Portrait of Mistress Sidonia von Bork by Sardax. I love the symbolism of the doorway, taking centre stage here, and to where our eyes are drawn (after admiring the stunning Mistress is the foreground, obviously 🙂 ) Doorways open new possibilities, hide secrets, or can be frightening, we don’t know who or what’s behind a door.
I always wanted to own a male sex slave. I used to fantasize about going to a slave auction and buying a slave to train up as my own. I would walk up and down the chained line of goods looking carefully at each in turn. Making them open their mouths to examine their tongues, or bend them over to view their bottoms. I loved imagining how embarrassed they’d look and their humiliation as I paid particular attention to inspecting their genitals. I would eventually choose a slave and bid for him in the auction, nothing would prevent me from obtaining the slave I had chosen. After paying I would walk up to my new purchase, attach a chain to his neck and drag him off. Then my fun would really start…
For me, domination is not a lifestyle but a liaison. A secret time and space where I can let the dark part of myself roam free. I use those who wish to become initiates into my world. This is a universe where my laws, desires and wishes rule. Here eroticism is bound up with power and femininity. I dominate men because I am a woman, because that is my power, to seduce, to tease, to manipulate – all men are weak when it comes to gratification. It is a scent that is irresistible to them; it intoxicates and turns them into faithful, obedient ‘lap’ dogs. My title of Mistress comes later for I am a woman, and my slaves will learn firstly, to kneel and worship at that altar.
Women are magnificent, intelligent, intuitive creatures with intense, dark depths rippling beneath their exteriors. Men will always be merely toys to use and abuse as I wish. They are only truly happy once they are dangling like puppets on a woman’s invisible string; mesmerized by her all-inspiring beauty and perfection, something he must strive always to obtain but knows he never shall.
The male of the species must learn to control his desires through guidance or, if necessary, chastity devices. His seed shall only be spent for my pleasure, draining him of his life force and leading him unto ‘le petit mort’. I find the period before his release the moment when I am most able to captivate him. To control and train him to my exacting, strict and high standards. He must learn that he has become a mere object for my pleasure. He no longer has needs or desires of his own but must put me, my whims and desires foremost in his thoughts and actions.
It is thrilling to have a slave so completely bound that he cannot move; even to breathe he is at my mercy. Now I can torment freely until he begs – yet still I ignore. I can use completely and then discard once I am satisfied or bored. He lives lost in the darkness awaiting me so that he might live again. To hood and collar the slave is to take away his last sense of self – his face is gone, covered. He becomes a new creature at the end of my chain, no longer anything except that which I wish him to become. I will change his name and torment him until he is broken to my will. He no longer remembers his life outside my world, it is a blur. He jumps when I snap my fingers, a Pavlovian success. His training has been long and arduous and has remade him into my ideal. Indoctrinated into my law with painful remonstrations that have seeped into his very psyche, he no longer thinks but obeys.
Mistress Sidonia’s musing continue in The Song of the Siren coming soon.
Mistress Sidonia von Bork was well known at the auction house for slaves. Every Thursday afternoon she would cut the crowds to silence as she swept through the slave gallery hunting Her prey. They all new what she was looking for, and she was hard to please. Only occasionally after much inspection of the pathetic men did she take possession. She pushed aside the other bidders to get directly at some male that looked as though he could be trained. Thrusting forward she would have him kneel and throw back his head so that she could examine his mouth with a stick. The slaves would groan at the discomfort but much worse was to come when she grabbed and firmly felt the wretch’s balls. By the time she asked for a display of his erect penis these sad creatures were delighted to oblige; for it didn’t hurt. No one would get in her way or try to stop her treating the men this way.
It was my bad luck, I felt, to be on show and for sale this Thursday as the Mistress approached. Maybe I looked pathetic to Her, maybe she saw a glimpse of intelligence in me. She knew of course that the more intelligent and aware her subject the more he would suffer as she broke him. I was inspected. She seemed especially interested in how well I squealed as she crushed my balls in her strong and well practiced hand. Having pleased herself with that reaction she wrenched my nipples and watched my cock rise. It was then, as she watched my member that a tiny, almost invisible, smile broke around her mouth. Her eyes were magnetic, I just had to stare into them, and she stared back. She said nothing, but as she squeezed my nipples even harder …just a tiny sigh; then a very faint smile broke as though she realised too much was already revealed.
