The Secret Life of a Dominatrix & Netflix’s Bonding

The Secret Life of a Dominatrix

Professional dominatrix, Miss Ria Harpiscord explains the truth behind her job in an excellent article in the on-line magazine Healthister. Read the article here


Netflix’s Bonding

The release of Bonding, a Netflix drama, is another factor in the rise of interest in prodominas. Tiff is a grad student in New York City who is moonlighting as a dominatrix but her job is a business, not a pleasure. When she reconnects with former high school BFF Pete, a recently out gay man, she recruits the cash-strapped man to be her assistant. The hilarity ensues…

The Scene’s reaction to the series has been hotly debated and very  mixed. Many from the real-life community felt it offered a negative view of scene play with no consent, communication or real connection. And that this is unfortunately, is how the media always portrays BDSM. That it damages the the reputation of the dominatrix and prodom with it unsafe practices and encouraging of stalking. Others felt it does act to demystify the scene and make it less threatening to the mainstream.

I guess I feel, Bonding should be viewed as related to actual prodomming in the same way as Brooklyn Nine-Nine is to actual policing! The criticism, however, has made Netflix bring in some real dominatrices as consultants for the second season.

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Dogger Slave: Femdom Fiction

Dogger Slave: Femdom Fiction

He opened the door and stepped out of his car. Mistress was already parked and he could see that she had some friends in the car. He hadn’t expected this, although had he been asked what he could expect he would not have been able to answer. With his Owner, the unexpected was ever present, part of her power and dominion over him as a slave. As always, he was momentarily rendered dumbstruck by their beauty, and their presence together always intimidated him.

They were looking at him now, and he could see that they were laughing. He adjusted his jacket, feeling conspicuously self-conscious. Mistress had instructed him to dress smart casual, and he had duly obliged, wearing a jacket, a Ralph Lauren shirt and Tommy Hilfiger jeans, despite the warmth of the summer evening. Of course, he had been specifically told to wear the satin panties, and he could now feel them brush across his balls, his cock in a state of semi-arousal, stymied somewhat by his latent nervousness. He stepped gingerly over, briefly adjusting his jacket. This corner of the car park was largely deserted. They had parked in the farthest corner, near hedging now in full summer bloom.

Mistress opened the door of the car and clicked her fingers.
“Come slut,” she instructed.
She was wearing a summer dress and, as always, he automatically wondered whether she was wearing panties. He could tell by her stare at him that she knew precisely what he was thinking.
“Come here, you bitch,” she intoned.
He moved a bit quicker now, approaching the open door. There were four of them in the car, all watching him intently. He stood in front of Mistress. She appraised his appearance.
“Very good, bitch, so far so good. What do you think ladies.”
They murmured their assent.
“Very presentable indeed, Mistress,” said the brunette dom.
Mistress reached out and cupped his crotch. He exhaled quickly, his pulse quickening.
“And your choice of underwear? Let’s see.”
He recoiled slightly. “What here, Mistress. It’s a bit public isn’t there.”
“Yes, bitch, that’s the idea. Now unzip your pants, you fucking whore, and less of you”r back talk.”
The other doms giggled. Glancing around him, he relented, unclasping his belt, undoing the button and pulling the zip down.
“Mmmmm, very nice Bitch. Quite fetching, ladies, what do you think.”
“Yes, indeed Mistress,” said the dark haired Mistress.
“I think he has potential to earn a little for us and provide some entertainment at the same time.
“What do you think Bitch. Do you want to earn some money for us, so we can enjoy ourselves later?”
“Yes, of course, Mistress, he stuttered.
“Good bitch. Start walking around the car and start taking your clothes off.”
He gasped, looking around frantically. “But, Mistress, it’s so public.”
“Precisely, Bitch,” she answered. “Not get to it, you fucking slut.”

