She-Who Must Be Obeyed by H Rider Haggard

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Influential to Femdom: Yes – Of Value Today: No

She is an adventure novel written by Henry Rider Haggard in 1887. It is considered a classic having sold over 83 million copies worldwide and was once one of the best-selling books of all time! (It is even cited in the psychoanalytical theories of Sigmund Freud.)

Most critiques skim over the sexual titillation of the novel which revolves around femdom themes. (Something I might argue may have been a huge part of its appeal in the constrained 19th century.) The tribe, the adventurers meet, is female led these partially naked young female natives choose or change men as sexual partners at will. The tribe is ruled by the all-powerful and ruthless ‘She who must be obeyed’. ‘She’ is a seductive femme fatale whose beauty puts men totally under her spell. One of the main male characters is throughout the book indifferent to the charms of women but instantly falls in love with her. While another should hate her because she murders a native girl devoted to him but he too cannot help but kneel before her in awe.

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A 1968 Hammer Films titillating spin-off, featuring the character of She.

Today, its appeal has waned, in fact you are probably more likely to remember another of Haggard’s books King Solomon’s Mines featuring the adventurer Allan Quatermain. Think Raiders of the Lost Ark and you’ll get the basic premise for Haggard’s stories, he was obviously a huge influence on the Indiana Jones franchise.

I don’t recommend reading this book. This is a deeply racist (managing to offend many races and religions) and despite its central character, misogynistic book. It does expound an insightful, if distasteful, look into the Victorian Gentleman’s mindset of superiority and imperialism over foreign barbarism. Dark-skinned ‘primitive’ races that need the Empire to impose British rule in order to civilize them. Even ‘She’ is a white queen ruling over natives (reminiscent of Queen Victoria and her Empire.)

So successful was She Haggard wrote three sequels including Ayesha, the Return of She. And, the character of She has inspired more than ten film adaptations. Including a 1935 version (made by the creators of King Kong [1933]) set in the Arctic, rather than Africa, and depicts the ancient civilisation of the story in an Art Deco style (?). And, Hammer Films made a 1965 adaptation staring Ursula Andress & Christopher Lee.

So successful was ‘She’ Haggard wrote three sequels including ‘Ayesha, the Return of She’. The character of She has inspired more than ten film adaptations. Including a 1935 version (made by the creators of King Kong [1933]) set in the Arctic, rather than Africa, and depicts the ancient civilisation of the story in an Art Deco style (?). Hammer Films made a 1965 adaptation staring Ursula Andress & Christopher Lee.

I wanted to read this novel as I’ve been looking at cultural influences that have shaped our concept of the ‘dominant or alpha woman’. And, there is no doubt this book was hugely influential and has its place on the path that has brought us to today’s notions of femdom. However, its innate sexism and racism (though we can recognise they must be seen in the context of when the book was written) leave it of little value for modern readers or today’s femdom world.

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25 Weird & Wonderful Butt Plugs

For the Love of Butt Plugs: The Weird & the Wonderful

Ok it’s January it’s cold, it’s dark and it’s miserable – so I thought we could all do with a little cheering up 🙂 We’re all familiar with butt plugs but here are some of the most fun, impressive, quirky and downright bizarre plugs currently on the market…

“Putin My Ass: Show your behind to the man behind Russia’s anti-gay legislation” seems an apt way to protest indeed it seems what butt plug you’re wearing is now a political statement or a sacrilegious act of transgression.

While the text on the USB plug says, “Never lose those important files again… back that data up, it’s as secure as you are”

And Keith the Ass Gnome @AssGnome  just sluts it about making appearances everywhere! When he’s not assisting the gorgeous Mistress Nikki Whiplash.