Time passed until I was presented to the crowd for auction. She stepped to the front and, as soon as the bidding opened She cried out, ‘That is mine, five pounds’. It was money way beyond any other bidding so far that day. The crowd was silent, no one would match the bid. Throwing the money at the collector she lunged forward and grabbed my neck chain from my guard and dragged me out of the gallery.
We rode in her coach for some time. I was commanded to curl around her feet to keep them warm. I wore no clothing and was very cold. As we drove the evening came, day turned to night. The coach stopped and the horse’s bridled. She lifted one foot and pushed me across the carriage floor away from her, steeping out into the dark air.
‘Follow pathetic male’ she ordered, and I did despite my coldness and increasing hunger, ‘Follow at my knee’. We passed slowly down a lit pathway. I was straining my head up to see her beautiful face as the pools of light and shadows passed across it. She was indeed so beautiful, very very beautiful. She glanced down at me. I looked quickly down to the floor and felt honoured. We stopped. All was quiet. Then from ahead I heard a moan, then another lower moan. She told me to look up. We were at the entrance to a large stone built room, a little like the inside of a church. Then I saw the source of the moans. At each side of the large room were raised pathways. Poles fixed between the path and the roof supported people…men…slaves. They were partly clothed in some dark material, their genitals displayed. They all looked in agony. ‘Good evening worthless slaves’ She opined. Heads turned and bowed ‘Good evening our Mistress’ they coursed in a well rehearsed manner.
We walked on down the length of the room with the slaves elevated above us. Now I could see that a pipe work system ran down the poles to where each slave was secured. Each was manacled at his feet and secured back to the pole. His hands were restrained together behind the pole, only his head was free to move. Then I saw as we moved on that the pipe work was attached to the slave, it ran into his arse! I stared in disbelief but I had been seen. A sharp hand slapped me on the side of my head to return my gaze to straight ahead and we moved through the wooden door and into the lower part of a tower.
A spiral staircase lay ahead and my Mistress beckoned me forwards. I stood up to ascend the stairs and the wroth of hell descended on my erroneous head. ‘Knees, crawl’ She shouted at the top of he voice, reverberating in the stonework. I crawled and we arrived in an attic above the slave room. She sat on a throne like chair and directed me to kneel at her feet. We stared into each other’s eyes for a few meaningful seconds. Now she spoke to me; ‘you are Mine’ she said as a fact, a fact I would not deny. ‘Yes Mistress’ I instinctively replied. ‘Shortly you will join my other slaves below’. ‘I call one of them according to My needs. If you perform well and please me you will be called most often. If you fail to please me I may send you to the cells’.
I paused thinking if I dare ask, but I did ‘The cells Mistress what are these’. To my surprise She gave me an answer. ‘We passed them as we walked by the slaves. Look’, she opened a trapdoor in the floor and we could see the slaves below. ’There in the wall beneath their useless feet, see the bars’ I did. The 4 or 5 feet of wall beneath the raised pathways of slaves contained a barred window. ‘That’s where you will go if you fail to please me’. I pondered how being in the cell could be worse than being manacled to the pole and attached to a pipe.
‘Now my boots are dirty from this afternoon’s outing, clean them with your tongue’. I promptly shone the boots. As I worked She spoke again. ‘ I need to name you. I have a system for naming my slaves. She glanced to a list on the wall. ‘You will be ‘122’’.
‘Guards’ she shouted, ‘Take the new and pitiful creature,122, to the slave gallery. Install him such that he will receive food’. Two heavy men hurried me down the stairs and tightly bound me to a pole, arms and feet. In a final act one held the pipe whilst the other pushed me back onto it, I screamed and fell silent with the others.
A little while passed, the trapdoor lifted and the room echoed to ‘Guards, 122’. I was taken down and rushed to the Mistress. ‘I want you to see how I feed my slaves 122’. Fetch that bucket from by the stove. Good now look away’. I did as she bid and heard a sound that made me think she was urinating in the bucket. ‘Look now slave’. She had added her offering to a mostly full bucket of urine. ‘See now; empty the bucket into this funnel’. I did, and as I did, I realised what was happening, the clue was the groaning from below. ‘Yes that’s right’ She said, ‘straight into their arses. This is what they get to eat, you can have yours later when you are desperate for food’.