He sighed inwardly. His eyes scanning the horizon, he began walking. He took his jacket off, placing it on the bonnet. Next, he removed his shirt. On the next circuit his shoes and socks. He placed his hands on his jeans, looking again at Mistress, hoping that she might halt it now. He could tell straight away she wouldn’t and he unzipped again and let his pants drop to his feet. He could hear the giggles coming from the car. He placed the pants on the bonnet and walked around in his panties, the early evening sun playing across his flesh.
“Now, the panties whore.”
It was no use remonstrating. She owned him and he would obey her. He pulled down his panties. They were laughing openly now.
“Oh, Mistress, you do have the best slaves,” one commented.
He walked around the car, never as acutely aware of his nakedness, all the time watching for anyone else.
“Now bend over bitch, let’s see that hole of yours. Go to the front of the car.”
He walked a few paces out from the front of the car and bent over. Again, the giggles reached his ears.
“Oh, Mistress, a very enticing looking hole.”
“Yes,” replied Mistress. “It’s a virgin one, but we are working on that.”
“Now turn around, slut and start fondling your balls.”
He did as instructed, cupping his right hand around his sack.
“Stroke your cock, bitch.”
He did, and he could feel it harden between his fingers. He was suddenly distracted by a movement in the bushes on the far side of the car. Mistress and her friends were alerted to it to.
“Now I wonder who this could be,” she said. “Oh, now that I think of it, this place does have a bit of a reputation for dogging.”
The rest of them laughed.

As if on cue a guy emerged from the buses, wearing a t-shirt, jeans, a baseball cap and jet black shades.
“Are you looking for some action,” asked Mistress.
He looked over at him. “Yes, please,” he answered.
She clicked her fingers. “Slave, attend to him.”
He looked at her then to him and back to her again.
“Go on she said. Myself and my friends want a good show!”
He stepped over to the other guy.
“Down on your knees, slut,” he ordered.
“Just let me get something for my knees.”
He retrieved his jeans from the bonnet, placing them on the ground in front of the shaded gentleman.
“Now take my pants down.”
He reached from his belt, undid it. Then he unbuttoned and unzipped him. He was wearing boxers and the bulge within them announced itself with no little fanfare.
“Take them down, slut,” he instructed.
He tugged gently and slowly pulled them down.
The massive cock strained, eager for release.
He could hear gasps from the car at the size of the protuberance.
It was one of the biggest, most voluminous cocks he had ever seen.
“Lick my balls.”
He reached in, gripping gently the guy’s legs, seeking the best purchase. His tongue lolled out, making contact with the robust balls. He started sliding it gently over them, slowly encompassing their wide circumference.
“Now up the shaft.”
He started up, traversing the long shaft, his tongue seeking every inch of this wonderful cock. His tongue swept over the head.
“Kiss it.”
He pulled back slight, pursing his lips, and then alighting them on the penis head.
“Start sucking.”
He began, taking the cock in his mouth. Exploring first, sensing its dimensions, its taste.
Tentatively, he began to establish a rhythm.
He pushed his mouth down on it, trying to gobble as much of is as he could.
“Give him a good face fuck,” shouted Mistress.
“Yes, said another dom, give it to him hard.”
The guy clasped a hand around his head, and started pounding that cock in his mouth.
He never experienced anything like it. It absolutely rammed him. He did his best to keep up. He could now feel its incessant throb as the inevitable climax built, the salty tang of the precum now in his mouth, dominating his senses.
“All over his face,” shouted Mistress.
The cock pulled out, as the release began.
Warm spunk spurted out, across his mouth and cheeks. The guy rubbed his cock into his face, as the final few squirts deposited the load on his nose. He was dripping in his cum. The laughter from the car was reaching fever pitch. Mistress stepped from the car and approached him. She stepped to his back, leaning into him, pinching his nipple.
“Oh dear. What a mess. What can I do to clean it up.”
This occasioned more giggles from the car.
“Let me see now. You need a good dousing to wash it off.
“Lie on your back, bitch.”
He assented, his face feeling flush from what had just happened, the cum jizz settling on it.

