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Circus Maximus Events 2023
at Celestial Studios Derby, Midlands, UK
Themed Alternative Fetish Play & Swing Parties hosted by Miss Vivienne l’Amour
Your Hostess with the Mostess! Mistress Vivienne l’Amour
~ Circus Maximus Parties ~
▪️ Fetish Themed Playrooms ▪️ Classy Clientele ▪️ Explosive Acts ▪️ Interactive & Immersive Evenings
▪️ LGBTQ+ ▪️ Bar & Changing Room
▪️ Hot Tub
Circus Maximus, hosted by Miss Vivienne l’Amour, runs alternative, themed events for fetish players and swingers. Kink play (RACK) is encouraged at their friendly, party atmosphere nights. Plus throughout the evening there are sensational visual cabaret performances and kinky sideshows. Events take place every two months on Saturday nights, (see below for details) at Celestial Studios. An incredible playspace, which has been lovingly developed into a haven for kinksters by the stunning Miss Vivienne l’Amour. Set inside an old warehouse, this massive venue encompasses two entire floors filled with unique play spaces & equipment including: dungeons, prison, medical room, boudoirs, suspension rigs and a hot tub. (Venue staff & dungeon monitors are in attendance.) Located in Derby, it’s discreet with free parking outside, close to the A50 and Junction 24 of the M1.
I (Mistress Sidonia), have had some incredible nights at Circus Maximus: At Sodom & Gomorrah in Aug 2023. Photo by: Fetish Filming
Circus Maximus Themes & Dates 2023 Don’t miss out on all the kinky fetish party events planned for this year by Circus Maximus at Celestial Studios, see below for the 2023 dates & themes.
When beginning any chastisement the bottom cheeks or in fact any area to be punished, need to be completely warmed. To warm the bottom, use a thorough hand spanking. The slaps must start gently and build up until the area is pink or reddened and warm to the touch. So why does the bottom go such a lovely crimson red? In simple terms – any impact to body tissue will cause a substance called histamine to be released into the surrounding area. Histamine is what is known as a vasodilator which means it causes blood vessels to relax and open up.
During a spanking the tissues in the buttocks release histamine and cause the capillaries just below the skin to open up and fill with even more blood than usual. You, of course, see a bright red bottom. Warming the skin actually helps prevent serious marking. This is because the blood pressure in capillaries that have been relaxed with histamine is much lower than in normal capillaries. A shock wave moving into a capillary with higher pressure is more likely to rupture it leading to bruising and marking. It is a little like stretching your muscles before you go to the gym.
The Submissive’s body will also release chemicals called endorphins during a long warm-up which will enable them to handle much higher levels of pain. To warm less fleshy areas like the back use a soft whip to gently bring the blood to the surface of the skin. A good, long warm up will lead to a prolonged horny spanking session, while no warm up or an ineffective one will result in your partner finding the following thrashing very difficult to accept!
Spanking
Hand spanking has to be the most erotic type of castigation anyone can receive. Usually it is given while the submissive is bent over the knee and thus both partners are very close to each other. Hand spanking also involves intimate touching as the hand actually comes into contact with the flesh of the bottom and one partner is actually lying over the genitals of the other. If you use an upwards slicing motion, in a slicing action it makes the cheeks wobble which can stimulates the genitals. You can use vertical movements and downward slices. You can use your four fingers or whole hand. A cupped hand, which although not any harder, does make more sound than a flat hand.
Spanking can be a punishment in itself, or the best prelude (warm up) to any other corporal punishment. When beginning a spanking it is still necessary to start with lighter spanks and build up to harder ones. The key to properly hand spanking someone is not to punch at the bottom especially the base of the spine. This does not mean you cannot hit hard or make it really sting. Just bring your hand down with a good hard slap, lift off so that it stings but don’t use excessive force. Be aware that if the dominant partner wears more than one ring on their hands they can cut into the skin during a hand spanking. So for hard hand spanking take your rings off.
