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Circus Maximus: Atlantis ~ Fetish Play Party

Enchanting siren Miss Vivienne L’Amour gets jiggy wit’ a tentacle
Circus Maximus: Atlantis ~ Fetish Play Party
Last Saturday, I attended Atlantis: Circus Maximus’s Fetish Play Party held at Celestial Studios in Derby, Midlands, UK. It was a hot night of kinky debauchery with sirens, mermaids, mermen, sailors, seamen & sea gods – yep, the costumes were impressive. Plus there were tentacles protruding from just about everywhere! The ‘hostess with the mostess’ the awesome Miss Vivienne L’Amour, looking entrancing as a sea Siren, was the Mistress of Ceremonies. Presiding over and performing in the evening’s very full line-up of entertainments. There were dazzling visual performances including a hair suspension striptease, as well as depraved and filthy stage acts. The venue was dressed to impress for an undersea vibe but it’s already phenomenal with two floors of unique play spaces including dungeons, prison, medical room, boudoirs, suspension rigs and a hot tub. A few familiar Mansion faces were in attendance: Mistress Nikki Whiplash, Princess Aurora, Miss Suzanne Maxwell, Little Rabbit, Miss Anna Elite and of course Miss Vivienne.

Mistress Nikki Whiplash, Princess Aurora & Miss Vivienne L’Amour
All club photos by the excellent @latexfashiontv
The Electric Lady
I was on-hand at the party with my side show of electrical delights: “Get Electrified Ask Me How” 😉 Ready for the curious to roll up and try, including a number of more interesting toys like my Devil’s Fork & Sparkle Whip. Or to attempt the infamous “Buzz ‘a’ Cock – Penalty Wire”. A game where if you get a BUZZ you also get an electric zap. Dommes can play but wire up their subs to get the punishment or they can just make their subs play. We also had some fun seeing how many kinksters we could get in a ‘static current daisy chain’ – eight!
Circus Maximus Events 2022
Don’t Miss Out on more kinky fetish party events planned for this year by Circus Maximus @CircusMaximus21 at Celestal Studios, see below for the dates & themes. Also Here
Phallic Narcissism & Brain Science

