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The Siren’s Song

Posted on 28/08/2017 by Mistress Sidonia

The Siren’s Song

More of Mistress Sidonia’s musing on her decadent desires and philosophy of female domination.

I have always liked to tease and seduce men. Using all of my feminine and seemingly innocent charm to overpower and ensnare them. To to weave a web that lures men to my lair where I slowly toy with them, playing with their minds and abusing their bodies. My power lies not in my darkened chamber, elaborate equipment or wicked toys but within myself for my greatest tool is my femininity.

Female sexuality is an incredibly powerful force. It is quite a different entity from male sexuality, which is probably why it is so repressed and surrounded by misunderstanding. Women have superior beauty to men, that is an innate fact. Women know how to manipulate men to do exactly what they want, a gift that naturally develops when you do not possess the greater physical strength. The Dominant woman knows how to use these gifts to completely mesmerise the men that flock to her. Using her devilish smile and seductive manner she will look deep in to your eyes until you melt. She doesn’t MAKE you submit – you WANT to submit and therein lies the crux of her power.

I am a dominant woman that is my sexual preference and the more a man submits to me the more attracted to him I am. Dominating men is a sexual encounter I find it extremely arousing to have men at my beck and call to know that they will do anything I wish and can do anything I like to them. To know that by using my femininity I can completely control them. However, my sexual dominance is more than just a game played in the boudoir. It is an important part of my philosophy on life. As a woman I am in control of my destiny and sexuality. I know what I want and how to achieve it. I am free and in control.

Posted in -MSVB's Musings | Tagged female supremacy, femdom philosophy, femdom sex, Feminism | 2 Comments

Kinky Monkey – Harnesses Every Which Way!

Posted on 22/08/2017 by Mistress Sidonia

Here at The English Mansion we want to highly recommend Kinky-Monkey.com purveyors of beautifully made soft leather harnesses. They specialise in just about every kind of strap-on harnesses you can think of: classic strapon dildo harness; double penetration harness; thigh-ride harness; chin dildo harness; & other harness extras. So you can get pegging just about every-which-way! 🙂

I also love their locked-in orgasm harness (see image right) the ultimate in cruel teasing; and their butt-plug harness, useful as plugs do seem to want to eject themselves – usually at an inopportune moment!

Members of The English Mansion will be familiar with DSO’s giant strapons requiring specialist harnesses (see here for more: Queen of Dongs) – well these amazing pieces of bespoke and highly engineered kit designed were created for her by Kinky-Monkey.com. They explained the difficulties of harnessing DSO’s largest dildo so far,

“It took 10 square feet of leather 96 rivets, 16 buckles, 1 x 140 mm stainless steel marine ring and 1 long day in the workshop!”
(see image left)

Another plus for Kinky-Monkey’s harnesses is that they come in a huge variety of colours, so perfect for co-ordinating your strapon cock with your outfit.

(see right image, Claire from Kinky-Monkey & DSO)

So take a look at their website or facebook page, Kinky-Monkey is a great fetish artisan business with super kit. They are also often at the BBB (the Birmingham Fetish Market).

Posted in -EngMan Recommends, BDSM Equipment & Clothing | Tagged kinky-monkey, strapon, strapon harness, thigh harness | Comments Off

Serial Bitch – Human Stress Toys

Posted on 14/08/2017 by Mistress Sidonia

Human Stress Toys – More Musings from MSVB

Chatting with an extremely masochistic sub friend he told me about a session he had with an American dominatrix. She seriously ‘went to town’ on him with whips and cigarettes (which he loved) and after the session she had said, “Wow, I really needed that!”

I can totally identify with her, I would say in my day-to-day life I’m a pretty kind, considerate person but within the confines of my role as a domme I find hurting, being cruel and generally just bullying someone a huge stress reliever. Making me grateful that there are slaves and submissive men who allow me this release in a consensual and hopefully mutually beneficial way. The perception that slaves are somehow weak and pathetic is ironically, so wrong. I need physically and mentally strong men who can withstand all that I want to impart on them and am continually impressed with what my slaves will take for me.

When out in public eating certain table manners are usually expected, while as a domme I can suddenly take it upon myself to stab my eating partner in the hand; or take the lid off the salt canister and pour it all over his food totally spoiling it so he has to go hungry; or as on one memorable occasion, I suddenly and for no other reason than bullying, cracked a sub friend over the head with a large table-spoon – what an interesting sound. Appalling behaviour and yet such a relief to be able to indulge that need to be the queen of mean!

If I’m whipping someone hard over a long period it can be totally exhausting but it also gives me a similar release, a heady power rush probably akin to the endorphins the sub receiving the lashes gets. I love that feeling, perspiring with the effort while relishing in the cries of another’s pain. Sometimes it’s hard to hold back and not go too far and why group domination scenes can often slip into a pack frenzy 😉 Oops

So thank you subs for making such great human stress toys providing excellent cruel kicks or a needed source of release – for us dommes who know how to indulge our inner serial bitch 🙂

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Meeting a Mistress – A little Nostalgia

Posted on 07/08/2017 by Mistress Sidonia

Now most subs think the process of meeting a dominant woman or prodom is a pretty difficult one – actually, you should all think yourselves lucky, just try and imagine what it was like before the advent of the Internet! When I first started we put coded cards in newsagents windows – we’d sometimes get comical responses when someone got hold of the wrong end of the stick (pun intended 🙂 ).

