So What Is An F.L.R.? Female Led Relationships Pt1

Lovely Lady Nina is taking a firm hand in this FLR


So What Is An F.L R.?

F.L.R stands for Female Led Relationship – an intimate personal relationship where the female partner has control over the male. The nature of this power dynamic can range from only affecting certain facets e.g. in the bedroom or decision making; to total command over all aspects of the partnership.

As feminists and gender equality activists have started to dismantle and challenge traditional social hierarchies, we’re beginning to see an increase in the amount of women and men who are openly pursuing female led relationships. Women want to take the lead and men are seeking strong, capable women.

Traditionally men have held this authoritative role within relationships, households and families but today with the constraints removed many women are finding the leadership role natural to them. And not just in relationships but for entire nations. From single mothers to intelligent business women to heads of state, women are quickly proving to men that they are just as competent. (At the time of writing this, female heads of state are incumbent in: Brazil, Germany, Bangladesh, Norway, Jamaica, Argentina, South Korea, Denmark & Poland. In the last 2 years: UK, Romania, Namibia, Iceland, Peru, New Zealand, Singapore, Serbia  – far too many to mention them all).

So it’s good news for both sexes as it means men no longer need to project a machismo and take on all the pressures of being providers. While it’s liberating for alpha women, (who unlike men – who are perceived as natural leaders, were seen as overbearing and bossy,) as they now can embrace their strong intelligent personas. People irrelevant of their sex can act in accordance with their own nature without fear of social stigma.

Madame Caramel is a true exponent of an FLR with her boy Joris always at her beck & call ~ Visit her website here

FLR & Femdom

It’s important to recognise that FLRs exist on a spectrum. Here at The English Mansion and within the world of femdom we are primarily interested in exploring its furthermost position. FLRs have direct parallels with the 247 or owned slave BDSM dynamic and can be the basis for a sub/dom paring or even marriage. (They probably just have less rubber & leather and no need of a dungeon.)

Femdom FLRs are where the woman takes total control and makes all the decisions in her relationship. She probably won’t work instead her partner/husband will provide and cater to her every need, worshipping her like a goddess. Sexually she will take strict command in the bedroom, making and training her partner/husband to serve her sexual needs. Chastity devices, enforced feminisation and cuckolding may play an important part of this training.

Note: What FLR isn’t

a)  It isn’t an abusive relationship but one agreed on or one that just naturally works;
b)  it isn’t one that resembles a mother/child dymanic, it’s a healthy adult relationship;
c)  and it isn’t an ongoing exhausting power struggle.

If you’d like a peak at a femdom FLR take a look at these recent English Mansion films: WLR Wife Led Relationship, Wives Take Charge & Your Bitch Wife.

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All She Ever Wanted: A Femdom Fairytale

Salome II by Franz von Stuck (1906)

All She Ever Wanted

A long, long time ago in a far, far away place lived little Princess Horrid. Cold and aloof she toyed with all around her making them step her merry yet deadly dance. But none amused, none could hold the intensity of her glare. None could love without wanting in return.

So she travelled far and wide deciding to search for the perfect slave. One who would wait on her hand and foot. Who would love and worship her above even themselves. Who would give everything and expect nothing. Many offered, many tried – all failed.

On advice from her handmaiden she decided to hold a giant tournament offering herself to the one who could suffer all the cruel torments she had devised. Though it turned out to be a more entertaining afternoon than most, sating her lust for blood, sweat and tears; none could be found who could completely the trial. For they did not see the eternal truth that one can only truly suffer for love.

Still incomplete she decided to visit the Kingdom’s magician. She explained that what she yearned for could not exist. He must conjure up this perfect slave, this being whose ‘reason d’etre’ would be to make her smile. She would be the creator, ubiquitous and omnipotent. Sitting down in a huge comfortable throne she set about listing all her wants and desires. Once finished she began shouting at the magician to get on with it, (she did shout a lot).

The magician boiled a big cauldron and threw lots of harmless little fluffy animals into it. He huffed and he puffed. He canted and incanted. Finally, there was a huge puff of smoke – and then nothing. Little Princess Horrid shouted and shouted till her face went lobster pink. (Well, she was rather a horrid Princess.)

Realising she would never fill her hearts desire she started back to her tower deciding to stamp all the way, when she bumped into a witch. She was a witchy witch, with a crooked stick and a crooked smile.
“Can’t find what you’re looking for missy? You need to stop searching and start seeing because everything you truly need – will always come to you.”
“I have searched and looked,” she declared in her usual spoiled and grumpy fashion. The witchy witch smiled her crooked smile,
“Aarr, but it is only with the heart that one can see clearly.”

“Witches what do they know anyway” grumbled the Princess under her breath as she marched back to her tower.

Now, there was a boy, a very strange enchanted boy, who already served the Princess. He didn’t yet know it yet, (for the most powerful secrets are those you keep even from yourself) but he wanted more than life itself to give himself up to her completely. Somewhere inside he knew his destiny lay on another path. But how could he find the way he didn’t even have a path or a signpost or even a map, (not that he was any good at map reading).

And so as time passed into the present and back again into the past and so on and so on time passed. He was always there tending to her every wish. Her whims became the flame that cast his shadow. He could only exist in her light. His love was infinite it stretched like tiny sparking stars never-ending round and around her cosmos. She was the sun of his world, worshiped each day to rise again and bring life to his being.