Mistress stood over him, tugging up his dress. She was wearing no panties. She stood, and a slow trickle of her nectar began, gaining momentum. Her warm pee splashed down on him, drenching his face. She crouched further, aiming more at his mouth and cheeks, where the cum glistened now with her golden nectar in the sunshine. He opened his mouth, drinking in the mixture of both, an elixir which had to be experienced to be truly appreciated. The cascade of her pee continued, washing and purifying him in its decadence. Gradually it tapered off, until only a few drops remained. She stepped back to the car. He lifted him up, placing an elbow beneath him, looking at his Owner and her friends.
“You did well, Bitch,” she said.
“What do you think, ladies?”
“Yes, Mistress, most entertaining.”
“He has potential as a good little dogger for you.”
“Should be able to earn a nice little sum for you.”
They laughed again.
“Yes,” said Mistress. “Potential indeed!”

By slave P

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So What Is Figging?


So What Is Figging?

Figging is the practice of peeling and then carving a piece of ginger root into a convenient shape to insert it within a bodily orifice. Most commonly the anus but also the mouth, vagina or urethra. Slowly the oils from the ginger create a warming and then slight burning sensation that builds for about 30 mins. It’s a moderately intense, uncomfortable sensation which doesn’t injure the body in any way.

A Very Ancient Practice

Figging has been around since the ancient Greeks who inserted a variety of objects into ‘bodily openings’ as both an erotic practice and a punishment. They used radishes, garlic and ginger. Indeed, rhaphanidosis is the act of inserting a radish into the anus, it is mentioned by Aristophanes as a punishment for adultery and promiscuity in the fifth and fourth century BC.  Figging was of course taken up by the Victorians as a humiliating chastisement to add to their arsenal of cruel endeavours.  While today we have the expression to ‘ginger up’ meaning to make someone or thing more lively. This derives from ‘gingering’ the barbaric exercise of putting ginger root into a horses’ rectum in order to make it more feisty and thus more valuable before a sale.

Making An Insertable Fig

To make a fig for erotic BDSM consensual play, you first need to choose a largish piece of root with which to carve out a dildo or butt-plug shape. Make sure the peeled ginger is smooth, with no rough patches or edges. Usually an unpeeled part of the root is left protruding out, acting as a handle for easy removal. However, former cordon bleu chef Mistress Evilyne (left) has come up with her very own, unique way to make a ginger butt-plug for a bit of good-ole figging! So enjoy this wonderful instructional clip. Not only will you learn something new but you’ll be enticed by the super sexy, sultry tones of Mistress Evilyne’s mesmerizing voice; and a bit of singing 🙂

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 Figging Play Suggestions

* Often after a long CP session when the bottom is already roasting hot, a ginger fig is inserted into the anus as a final act of punishment.

* A circular piece of ginger can be placed inside the mouth before tape or an over-the-mouth fabric gag is used as a cruel addition to being silenced.

* Let your slave take you out to dinner with one of Mistress Evilyne’s insertable ginger plugs inside him. You can enjoy his squirming while enjoying your dinner.

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Pansy Ass Ceramics

Gloryhole Candle Holders

Pansy Ass Ceramics

It was Mistress Evilyne who brought my attention to these adorable – cute, kitsch and wonderfully subversive ceramics. Objet d’arts – some with very practical applications: candle & incense holders, mugs and… well who wouldn’t want a butt-plug vase. There’s definitely a nod to Jeff Koons and guerrilla artist Richard Ankrom here.

Pansy Ass is the work of  Canadian, Toronto based Kris Aaron and Andrew Walker. Together they explore gay male culture through the medium of porcelain ornamentation juxtaposing it with Granny’s traditional favourite china. They have exhibited some amazing work at exhibitions but here I’ve only featured items from their on-line store, many very reasonably priced. Check out their website here.

