Mansils in Distress Pt2

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My own personal drinks stand & art work, perfect for my next Mistresses Party

4 Reasons To Love Bound Boys

So what is it exactly that I love about having a bound and gagged slaveboy, totally at my mercy…

1. Senses: The Aesthetic Beauty and Artistry
There is a beauty, artistry and aesthetic pleasure to elaborate bondage, my good friend Meisterin J.Zara called male bondage ‘living sculpture’. You are the creator, while they exist as puppets to be moulded and fashioned into a new beautiful form. (Probably why I like a certain tidiness and symmetry to my creations.) A literal objectification – where man becomes object becomes possession.

2. Mind: Total Power & Control
While bound and completely restrained the slave is totally at my mercy. I become their total focus – omnipotent and benevolent. I am a god and my whims may bestow favours or torments: pain or pleasure, tease or release. Power is such a heady, decadent pleasure.

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3. Body: Bondage Sex & Strapon Fucking

Most importantly is my base desire and greedy lust to take, enter and violate them while they are bound and gagged. To objectify them into nothing more than helpless fucktoys for my sexual gratification. This is an essential psychological element to their enslavement to me. To take, use and fill them at my whim, they exist only as a vessel for my pleasure. Relegated to communicating with feeble nods, muffled moans and pathetic whimpers. So *Hot*!

4. Spirit: The Intense Bond
There is a deep bond that exists when you have a slave in extreme bondage, you control everything even their breathing, an intense responsibility. This connection is built on total trust within this consensual arrangement; they freely surrender themselves to me and I in return respectfully treasure this gift. This concord also encompasses the divine maternal, they return to primal child-like state, are in my care I may feed them, pet them or punish them. This is a symbiotic relationship where domme and sub find peace and succour – ultimately we both share the pleasure I receive.

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MSVB’s Bonus Bondage Thursdays
I have been indulging my dark cravings over the last year, in a series of films showcasing my personal bondage fantasies, with my real-life slaves serving me. So for 2016, every Thursday, we’ll be updating a bonus film, exclusive for English Mansion members. (And, all the photos in this article are from showing or coming soon movies from this new series.)

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Sick: The Life and Death of Bob Flanagan, Supermasochist


Sick: The Life and Death of Bob Flanagan, Supermasochist

This 1996 internationally acclaimed, award-winning documentary, directed by Kirby Dick chronicles the life and art of Bob Flanagan; an American performance artist, stand-up comic, poet and lifelong sufferer from cystic fibrosis. Flanagan began routinely maiming his own body to deal with and overcome the acute physical pain he felt every day. He was the literal embodiment of the joke about the man who liked to hit himself with a hammer because it felt so good when he stopped. The film explores how his masochism and BDSM experiences helped him manage the pain of his illness.

Flanagan’s self-torturing habits are the basis for his avant-garde live performances, which are featured prominently in the film. He met his perfect dominatrix partner in Sheree Rose and married her in 1982 while she hung him upside down from a ceiling, as Flanagan wryly comments during one his shows, ‘You always hurt the one you love’.

Kirby Dick follows Bob and Sheree through the last years of Flanagan’s life. Deeply moving, often hilarious, Sick is a profile of a unique artist, giving an insight into Flanagan’s warmth, courage and, especially his sense of humour. Flanagan had agreed to participate under the condition that his death be included in the final film.

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Lady Nina’s Special Feminisation Regime Pt1

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We’ve been honoured at The English Mansion to be given exclusive access to Lady Nina Birch’s Special Feminisation Regime, which we will post here over the next few months. This is an extensive, light-hearted guide and an essential read for all Ladies & special girls who want to engage in the world of feminisation. Lady Nina Birch is the UK’s foremost feminatrix with many years of experience and extensive knowledge on crossdressing and full-feminisation.

How to Turn your Man into a Sissy
without him Noticing

Your husband makes no effort with you any more? Sex with him is boring? He leaves the house in a mess? He doesn’t give you the love and respect you deserve?  Make him useful again and totally devoted to you!

I’ll let you into a little secret ‘husband feminisation’ is going on in suburbia right now, behind closed curtains maybe even next door, husbands are being subtly trained and secretly coerced into ‘dressing’ for their partners. I have done it myself and I’m going to share with you the secrets of my ‘subtle training regime’. This will transform even the most macho or arrogant man without him even realising.

Just follow these simple steps and with time and patience you will have the perfect feminised partner:

Part 1 Feminising his Subconscious

1) Mention while you are giving him an amazing blow job, that you love the feel of satin panties and playfully slip some on him whilst panting with pleasure – then give him the wildest sex he has ever had.

2) Act coolly towards him for the next couple of weeks or however long it takes for him to miss your attentions. Leave the panties close by in the bedroom where he can see them. He is bound to slip them on again hoping he’s going to get wild sex again.

3) Put on your stockings and suspenders whilst he is wearing the panties, then tease him about the time you kissed a girlfriend and she was wearing stockings as well, explain how the feel of nylons rubbing together drove you both wild. When he asks for more details, which he invariably will, say you can’t quite remember but if he slips some on, you are sure the memories will come flooding back. Then tell him loads of horny mind-blowing stuff and he’s well on his way to being your ‘fem-plaything’.

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4)
Along with the dressing you require to get really horny introduce him to anal play just a small butt plug. Remember – only give him great sex when he wears his plug or does something ‘feminine’ for you.

5) Suggest that you may get a girlfriend around for a threesome, this will totally blow his mind. But then say – you would ONLY feel comfortable if you were all dressed as girls and she would be turned on by that too. At the idea of a hot threesome most guys would do anything. Of course he’ll have to practice with you first. If he proves difficult go back to the no sex plan until he caves.