One day as he knelt down at her boots while she delved into a huge bowl of her favourite porridge, a little dripped down from her silver spoon,
“Look what you have made me do, you useless boy.” Spat the princess, pointing at the mess on the inside of her thigh. Blushing hotly, he bent down to lick her white skin clean and looking up he met her eyes, thinking how she was even more beautiful in anger. At that moment, as she felt his tongue and gazed into his eyes, she remembered the words of the witchy witch.

Postscript by the writer: The Princess had indeed finally found right before her (literally), just what she always wanted and as it turns out he was everything and much, much more.

Question from the reader: But did they all live happily ever after?

Writer: Oh you starry-eyed romantics, there is so much more after happily ever after.

By Mistress Sidonia von Bork

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Celestial Queen: Miss Vivienne l’Amour


Celestial Queen: Miss Vivienne l’Amour

Here at The English Mansion we always bring you the world’s most superior dominant women, all of who genuinely play in their personal lives and many who are available for 1 on 1 sessions. One of our resident English Mansion Dominas, (dommes who regularly come to play with our stable of slaves), is the stunning Miss l’Amour.

Miss Vivienne l’Amour has the looks and body of a super model alongside a natural Rubenesque bottom! While her epic pins will overwhelm any shoe or leg fetishist. She is an internationally acclaimed dominatrix & fetish model; kink producer; true fetishist & lifestyle kinkster. This intelligent, creative young women has a passion for all things pervy and especially femdom, often coming up with highly inventive scenes. She is a natural sadist which is tinged with an obvious eroticism as she relishes in your suffering and submission. What is special about Vivienne is her sense of fun, lightheartedness and natural wicked side.

Miss Vivienne l’Amour is a prodom available for sessions in Derby specialising in BDSM, Xdressing, Smoking & Humiliation.  See here for all of Miss Vivienne’s links More Info


Celestial Studios

Miss Vivienne l’Amour has recently set up Celestial Studios. A purpose-built fetish facility and media studio open for: professionals, photographers and videographers; private couple hire; and as a party venue. The sets available include a: 500 sq ft fully equipped dungeon; prison cell; medical suite; school room; pet paddock; and dressing room. To name just a few of its backdrops, as it is a huge space situated over 2 floors.

Celestial Studios Derby

Celestial Studios is situated in Derbyshire, within a secluded industrial estate, around 15 minutes drive from Derby Midland Train Station. The building is over 400 years old with fabulous character feature walls and windows. Lighting is available to hire for a minimal extra charge. Celestial Studios herehere.


The Heaven & Hell Masquerade Ball

Celestial Studios was recently the venue for Miss Vivienne l’Amour’s spectacular fetish event The Heaven & Hell Masquerade Ball with its ‘Pleasures of the Flesh’ & ‘Sinful Diversions’.

So keep a check on her website for future events. See here for a little peak in on the night.

Mansion Femdom Films
Don’t miss out  ~ all these recent amazing femdom films featuring Miss Vivienne l’Amour are showing right now inside The English Mansion
Get Access Here

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Atten-Shun! Basic Training Comic ~ Femdom Game

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Atten-Shun! Basic Training For Perves Comic Game
Check out this incredible fun, military themed femdom game.
by Vince Ray
www.VinceRay.com

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21st Century Tie & Tease

It’s time to bring the considerable art of tie & tease firmly into the 21st Century – no longer are bodies badly tied spreadeagle to a bed with a bit of old washing line or a dressing gown cord. Today being tied and teased is a state-of-the-art business. With cutting edge new toys which provide practical comfort and genuine inescapability; alongside high-tech equipment that can edge you for hours on end!

Welcome to 21st Century Tie & Tease

You can watch all the action right now inside The English Mansion…    Join here

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Cruel Intentions ~ New Mansion Dommes 2020

Cruel Intentions
New Dominas Coming to The English Mansion in 2020

We have three very different leading ladies making their debut very soon at The English Mansion: Mistress Damazonia, Lady Mephista & Princess Bella. All enjoy toying with men and have their own unique style and interests within female domination.

Here at the English Mansion we have no fixed rules about what constitutes femdom – it can be high-protocol, humiliating, technical, sexual, fetishistic or downright sadistic with infinite other permutations. We give our dominas a free rein and then just let them indulge in what they most enjoy :)

Mistress Damazonia
The striking and imposing Mistress Damazonia is an Amazonian Goddess, a commanding embodiment of femininity and power. Originally from Montréal which accounts for her slight French accent, she is now a bit of a fetish superstar and prodom based in Vancouver, Canada.

Mistress Damazonia ~ More Information & Links Here

Lady Mephista
Lady Mephista is a stunning, statuesque and graceful German dominatrix. Intelligent, cultured and thoughtful this classic domina’s beauty is equal to her sadistic nature. So to serve, be prepared to suffer for her pleasure then fall under her spell. She is a prodom based at Studio Avalon in Berlin, Germany. 

Lady Mephista ~ More Information & Links Here

Princess Bella
Princess Bella is a beautiful, young, kinky and enthusiastic player domme. A true giantess towering over you at 5’9″ without heels this adorable Princess will skillfully tease, humiliate and abuse you. She is a prodom based in Edinburgh, Scotland, UK.  Princess Bella ~ More Information & Links Here

You’ll be seeing more of them at The English Mansion very soon…

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