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Tongue Slaves: ‘Do As You’re Told’ Pussy Licking


Tongue Slaves:

The Art of ‘Do As You’re Told’ Pussy Licking

There are many guides on the internet advising men how to lick pussy. The advantages of being a domme woman is that my slaves don’t need to worry their pretty little heads about any of that.  Hooded and collared on a chain leash, all my simple male slaves have to do is stick their tongues out, relaxed and flat. Like cute little gimp bimbos. While I use the chain lead to guide that tongue where I want it.  I’ll bark out instructions as to anything else – they don’t need to think, just do!  I will just grind myself onto their face when I’m close.

As a domme you don’t have to worry if their tongue is aching, their jaw is tired or they can’t breathe, sex slaves are there to serve.  Plus I usually keep them in tight chastity as it’s important for their Pavlovian conditioning that they learn to focus on my pleasure and orgasms. I don’t want them getting any pleasure for themselves they must learn my pleasure is their pleasure.

One of the benefits of femdom or women taking the lead in the bedroom means they can get sexually exactly what they want, like and importantly what makes then cum – from their partner/slave/sub/pet.

So tongues out boys, here are some examples of how we turn men into obedient pussy lickers here at The English Mansion…

You can use the arrows on the top left of images; or your keyboard arrows to scroll through the gallery.

(So, ‘Pussy Licking’ it is not an expression I like but other than cunnilingus or oral sex which don’t  work, all the other alternatives are far worse. We have a paucity for nice words/expressions for sexual acts they are either revolting slang or medical jargon.)

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So What Is An F.L.R.? Female Led Relationships Pt1

Lovely Lady Nina is taking a firm hand in this FLR


So What Is An F.L R.?

F.L.R stands for Female Led Relationship – an intimate personal relationship where the female partner has control over the male. The nature of this power dynamic can range from only affecting certain facets e.g. in the bedroom or decision making; to total command over all aspects of the partnership.

As feminists and gender equality activists have started to dismantle and challenge traditional social hierarchies, we’re beginning to see an increase in the amount of women and men who are openly pursuing female led relationships. Women want to take the lead and men are seeking strong, capable women.

Traditionally men have held this authoritative role within relationships, households and families but today with the constraints removed many women are finding the leadership role natural to them. And not just in relationships but for entire nations. From single mothers to intelligent business women to heads of state, women are quickly proving to men that they are just as competent. (At the time of writing this, female heads of state are incumbent in: Brazil, Germany, Bangladesh, Norway, Jamaica, Argentina, South Korea, Denmark & Poland. In the last 2 years: UK, Romania, Namibia, Iceland, Peru, New Zealand, Singapore, Serbia  – far too many to mention them all).

So it’s good news for both sexes as it means men no longer need to project a machismo and take on all the pressures of being providers. While it’s liberating for alpha women, (who unlike men – who are perceived as natural leaders, were seen as overbearing and bossy,) as they now can embrace their strong intelligent personas. People irrelevant of their sex can act in accordance with their own nature without fear of social stigma.

Madame Caramel is a true exponent of an FLR with her boy Joris always at her beck & call ~ Visit her website here

FLR & Femdom

It’s important to recognise that FLRs exist on a spectrum. Here at The English Mansion and within the world of femdom we are primarily interested in exploring its furthermost position. FLRs have direct parallels with the 247 or owned slave BDSM dynamic and can be the basis for a sub/dom paring or even marriage. (They probably just have less rubber & leather and no need of a dungeon.)

Femdom FLRs are where the woman takes total control and makes all the decisions in her relationship. She probably won’t work instead her partner/husband will provide and cater to her every need, worshipping her like a goddess. Sexually she will take strict command in the bedroom, making and training her partner/husband to serve her sexual needs. Chastity devices, enforced feminisation and cuckolding may play an important part of this training.

Note: What FLR isn’t

a)  It isn’t an abusive relationship but one agreed on or one that just naturally works;
b)  it isn’t one that resembles a mother/child dymanic, it’s a healthy adult relationship;
c)  and it isn’t an ongoing exhausting power struggle.

If you’d like a peak at a femdom FLR take a look at these recent English Mansion films: WLR Wife Led Relationship, Wives Take Charge & Your Bitch Wife.

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