Spanking is about finding a constant rhythm with which to slap your victim’s bottom. A spanking does not necessarily have to be delivered by hand as any small, flat object will do. Using implements for spanking has the advantage of increasing the intensity of the beating (and protecting your hand). The slipper and hairbrush (or any small paddle) are ideal for heavier spanking especially when someone is bent over your knees, as it is not possible to use long implements.
Resident Mansion kinksters the divine Ms Zara DuRose – international fetish model & renowned sex goddess is once again hosting a very special event in central London…
Gods & Monsters 25th March 2023 London
ZDR Events hosted by the divine and totally stunning Miss Zara DuRose, have been running award winning kinky parties since 2015! They pride themselves on being one of the friendliest kink events in London, perfect for those who are just starting their journey into the kinky party world! Welcoming couples, singles, throuples & more…
WINNER of BEST FETISH EVENTS in 2020
at the UK Fetish Awards
Their parties have grown in popularity from 90 people to over 700 at their biggest venues. Hosting a huge range of open-minded individuals, S&M experienced players & newcomers, swingers & fetishists. Each with a different theme, ranging from Winter Wonderland to Seven Seas Of Pleasure, always guaranteeing a night of unique adventure and excitement.
You can expect Live music, DJ’s, dancing, risqué shows & walkabout performances, dedicated play areas, dungeons & a friendly crowd.
Lady Perves hosts a monthly salon for her society friends. It’s an opportunity for this upper-class group of refined ladies to meet and gossip. Few are spared the caustic comments of their vituperative tongues. Serving these ladies is an all-encompassing task for the downstairs house staff, service which often goes beyond the normal house duties…..
Act I. “Yes, I have heard of this new Hungarian Countess. She’s moved in about a month now. From what I hear there’s a whiff of ill repute about her,” said Lady Perves. The other ladies in her retinue giggled. “Yes,” Lady Vivienne commented, “I’ve heard she is interested in equestrian pursuits and is quite proficient with a whip. I believe she likes to ride side saddle.” “Well in that case, we must extend her an invitation,” said Lady Perves. “There’s a young man who entered service downstairs that I’m particularly eager to break, and she sounds like the perfect lady to saddle him. I’ve had my valet do up an invitation for next month’s soiree.” The other ladies giggled. “Oh, Lady Perves you host the most excellent soirees,” commented Lady Violet. The door opened and the butler entered. “The morning tea my Lady,” he announced. “Ah yes Slutson, bring it in,” answered Lady Perves. The tea was duly served to each lady in fine bone china cups. Task completed, the butler was closing the double doors behind him when Lady Perves exclaimed. “Slutson, this tea is a shade cold. What is the meaning of this?” The butler stepped back into the room. “My lady it’s fresh from the pot. But I shall see to refreshing your cups.” “This is unacceptable Slutson. I can’t be expected to host my friends and have service that is less than exemplary. How do you think it makes me look. Get in here, a lesson need to be learned. I am going to give you something fresh from my pot.” The butler stepped back into the room. “Lie over there by the wall, head out,” ordered Lady Perves. The butler did as told. Lady Perves stood and moved over towards him. She stood over his prone form, legs either side of his head. You need to be taught a lesson Slutson and my friends need some entertainment. Lady Perves hitched up her voluminous skirt, exposing her drawers. She opened the split in them and bent down over Slutson’s face, her crotch wavering above him. “Open your mouth,” she commanded. The butler duly did as the stream of fresh pee hit his face. Lady Perves moved slightly to target his mouth, the jet of pee finding its mark. The butler’s face jerked for a second as the warm nectar hit the back of his throat, and he swallowed, conscious of the need to imbibe as much as possible. The Lady’s outlay was voluminous, and it was only when it had trickled down to a few last drops that she relented, straightening and letting her drawers slip back into position after drying herself with a handkerchief. “Now that was served at the right temperature,” she intoned. “Yes, m’Lady,” agreed the butler, gingerly getting back onto his feet. The ladies clapped at this exhibition and resumed their positions in their chairs. “Will that be all, m’Lady,” asked Slutson. “Yes, send up Daisy.” Yes’ m’Lady”