‘I leave it a while then have more water funneled down to them’. ‘You are generous Mistress’ I replied’. ‘Yes slave, bountiful indeed, but you see there is another purpose. Their arses grow full, they moan, I love the moans, so many, so loud. Eventually one of them will leak the contents of his bowels and quickly the others will follow as more water goes down. Then what happens?’. ‘If it pleases you Mistress…I don’t know’ I said meekly. ‘I dare say YOU don’t, but the poor wretches in the cells do..ha.’ She laughed for all She was worth and had the Guards poor in the water. The moaning came, then squeals, then a dreadful smell came up though the trapdoor. ‘Look down slave’. I saw horrid trails of faeces running down and into the cells. Now weak groans and complaints came from the cells. It was repulsive. ‘See; ALL slaves are fed’.
She was excited, and had me grovel in front of Her whilst She caned me harder and harder. Overcome by excitement she called in the guards to take me below onto the pole. ‘You have pleased me 122. Guards, see that he is fed twice as much as the others’.
Postwar Femdom Pulp The influence of postwar pulp fiction on BDSM & femdom
In the the postwar era of the 50s & 60s men’s adventure pulp magazines were the mainstay of lurid, exploitative and these days we’d say, down right offensive stories. There’s no PC or Safe, Sane & Consensual here 🙂 They mostly centred around ‘true’ (take that with a pinch of salt) stories of war, survival and crime, with a colourful sensational cover illustration. En masse animals attacks were particularly popular (?) – famously the cover ‘Weasels Ripped My Flesh’ inspired an album cover by Frank Zappa.
Some bordered on soft porn and I can see the early seeds of BDSM and Femdom that must have found its way to an audience deprived of any other expressions of it. The magazines that dealt with rather ‘creative’ bondage and torture were sometimes referred to as ‘sweat magazines’. While looking back at them all together I can see how much they have influenced the fetish scene with the costumes and themes – notably: that ever present uniform shirt, open to the waist with busting breasts; tight knee boots; exotic goddesses ruling all female societies; and all importantly the uniformed sadistic bitch, whip in hand. They were probably under appreciated at the time but some of the cover artwork is outstanding and quite expressive.
Women naturally have more beautiful bodies than men and their feet are no exception. Women’s feet can be as sexual as their breasts with their petite toes, elegant arches and unique aroma. And with so many adornments to show them off: painted toe nails, peep-toe shoes, stiletto heels, toe rings, even flip-flops (which to foot-lovers is like watching a girl out & about naked!)
Foot worship is inherently a submissive act for a man while it is intensely erotic, empowering and pleasurable for a woman. Often foot lovers will have other related fetishes like leg worship, shoe or heel worship, a love of stockings & suspenders, even fragrant socks and trainers. Feet can be worshiped, licked, smelled and toes sucked but they can be cruel with foot face slapping, foot deep-throating or trampling. They can tease, seductively crinkling their soles, deftly swinging a shoe from their toes or slowly stripping off a seamed nylon.
Here at The English Mansion we believe a man’s place is at a woman’s feet, in fact we insist upon it 🙂 whether they’re bare footed, adorned in thigh boots or aloft in extreme stilettos! And, recently we’ve been featuring lots of gorgeous bare feet in our films… see below, all films now showing.
with Miss Analisa
Footjob – Like a handjob, but using the feet. The common methods are jerking/wanking the cock: between the soles sandwiched together; while gently crushing it flat with one sole; or sliding the penis between the big and second toe.
with Miss Jasmine
Shrimping – To lick or suck on someone’s toes.
with Mistress T & Princess Neive
Elvis Presley had a well documented foot fetish, stemming from having to massage his mother’s feet as a child (or “rub her little sooties,” as the King chose to say). Presley’s handlers would screen groupies on the basis of their feet before they could smoozie up to the rock icon.
with Miss Zara du Rose
Foot Face Slap – Being slapped round the face by the sole of a girl’s foot.
with Mistress Ezada Sinn
Shoejob – Like a handjob, but using the shoes. Usually by using the shoe sole by jerking it as it’s pressing down onto the cock.
with Mistress Ella Kross
Quentin Tarantino has a well-know foot fetish and usually squeezes a foot worship scene into his films.
We’ve been honoured atThe English Mansionto be given exclusive access toLady Nina Birch’s Special Feminisation Regime, which we will post here over the next few months. This is an extensive, light-hearted guide and an essential read for all Ladies & special girls who want to engage in the world of feminisation. Lady Nina Birch is the UK’s foremost feminatrix with many years of experience and extensive knowledge on crossdressing and full-feminisation.
Enforcement & Compliance
Now you have the compromising photos tucked safely away, it’s time to take a more direct course and start to strictly enforce his feminisation.
