Philosophy in the Boudoir – Wisdom from De Sade

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Geoffrey Rush as the Marquis de Sade in the film “Quills (2000)” a fascinating exploration of sex & hypocrisy.

De Sade is considered the ‘sort of” founding father of sadism but his philosophy really concerns the nature of morality and hypocrisy. So, here are some words of wisdom from the Master – the Marquis de Sade…

On Women
To the young maidens of the world, wrest yourselves free from the tyranny of virtue, and taste without shame the pleasures of the flesh. Male power lies in the clench of a fist, but a woman’s power lies elsewhere, in the velvet cavity betwixt her thighs.

I’ve already told you: the only way to a woman’s heart is along the path of torment. I know none other as sure.

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Statue of the Marquis de Sade in the town of Lacoste, France. Placed there by Pierre Cardin.

On Vice
In order to know virtue, we must first acquaint ourselves with vice.

It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure.

No kind of sensation is keener and more active than pain; its impressions are unmistakable.

Sensuality was ever the dearest to me of all my possessions. All my life, I have bowed down before its idols and always wished to end my days in its arms … try to forget, as I do, the vain sophisms of superstition and the stupid errors of hypocrisy.

 

On Morals
All universal moral principles are idle fancies.

It is not my mode of thought that has caused my misfortunes, but the mode of thought of others.

Social order at the expense of liberty is hardly a bargain.

What is more immoral than war?

My manner of thinking, so you say, cannot be approved. Do you suppose I care? A poor fool indeed is he who adopts a manner of thinking for others!

Donatien Alphonse François de Sade 2 June 1740 – 2 December 1814

On Lust
Lust is to the other passions what the nervous fluid is to life; it supports them all, lends strength to them all ambition, cruelty, avarice, revenge, are all founded on lust.

Lust’s passion will be served; it demands, it militates, it tyrannizes.

Sex is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other.

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Image by Man Ray ‘Monument à D.A.F. de Sade’. The surrealists movement viewed de Sade as an ideal of freedom.

On Religion
Put aside your prejudices, be a man, be human, have no fear and no hope. Abandon your divinities and your creeds which have never served any purpose save to put a sword into the hand of man. The mere names of horrible gods and hideous faiths have caused more blood to be shed than all other wars and scourges on earth. Give up the idea of another world, for there is none. But do not turn your back on the pleasure in this of being happy yourself and of making others happy. It is the only means Nature affords you of enlarging and extending your capacity for life.

Religions are the cradles of despotism.

On God
There is no God, Nature suffices unto herself; in no way hath she need of an author.

The idea of God is the sole wrong for which I cannot forgive mankind.

To judge from the notions expounded by theologians, one must conclude that God created most men simply with a view to crowding hell.

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Tomer Hanuka’s cover for the Marquis de Sade’s Philosophy in the Boudoir

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Tokyo Bound: Mistress Amrita

Tokyo-Bound-Mistress-Amrita-From the upcoming film A Little Tied Up at the Moment starting next week

We’re pleased to welcome to the Mansion – Mistress Amrita. Now based in Europe this beautiful Asian domina originally comes from Tokyo, Japan. Amrita is stunning in person with gorgeous waist-length hair and a super sexy accent. She exudes a calm, natural authority and often dominates with a smile – she’ll look into your eyes and tell you what she wants and under her spell you will obey. Amrita specialises in shibari rope bondage & wrestling scenes. So prepared to be pinned down, squashed and then tightly rope tied for this beautiful domina’s amusement. You’ll be seeing her in action very soon inside The English Mansion…

Some showing & forthcoming English Mansion films featuring Mistress Amrita: (clockwise) Loaded Slave Hunt, Asian Persuasion, Mud Pit Punishment & Given Away. (Some films also feature Goddess Maya Liyer.)

Mistress Amrita is available for prodom sessions in Europe & travels worldwide – see her Website or More Info Here.

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An Appointment with Miss Beauvoir by Vince Ray

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Domestic femdom discipline comic strip story by the amazing talent that is Vince Ray.
www.VinceRay.com
Commissioned exclusively for The English Mansion.

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3 Million Perves & Counting…

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Mistress Sidonia’s Blog: A Compendium of Femdom

It’s official I’ve reached 3 million views of my blog! 🙂 That’s currently approx. 3500 views everyday. (Actually, the counter was only started in August 2010, while I in truth I began this blog back in August 2003.)

Predominantly, this blog focuses on the world of ‘femdom’ – specialist equipment; art, fiction, articles; some of the world’s top dominatrixes & prodoms; scene news; my personal philosophy or general musings; and where femdom crosses over into the mainstream. Plus of course what’s happening inside The English Mansion – new films, my wicked exploits and especially who’s recently come to stay over. I always try to make sure this blog will also appeal to women and am happy to say I get a lot of positive feedback from them.

A personal message to slaves, subs & perves everywhereKiss-My-ArseGo on, you know you want to…

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The Diary of Kinky Girl by Adela T

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Adela T. is actually the pseudonym of English Mansion Domina – Mistress Arella (I don’t think I’m giving anything away here as she openly acknowledges this.) I really enjoyed this book. It had a light touch, a truthfulness, intelligence and humour to it that made it both entertaining and revealing. The book is an honest, straightforward account of one naive young woman’s haphazard journey through the ‘stranger’ outer edges of the sex industry and her eventual journey into the world of the prodom.

Arriving in London in 2007 from Eastern Europe she is working in dead end office jobs and decides to seek other ways to make some money. Staring out offering dinner dates she soon discovers the murky world fetishism, men not looking for sex but who will pay to have their particular fixations sated. As she stumbles through this mire we hear about her clients –  some good, some bad, some strange, it made me laugh out loud and despair. (It was obvious many took advantage of this young girl new to the industry.) She also starts to enjoy the sessions, discovering her own sexuality, that she’s a natural exhibitionist and that she rather likes having men pamper her feet.

Mistress-ArellaThrough trial and error she learns the ropes ( ;)), to a degree this is everyone’s start in the sex industry. This is not a job you can study about, there are no courses and not something the career officer at school is going to recommend for you 🙂 I loved her down-to-earth honestly about this process, about the money she earns; this is not the usual faux tale of glamour and men who just hand you thousands of pounds for doing nothing. It’s about the struggle, the pitfalls, it doesn’t judge there’s no cheap laughs at the clients just the real humour of the predicaments she finds herself in. Something I can certainly identify with.

I found it insightful (and a little humbling) in regards to the bigger picture of EU migration, here’s an educated, ambitious, intelligent woman who has left a behind a life with limited possibilities and escaped to the supposed ‘golden paved’ streets of London. Her resourcefulness and work ethic are to be admired and are what lead her to a successful, if some what alternative, career on her terms.

adela-tThe author Adela T. lived in London from 2007 to 2010, but is now based in Prague where she enjoys being a lifestyle & prodom.

More info about the book here:
http://the-diary-of-a-kinky-girl.com

You can download a Kindle copy of the book here: Amazon here

To visit Mistress Arella’s website here: mistress-arella.com.

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My Sub My Way

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Some wonderful femdom & fetish imagery being used here for the MAC make-up & Skyy Vodka marketing campaigns.

I also couldn’t help finding the Subway advertising slogan ‘My Sub My Way’ rather amusing. In fact, I seem to keep finding funny BDSM references everywhere I go 🙂
Dom’s Super Whip an ice cream van at The London Eye (now that’s a double whammy). I’m not sure Findom’s (financial dominatrixes) out there will appreciate their abbreviated name being used for finger condoms. Then after some yummy cock soup perhaps the whip assortment or the nutkick…

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