6) Over a period of time introduce more: lingerie, make up, bigger dildos, full female outfits, etc. Say it’s such a turn on you want some photos to masturbate over and set up a little shoot. Once you get some really compromising photos of him;  say for example: he’s fully dressed pushing a dildo up himself; keep them in a safe place, these will prove useful later…

Now you have these compromising photos tucked safely away, it’s time to take a more direct course and start to strictly enforce his feminisation training.

I will continue this in Pt2 – Coming Soon. Lady Nina  x
© Lady Nina Birch

You can find our more about Lady Nina Birch here on her personal website
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Under Her Spell: Mistress Lola Ruin

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Also shown above Mistress T

Here at The English Mansion we like to bring you the world’s most superior and cruel women, all of who genuinely play in their personal lives and many who are available for 1 on 1 sessions and this summer we were pleased to welcome the strikingly beautiful Mistress Lola Ruin, whose spell we’re sure you’ll all soon fall under…

Mistress Lola is the epitome of a femme fatale, glamorous and ultra feminine. She is always immaculately dressed in the finest latex or exquisite lingerie and impossibly high heels. As a 1940s vintage aficionado Lola is always perfectly coiffured with flawlessly curled scarlet hair, winged eyeliner framing her mesmerising blue eyes, long manicured nails and her signature blood red lipstick. Easily entrancing you as she elegantly sucks the tip of her cigarette and blows the blue smoke into your face.

A natural but cruel enchantress Mistress Lola Ruin will effortlessly ensnare you, she does not bark out her instructions but instead prefers to whisper promises of reward & punishment to you in her soft, sultry voice.

Mistress Lola Ruin is a prodom available in Manchester, North England, UK: specialising in Smoking; Tease’n’Denial; Shoe, Foot & Boot worship; and Slave training. Visit her website here: www.mistresslolaruin.com or here for More Info.

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Mr Mainstream Flirting with Ms Kink

Evil-QueenNo one has missed the ubiquitous 50 Shades of Grey, Vanillas everywhere whispering, “Ooh err missus” or tutting with disapproval while reading all the salacious details, over and then over again. I’ve always suspected the mainstream media is quite au fait with the fetish world and everyone’s unspoken curiosity with it. That’s why they are always trying to unobtrusively squeeze a little pervery in wherever they can – well sex sells! So, I just wanted to share these scenes from some utterly mainstream TV & FILM productions – see what you think?


Once This clip is from a family show from the ABC network – littered with powerful women, sorceresses and evil Queens in the most fabulous outfits, a leather lovers dream. In this scene it’s nice to see Mr Grey get his comeuppance 🙂


Horrible Bosses Hollywood seems obsessed with this naughty ‘new taboo’. Actually, I love how nonchalant and polite they are about it.


Outlander This TV series is just a complete CP fest with quite a lot of BDSM thrown in for good measure.


Dude, Where’s My Car? Vore is a relatively unknown and very niche femdom fetish and yet here it is with all its nuances.


From Dusk Till Dawn I think it’s relatively well known that every Tarantino movie has an unsubtle foot fetish scene, but this is surely the best – if you wanted a top director to do your fetish, then this is The Man!


Little Shop of Horrors This brilliant clip just proves my point entirely. And also this one https://youtu.be/hHsDKqKE_kc


The Paperboy So even Nicole’s at it, though ostensibly for a jelly fish sting but come on, that was supposed to be erotic – and, all over Zac Efron!

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Mansels in Distress Pt1

Bondage-frame-torment-handjobMSVB’s Bonus Bondage Thursdays

I have been indulging my dark cravings over the last year, in a series of films showcasing my personal bondage fantasies, with my real-life slaves serving me. So for 2016, every Thursday, we’ll be updating a bonus film, exclusive for English Mansion members. (And, all the photos in this article are from showing or coming soon movies from this new series.)

Mansels in Distress
As I’m getting a little older, I find my BDSM desires are more defined. After years of sexual experimentation I know where my passions lie. And, foremost is bondage, years ago a handcuffed, hooded man at the end of a collar there to do my bidding was pretty hot. These days, however, I am in need of more extreme scenarios with experienced, physically and mentally pliant playthings, who can sate my more acute bondage needs: mummification, suspension, sendep; elaborate body harnesses; extreme hoods and gags.

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It’s a lustful urge, a need for total control, to take and use as I will, all the slave is offering to me, to turn them into an objectified fuck or stress toy. A complete enslavement, an empty vessel for my pleasure alone – MINE.

I do love bondage but that does not mean I have forsaken other areas of play: I love to sexually use my slaves to pleasure me; to fuck them with strapons, to beat them as punishment or just for the hell of it; and to mercilessly hurt and tease their genitals – it’s just that I can do all these thing so much easier and feel so much hornier if they are all bound up first!

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It is important to me that the bondage is totally inescapable. I’m lucky, as years ago I had a client whose fetish was to try to escape from the bondage I had put him into. And he was extremely good at it – he could get out of straight-jackets, cling-film wraps, rope bondage… and so I learned all the tricks of the escapee. (Puffing up the body before rope bondage, using something in the room to pull down the zip on the back of a straight-jacket, but most important releasing your dominant hand.)

After a long apprenticeship the tide turned and he found he had met his match and stayed in bondage for as long as I pleased. My most satisfying achievement was, with his arms spread eagle, to cable-tie just his two thumbs, to the top two bedposts. Left him for the hour, no happy ending. Tiny amount of bondage but inescapable – checkmate!

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4 Reasons Why I Love Bound Boys, to be continued in…
Mansels in Distress Pt2

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