Lastly, this is the impressive text comes with the Glow in the Dark Rosary Beads Butt Plug, “Praise JESUS! With this custom made, glow in the dark rosary butt plug! That’s right keep Jesus that much closer to your heart, with this stainless steel, ribbed, glowing necklace of devotion, cast the devil out of your back side, light up the night, show Jesus what your really in to! Perfect for Christmas, Easter or just praying around the house, its sure to be the hit of every holiday, let everyone know that you love the lord just a little bit more :)”

So if you particularly like any of these plugs here are some links:
Rosebuds.net
PoliticalSculptor.com
Lovecrafters Toys
Ainsley-t Shoes
GlowFYourself

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Deadly Sin: Miss Marilyn

Deadly Sin: Miss Marilyn… Prepare to Transgress

We’re so pleased to welcome another stunning domina to The English Mansion – Miss Marilyn is a beautiful and striking Scottish domina. Ultra feminine she is all natural curves, super busty, oozing sex appeal – easily entrancing those around her. Her heavenly almost angelic face belies her indecorous side; and is countered by her alternative look, risqué dress and artistic tattoos. Highly creative and intelligent she is also a talented writer articulating, with a wry and humourous twist, her unique travails in the world.

Something wicked this way comes…
Another outlet for her relentless creativity is her hugely popular and totally singular stores at IWC & C4S. Specialising in POV style clips focusing on outlandish quasi-religious themes featuring salacious demonic or dark spellbinding women they are incredibly inventive with amazing effects and impressive production values.

Miss Marilyn is a prodom working from Glasgow, Scotland, UK. It is, however, a misconception to think that her clip stores represent what she specialises in for her 1 to 1 sessions. She is an experienced domina who enjoys all the classic aspects of femdom play especially CBT, CP, Strapon, Xdressing and is especially gifted at roleplay able to easily build and encompass you within your fantasy.

You can watch Miss Marilyn in action right now, inside our members area… and you’ll be seeing a lot more of her – & starting this month is Maid’s Misfortune.

Or visit Miss Marilyn’s website here or More Info Here

 * also featured riding alongside Miss Marilyn is the gorgeous Mistress Inka
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Mad, Bad & Dangerous To Know – Femme Fatales

femmefatals-01Salome by Pierre Bonnaud, Rita Hayworth in Gilda (1946), Mermaid by John William Waterhouse & Anna Chapman (the Russian spy)

Mad, Bad & Dangerous to Know
French: femme = woman
+ fatale = deadly
= Deadly Women

Femme Fatale
1. An irresistibly attractive woman, of great seductive charm who leads men into compromising or dangerous situations.
2. An alluring, mysterious woman.

femmefatals-04Jessica Rabbit, Theda Bara as Cleopatra (1917), Kali (the Goddess of death & empowerment), Norma Desmond (Gloria Swanson) in Sunset Boulevard (1950)

A femme fatale is a mysterious and seductive woman whose charms ensnare the men around her, often leading them into compromising, dangerous and disastrous situations. She uses her feminine wiles such as beauty, charm and sexual allure for her own ends. Her ability to entrance and toy with her victims is almost supernatural – they are ‘under her spell’ or mesmerized by her overtly feminine powers. And thus often described as an enchantress, seductress, vamp or witch.

The Femme Fatale is etched into our psyches in a myriad of ways. She can be found at the very beginning in the bible and in myths, she is both worshiped or revered. Found in art and paintings, in literature, comic books, pulp fiction and films. But, she is not just an archetype, she is very real we can find her in our history books or in modern political scandals.  So here is my compendium of Femme Fatales…

femmefatals-03Lucrezia Borgia by Bartolomeo Veneziano, Catherine Tramell (Sharon Stone) in Basic Instinct, The Postman Always Rings Twice ‘Hard Boiled’ pulp & Irene Adler (Lara Pulver) from the new TV Sherlock

