a business partner.
“Now to christen our new arrangement, so to speak, Pierre here is going to go down on you.”
He recoiled. “What,” he spluttered.

She clicked her fingers and the manservant approached and knelt in front of him.
“Oh yes, Pierre is going down on you as a treat for us all as we get to know each other as business partners. It will the first of many such entertainments which are a little bonus of our partnership.
“My advice is to embrace it. You are my business partner now. That entails fulfilling certain lifestyle expectations which I require of my social and business associates. You will get used to it. We are going to have a very fruitful partnership in so many ways. You will find it fulfilling in so many ways.”
“But I….,” he stammerd.
“Shut the fuck up, you bitch,” she snarled.

She yanked the collar on Pierre’s neck, pulling him into the protuberance, which now stood almost glistening under the lights. Michael closed his eyes as he felt the physical contact. The slime of the tongue as it slid up his penis, coming to rest on the head, which he initially kissed and then licked. The mouth enveloped the head and he went deep. Michael swooned back his head as the first rush of pleasure hit him. He had signed on the dotted line. The contract was now activated.

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Playing Safely in BDSM

Posted on 01/10/2025 by Mistress Sidonia

Playing Safely in BDSM:
A Beginners Comprehensive Guide

BDSM, an acronym for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism, involves a wide range of erotic practices. The essence of safety within BDSM lies in mutual respect, consent, and communication. Here, are practices that ensure a safe BDSM play experience.

Scene Cognizance

Before engaging in any BDSM activities, participants should be fully aware of the scene they are entering. Importantly starting with,

Negotiation – This is a critical conversation held before any scene, where participants discuss:
Limits what is absolutely not acceptable
Preferences what is desired or enjoyed
*Safewords signals to pause or stop the scene
Fantasies
Past Experiences
Medical Issues that might affect the scene

*Safeword: A vital pre-agreed word, set of words or phrase that, when used, stops the scene immediately. Safewords are always respected. “Red” is often considered as the universal safeword. A series of Safewords may also be employed, i.e. “Green” everything is OK; “Amber” getting close to their limit; “Red” stop immediately. Sometime humorous or unconventional words like “Pineapple” are used to break immersion for urgent communication.

Post-Scene Dynamics

Subdrop: After an intense scene, a submissive might experience a physical and emotional down-turn due to a drop in endorphins and post-adrenaline rush.
Signs include – Feeling down or sad; Physical tiredness or exhaustion; Feeling overwhelmed; Hunger/Low blood sugar. This can be mitigated through,
Aftercare The process where the Dominant or Top ensures the well-being of the submissive or bottom.
Involving –
Physical comfort cuddles, warmth
Emotional support reassurance, talking
Practical care hydration, food, rest
Follow-Up a call or message a day or two later can help check on the well-being of the player

Note: Dominants also need aftercare. They might feel drained, depleted, physically and mentally tired or exhasted, so rest, quiet and a period of self-assessment are important post-scene.