Part 2 Enforcing the Feminisation & his subservience to you
7) Inform him that the cat has priority over him and will be occupying his side of the bed from now on, so he will be moving into the box room. Give him a decorating allowance for it on the condition that pink or lilac are the only colours allowed.
8) Put him on a fitness regime so you have something nice to look at. It will get his stamina up for when you want to use him for sex.
9) Make him employ a personal trainer – find a strong, muscular bitch type. Interview her in front of him while he’s dressed in something really humiliating like a lycra crop-top and tiny pink hot pants. Tell him to touch his toes to test his flexibility, showing her how much work he needs.
10) If he has any nasty little habits you have always wanted him to pack up like smoking, gambling or football that’s done! He will have to take up sewing, cookery or flower arranging instead. Enroll him at a local class – why should you slave over a hot stove when you have a slave!
11) If he plays up you could introduce corporal punishment into the equation. Household items are all that’s needed to keep him in line, there’s more than one use for a clothes-brush, hairbrush or even his own belt.
12) Start using a punishment book and if you’re feeling a bit hormonal one day, it’s amazing how making up reasons to punish him and then thrashing his backside relieves the tension.
13) He can also be made to wear a chastity device, this would remind him of who controls his cock from now on. Maybe a CB6000 – this can be worn 24/7 and to the office comfortably without it showing.
14) When you have to suffer a period why shouldn’t he? Make him wear a tampax in his ‘special pussy’ for the duration that you have yours, replacing when necessary, it’s always amusing to see the string dangling out.
And, remember those compromising photos you have… you could show them to a close girlfriend and see if she is interested in helping you train him, while you offer to ‘show her the ropes’ and ‘turn’ her partner or husband.
So now you have started to strictly enforced his feminisation and your dominance in the relationship it’s time for the next stage – Dressing: House Uniforms & Naming: His New Female Persona.
Let me Mesmerise you from afar Now close your mind slave and think on nothing but me – hear only this – think on my face gazing down on you, think on my voice whispering these words close to your ear, think of your place kneeling in submission before me…
Slave you are now entering my world
While here you will remember
two simple rules – be submissive and be obedient
You will be completely subservient at all times
You will be obedient and will jump when I snap my fingers
submissive and obedient
VERY SIMPLE
Your feelings and wishes are irrelevant to me
You are here for my pleasure
My toy, my slave, my slut
To use and abuse, in any way I see fit
Remember submissive and obedient
submissive and obedient
There are no hiding places here slave, no safe-words
you are my property, mine to use as I see fit
You will trust that I know your limitations
I will push you, mould you
You will learn to serve
To obey, to leave yourself behind and become a new being
I will drive you, I will take you far further than you imagined
You will suffer for me, you will blush for me, you will work for me,
you will put me before all else
You will be punished even when you repent or beg for mercy
for you will suffer a little each time you offend me
I don’t make idle threats
disobey my rules or displease me – and you will be punished
Expect to suffer for your sins.
This is the path you will tread
Many means will be used to mould you into my perfect slave
I will see all your weaknesses, you will not hide them from me
I know what you hate, I know how to really make you smart
I must train and shape you with either pain or humiliation or a lack of privileges
You will accept this
You will accept my will
You will be trained
You will be controlled completely
You are my property and therefore it does not benefit me
to damage you or hurt you unintentionally
You are mine now, I take care of all your needs, your well-being
As my slave you are valuable property and will be treated as such
A damaged slave cannot work effectively
I have told you concentrate on being submissive in attitude and obedient in nature
do not concern yourself with anything else
I shall watch you while you suffer
to love and care is easy, yet to hurt is true intimacy, a true bond
a sublime and decadent pleasure
I want to see your devotion
Suffer for me and in your pain remember me
think on my face and the smile that slowly covers it as you writhe and sweat in suffering
Agony in your face – Ecstasy in mine
I love to have you at my feet naked, crawling, collared
that is when I feel powerful and sexy
I look down at you groveling at my feet or my shoes or boots
You are nothing and I am everything
I will drag you around at the end of my chain
Obeying my every whim
You may be honored by signing yourself away
and become a contracted, permanently collared slave
You will have a new name
You will wear my mark somewhere on your body
You will serve my female friends
You may be lent out
You will perform for me anyway I choose
I want to know that I can do anything I wish to you
You are mine
I am now your creator
You will worship and adore me
You will live only for me and through me
I will give you the nourishment you need
I will take hold of your body, your mind and then your soul
You belong to me
You belong to me
You belong to me
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