Act II. Daisy entered the room, unaccustomed to been called into her Ladyship’s company. “Ladies, this is the maid I was telling you about, Daisy. Do step over here, Daisy. As you can see, she is a sweet little thing, lithe and very diligent in her duties.” “Thank you, my Lady,” said Daisy meekly to the apparent approval of the other ladies “Yes,” continued Lady Perves. “She is very proficient all round, particularly at polishing. She did an excellent job on the silver last week. Isn’t that right, Daisy?” “Thank you m’Lady, I was only doing my job”, said Daisy humbly. “Oh, I know that you silly girl. But I want to ask you is polishing his Lordship’s cock part of the job as well?” Daisy started, blushing severely. “Yes, I know all about your little arrangement. You see I knew Geoffrey couldn’t keep his hands off a little trollop like you. And you know neither can I. I was hoping he’d take the bait, so that I could get you right into this position. Open that top drawer over there and take out what is in it, you little wench.” Daisy moved over to the chest of drawers, opened the indicated one, and fumbled inside, taking out its sole content. “Now I wonder what you could possibly have there.” Daisy looked down at the brown long thick object in her hand which had a leather harness attached to it. She knew immediately what it represented, and she was beginning to get some intimations of its possible use now. “I had it specially made. I think we may have to see that in action,” said Lady Perves. “Daisy, hand it to Lady Vivian. She will show you how its use is employed. And get disrobed. We want some suitable mid-morning entertainment.” Minutes later Daisy stood naked in front of the company. Lady Vivian had donned the device which now stood out erect from her crotch. Daisy was ordered back to the chest of drawers and told to bend over them. Lady Vivian took up position behind her and inserted the device between her legs, searching for the inevitable opening. The rest of the ladies had assembled around them. Daisy moaned as Lady Vivian entered her. Happy with the position, Lady Vivian commenced some tentative thrusts, working up a rhythm to ride the fragile looking nymph. Daisy moaned as she took it while the Ladies looked on approvingly. It lasted for some minutes, before both Lady Vivian and Daisy reached some point of satiation. Lady Vivian withdrew. Lady Perves ordered Daisy to get dressed but told her to put on the device. This she did and was then ordered to place a table chair in the middle of the room and sit on it. Daisy sat in the chair, with the device sitting upright in her lap. Lady Perves approached her and tied her legs and hands behind the chair with curtain cord. Daisy sat helpless as the ladies sized her up. “Yes, most fetching,” commented Lady Perves. “Lady Hazel would you like a go.” Lady Hazel stepped forward, hoisting up her skirt, splitting her drawers as she proceeded to sit on Daisy’s lap. She mounted herself on the device, and started moving up and down it, her graceful limbs moving with easy fluidity. She rode the helpless maid servant with unabashed enthusiasm, to the delight and glee of her friends. The moment of climax was ecstatic. “You delicious little tart,” moaned Lady Hazel, “I must get one like you for myself.”
In Blood Red Art Photo Portraits of Dominant Women
The artist Ariel B turns her photographs into individual artworks. Gothic fairy tales, dances macabre, distant memories, otherness, otherworldliness, times gone by, death and decay are all preoccupations. In Blood Red is an ongoing project producing portraits of prodoms and dominant women, she says, dommes are the perfect subjects – creative, unique and exceptional individuals who deserve to be documented and memorialized through art. This series of images is loosely based around sexual deviance, supressed female belligerence and the divine sacred feminine.
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Idolatry
Fire Goddess featuring Mistress Vivienne L'Amour
Zara Rabbit featuring Miss Zara DuRose
Rubber Gloss featuring Miss Suzanna Maxwell
Sci Fi Latex featuring Mistress Amrita
The White Queen featuring Mistress Vivienne L'Amour
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