This is what happens if you have a bald man creating your in-store recipes: Chef Heston Blumenthal’s Head (Top of his Body)
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Phallic Narcissism & Brain Science
It’s the summer & it’s hot! So let’s have a little fun.
Is it just me but I seem to be seeing penises everywhere! I know men can’t stop playing with them, this just proves what women already know. Men are obsessed with them, they all suffer with phallic narcissism. Of course prodoms and naturally dominant women are party to the secret that the cock and balls are actually where the male brain resides. Men are just mindless drones, dragged along behind their ‘control poles’, their ‘on/off knobs’. That’s why they are so easily manipulated and turned into our faithful little ‘lap’ dogs 😉 Or, as a wise woman once said, “Men…
the gender that puke in their pants.”
Cocks Everywhere!
Strange things that look like cocks ~ no real dick pics we promise
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Cuckolding – An Age Old Story
Actors of the Commedia dell’Arte by Francois Bunel (1550s)
Cuckolding – An Age Old Story
A cuckold is a man whose wife is or has been unfaithful, who is regarded as an object of derision. Today, however, cuckolding has been fetishised, with both the cuckold and his partner deriving sexual gratification from his position. It derives from the word cuckoo, as female cuckoos lay their eggs in other birds’ nests. In femdom, being cuckolded is the ultimate sexual humiliation. Where a husband or slave must accept, watch or even assist with his dominant partner’s desire for a younger, more endowed, or virile lover.
In Shakespeare’s Othello (1603), Iago tells Othello,
“Oh, beware, my lord, of jealousy! It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock the meat it feeds on. That cuckold lives in bliss…”
The Cuckold’s Horns
In much of Europe (and other countries further afield) cuckolds are often referred to as ‘wearing the horns of a cuckold’. The meaning of this is not entirely clear, however, it is thought that it refers to the fact that the man being cuckolded is the last to know of his wife’s infidelity. He is wearing horns that can be seen by everybody but him. It has also been suggested that the ‘two finger gesture’ held behind someone’s head without their knowledge, was a cruel mockery of a man’s cuckolded status.
Horns are often used as a symbol of masculinity and virility, while ground animal horns have since the middle ages been used as a cure for male erection and libido problems. And, rutting stags lock horns in order to determine dominance and secure mating rights. Thus, it has also been suggested that the ignorant cuckold does not know that the beast with horns (a more manly, powerful, virile man) has crept behind him and ‘had’ his wife. In fact in modern sexual slang the man brought in to pleasure the wife (the alpha male) is known as the ‘bull’.
Celebrating the Birth by Jan Steen (1664)
Celebrating The Birth
This Classical painting by Dutch master Jan Steen, Celebrating The Birth (1664) is an intriguing cuckolding tableau. The birth of a male heir would result in a celebration but here rather than a traditional mother and child scene we have the father holding the baby.
He is further emasculated as he is wearing both an apron and a chatelane (a belt of keys etc. usually worn by a woman). The husband carries a purse indicating he is a wealthy man who has attracted a younger wife, her back (guiltily or shamefully) is turned to us. In the centre of the painting at the back (see close-up section left) is a young, grinning man mimicking the cuckold hand sign above the baby’s head, suggesting the illegitimacy of the child. This cheeky man is probably a self-portrait of the artist. Interestingly, it was only when the painting was cleaned in 1983 that the hand sign was discovered. It had been painted over in the 19th Century, obviously a past owner had censured the gesture. It has now been restored.
The painting is littered with symbolic sexual imagery and visual puns. The brass bed warmer, prominent in the foreground, signified that the coals in this pan were the only warmth in this marriage bed; denoting a lack of marital sex or the husband’s impotence. The broken egg shells strewn around the floor are a reference to ‘cracking eggs’ a 17th Century euphemism for sexual intercourse. While the maid at the fireplace is grasping a phallic but rather limp sausage. With a wry smile she faces towards us – the audience to the painting, aware of the sexual farce unfolding. A mocking satire of the marital home or a moral warning?
In Chaucer’s The Miller’s Tale (1380s), an elderly husband is suspicious of a young suitor who is attempting to entice his young wife away from him.
“For she was wild and young, and he was old, And deemed himself as like to be a cuckold.”
And Some New Twists
Here at the Mansion we excel at extreme sexual humiliation and have been exploring more wicked ways to cuckold sub husbands & slaves. (Also see Here & Here & Here.) Check out these scenes:
♣ Stunning Mistress Terra explains to her lowly sub that he is going to be her new cuck slave, servicing big cock studs and getting them hard before she fucks them in Unworthy Cuck Fluffer.
♣ A classic cuck scene where a husband is cuckolded, locked in chastity, humiliated and used as a cock fluffer for a big dicked bull in Meet My Alpha Male with the queen of cuckolding Mistress T.
♣ There’s a more ‘slave focused’ cuckolding game in A Tale of Two Slaves where both Mistress T, maestro of erotic humiliation & true cuckoldress, and myself spent a fiendish afternoon indulging our cruel fantasies with 2 male slaves and 1 female slave. If you want to know more you’ll have to watch the film.
♣ If you enjoy our VR experiences meet the young, beautiful but cruel tongued Mistress Karina in Degraded & Cucked – VR.
♣ The super hot Mistress Pandora (Emma Butt) uses and abuses her cuck slave with the help of her fit bull in Cuckold Slave Duties.
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The Path To Dominance
Early Inklings and The Path To Dominance
When I look back I don’t think there were any specific triggers that led me on to the path of sexual deviance. It was just always there, something below the surface but never expressed or developed. From an extremely young age probably about nine or ten I developed kinky sexual habits which centred on bondage. I loved to partially tie myself up and gag myself to masturbate. Later, I started to fantasize about being captured, taken away and used but these were very vague imaginings. I also liked playing bondage games with my school friends. I remember regularly putting the boy next door into bondage in the base of a little sofa in my bedroom. I’d take the mattress off and would weave him into the rubber straps underneath. Then I’d lie on top of him or just touch him while he was helpless. I was aroused but I’m not sure the acts were directly sexual. Perhaps, it was just that I didn’t identify or understand the feelings as ‘sexual’.
Trying To Find The Doorway
It was really in my later teens when I discovered sub/dom literature, (particularly – The Story of O, The Tattoo Enigma & The Beauty Series by Anne Rice (aka A.N.Roquelaure). That’s where I began to connect the world of SM with my inner feelings. These books led me to develop a huge fantastical landscape in my head where many, many fantasies were played out. However, that’s where my desires stayed. As I reached my twenties I discovered fetish clubs and finally began to play. You have to remember there was no internet then so there were no ways to meet likeminded individuals. I had no inkling as to there being any one else who shared my mindset.
After reading The Story of O I was certain of the existence of a kind of romanticized secret world of doms and subs who serve them – I just had to find it! I have only very briefly in my sexual experience slipped into those worlds but it’s something that I aspire to. It’s certainly a milieu and ambiance I create for slaves who serve me.
I have to acknowledge that my earliest leanings were definitely submissive though not exclusively. As a teenager, I don’t think I was in anyway mature enough to play or enjoy the dominant part of an SM relationship. I do believe that in order to really explore ones dominance you first need to have a fair amount of life experience and indeed sexual encounters – both straight and pervy.
Submission & Dominance = One Whole
So I began as a submissive, which I now know is not an uncommon route for many women who later become dominant. I was submissive from my early teens up to my early twenties, then there was a switch period and at about 27 I became completely dominant. I think that some of the best doms have been or tried at playing sub. It gives you invaluable experience of the mindset of the sub. You are able to understand how essential it is to trust the dom whose hands you are putting yourself into. It is a complicated paradox of wanting to please your dom and take and do everything they wish but having limits, needing to feel safe and ultimately respected. You understand the difference between what can be pleasurably painful and what is just downright uncomfortable and distracting. And importantly of how pleasure can turn to panic in an instant. I see someone’s submission as a precious gift; it’s like a gilded Pandora’s box that I must treasure. It must be opened and unpacked slowly and carefully.
I have often mused on the fact that the important distinction is not as to whether you are the sub or dom but whether you are straight or pervy. This is because the roles of sub and dom are co-dependant and in a sense one and the same. This is because whilst being submissive, part of the experience is identifying with the power the dominant has over you, a kind of emotional empathy and vice versa for the dominant party. Perhaps one could split this whole into two parts the cerebral as the dominant and the physical as the submissive. I’m completely dominant and have been for many years but I guess what I enjoy most is coloured by the areas of play that I enjoyed as a sub.