Mistress Sidonia’s Compendium of Femme Fatales

♣ Mythology: Pandora, Sirens & Mermaids, Vampires, Morgan le Fay, Circe, Clytemnestra, Medea, Yuki-onna, Ishtar, Kali
♣  Biblical: Eve, Salome, Delilah, Judith, Jezebel, Lillith
♣  Historical: Cleopatra, Lucrezia Borgia, Mata Hari, Maggie Meller
♣  Literary: Sidonia von Bork by Lady Wilde; Black Venus by Angela Carter; Salomé by Oscar Wilde; Brides of Dracula in Bram Stoker’s Dracula; Rebecca by Daphine du Marrier; Marguerite in La Dame aux Camelias by Alexandre Dumas fils; Cora in The Postman Always Rings Twice by James M Cain
♣  Opera: Violetta in La Traviata by Giuseppe Verdi, Delilah in Samson and Delilah by Camille Saint-Saëns
♣  Film Noir Leading Ladies (known for playing femme fatales): Barbara Stanwick, Marlene Dietrich, Lana Turner, Betty Davis, Rita Hayworth, Vivian Leigh, Elizabeth Taylor, Theda Bara, Glenn Close, Ava Gardner, Kathleen Turner
♣  Comic Characters: Jessica Rabbit, Catwoman, Poison Ivy, Electra, Devil Girls, Harley Quinn, Mystique
♣  Alternative Art (often drawn by): Coop, Vince Ray, Sardax
♣  Kinky Models: Betty Page, Tana Louise, Tempest Storm
♣  TV Characters: Emma Peel (The Avengers 1961), Irene Adler (Sherlock 2010), Catwoman (Batman 1966)
♣ Cinema (classic femme fatale films): Double Indemnity 1944, Basic Instinct 1992, Sunset Boulevard 1950, Poison Ivy 1992, Body Heat 1981, The Crush 1993, The Postman Always Rings Twice 1946 & 1981, Bound 1996, Wild Things 1998, The Wicked Lady 1945, Dangerous Liaisons 1988, Fatal Attraction 1987, Gilda 1946, The Blue Angel 1930, The Killers 1946 & Murder, My Sweet 1944.
♣  Animal: The female Black Widow spider
♣  Political: Kola Boof, Anna Chapman

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Catwoman (Julie Newmar), Barbara Stanwyck from Double Indemnity, Emma Peel (Diana Rigg) from The Avengers & Devil Girl by artist Coop

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Last Year’s Best & New Year News 2018

Stunning Miss Analisa

Goodbye 2017

Happy New Year everyone, we had another fabulous and entertaining year in 2017. Especially with so many new & super talented dommes coming to stay over at The Mansion including: Mistress Courtney, Miss Marilyn, Goddess Serena, Mistress Scarlett Black & Mistress Inka  plus of course all our regular dominant women who together create our kinky disfunctional framily 😉 So thank you to everyone who was part of it or supported us – my fellow dommes, subs, slaves, members, devotees & all our pervy friends.

So here’s to 2018, we can’t wait and we’ve lots planned! The weather wasn’t particularly helpful last year as we want to throw another Summer Garden Party so fingers crossed for this year.  And a big thank you for all the messages on the blog this year, I do read them all.

Site News – Double Weekend Updates Staying for 2018: Good news, we’re keeping double weekend film updates – Fridays through to Sundays – that’s 3 days a week. With classic movies staying on Mondays.

So here are some of My favourite moments from 2017 🙂

I always stand in awe at the real-life amazing dominatrixes and domme women who visit the Mansion: their intelligence, enthusiasm & dedication. So, want to offer my sincere gratitude to these just lovely, special women in control of their lives and desires.
Long Live Female Domination! MSVB

Find out about these real-life dominatrixes, prodoms & dominant women here

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Our Sovereign Sidonia’s Xmas Message

Your Devotion is Required – Virtual Ownership

This is a special personal message to all my devotees who serve me from afar. I know for many their sub life is just fantasy, indulged by visiting the Mansion but this is still an act of service and submission to me and all superior women.

A secret liaison where you learn what it means to be a slave, what is expected, to learn your place in a world ruled by superior women. Remember when you are here we own that ‘true’ part of you, we know what you are – slave, toy, pet. Here to serve, submission and obedience will seep into your psyche. Here you become the virtual property of myself and all our Dominas.

The Mansion is a hallowed place, unparalleled, where women can come together jointly or in groups to indulge their deepest desires again and again. Femdom is as individual as the dommes who practice it, so it is always thrilling to watch, experience and join with other creative, intelligent dominant women as they interact with ‘inferior males’ and see how this unique dynamic develops between them. You too must learn what is expected and contemplate your devotion.

Whether a submissive slave, pain slut, sex toy, bondage lover or sissy maid we will find a use for you here at The English Mansion.

Mistress Sidonia xxx (those are kicks not kisses)

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