We also put out personals in contact mags where you were given a code and interested parties would write to you, it wouldn’t be unusual to receive a sack of replies but the process of responding to them was epic. Later, with the revolutionary introduction of the mobile phone contact mags allowed phone numbers and if Mistresses think they get wank**s and no-shows now; it’s nothing compared to the days before caller display, back then you’d receive weird, deep breathing (keep talking I’m almost there) and even threatening calls, pretty much on an hourly basis. We were treated as a free sex phone call service. We didn’t even have appointment times for new clients we just booked in everyone and hoped for the best.

Now if I was playing spot the domme, we’d have: Mistress Caroline, Mistress Teresa May, Miss Parker, Mistress Severity, Mistress Annette, Mistress Patricia, Mistress Eve/Karla, Mistress Xena, Mistress Zena, Mistress Anna (Brighton), Mistress Anna, Mistress Kate & Mistress Suzanna.

Posted in -MSVB's Musings, -Prodoms | Tagged contact magazine, femdom nostalgia | 21 Comments

More Music To Whip Guys By – Chillout Top Twenty #2

Posted on 01/08/2017 by Mistress Sidonia

Welcome to The English Mansion’s Top Twenty
Music To Whip Guys By ~ Chillout Mix #2
Our musical play lists dedicated to all things kinky

Welcome to another Top Twenty music chart of songs which exude sensuality and dark passions making them perfect for BDSM session play. Music is an essential backdrop to a scene it sets the mood and has an effect on our emotions. From high-energy dance for serious whipping to slow erotic ambient beats for more sensuous play; a scene moves through many phases and the right play-list compliments the action.

I’ve chosen these tracks for the vibe they have, not for the words necessarily and certainly not for the videos. So here are another 20 classic tracks for BDSM session play this time with a focus on chilled out beats. Unlike my last rather eclectic play-list which traversed all the decades back to the 70’s, pretty much everything here is post 1990 (except the 1989 Cure track) with lots of recent finds and interestingly two instrumentals (joint No. 18s) making it quite a modern ambient mix. So here are a few more of my personal favourite tracks all that have great pervy memories for me 🙂

Music To Whip Guys By ~ Chillout Mix #2
1 Swords	Leftfield feat. Nicole Willis (2000)	Play Video
2 Enjoy The Silence (Remix)	Depeche Mode (1990)	Play Video
3 That’s the Way Love Goes	Janet Jackson (1993)	Play Video
4 Exit Music (For a Film)	Radiohead (1997)	Play Video
5 Lullaby	The Cure (1989)	Play Video
*6 Glory Box** joint with 6 Here joint with 6 Hell Is Around The Corner	Portishead (1994) Alessia Cara (2015) Tricky (1995)	Play Video Play Video Play Video
7 I Walk the Line	Halsey (2015)	Play Video
8 This Love	Craig Armstrong (1997)	Play Video
9 Hourglass	Samuel Sim feat.Tracy Kashi (2017)	Play Video
10 Nevermind	Leonard Cohen (2014)	Play Video
11 What Else Is There?	Röyksopp (2005)	Play Video
12 Seventeen (Droyds Remix)	Ladytron (2002)	Play Video
13 All is Full of Love	Björk (1997)	Play Video
14 The Sun	The Naked and Famous (2010)	Play Video
15 All We Do joint with The End	Oh Wonder (2015) Nostalghia (2014)	Play Video Play Video
16 Past Mistakes	Persia White feat.Tricky (2009)	Play Video
17 Where Is My Mind	Sunday Girl (2015) or The Pixies (1988)	Play Video Play Video
18 Clubbed To Death joint place with 18 One Too Many Mornings	Rob Dougan (1999) The Chemical Brothers (1995)	Play Video Play Video
19 Strange And Beautiful	Aqualung (2005)	Play Video
20 I Want You	Madonna feat. Massive Attack (1995)	Play Video

* a little homage to Isaac Hayes

The English Mansion’s Kinky Top Music Charts

Take a look at our other musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky
~ to be included the rules are: they must be big hits or tracks from internationally well-known performers.

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Tremblr – New Male Cock Milking Machine

Posted on 27/07/2017 by Mistress Sidonia

Keeping a mummified sub teased & edged on the Tremblr male cock milker

Tremblr – New Male Cock Milking Machine

We have been enjoying playing with an excellent new toy here at The English Mansion. The Tremblr is a new male milking machine with some similarities in construction to the Venus 2000 but overall quite a different device. It uses an electric motor to turn a rotating arm connected to a piston, that in turn is connected to a ‘receiver’ via a long rubber tube. Air is then drawn in and out of the receiver, on insertion the penis is sucked in and can then be massaged, pulsed and stroked for hours on end!

You can control the amount of air ‘sucked’ to both set the depth of the stroke and the speed of the stroke – which combined produce a myriad of different and intense sensations. With 180 strokes per minute being its top speed. So with the right rhythm and suction you can use the Tremblr to bring the ‘little man’ to climax or with slower, longer strokes it’s perfect for an extended tease and edging session.

The ‘receiver’ on the Tremblr has a fairly thick rubber/latex liner which produces a much firmer and slippier sensation compared to the Venus 2000; and it’s far more robust over time. It’s also one of the quietest milking machines I have come across.

The Tremblr is operated by remote control allowing you to direct the device from a distance. Ideal for when your Domme wants to sit back and watch your torment from afar controlling its every motion. And, useful if you are using the machine for hands free masturbation – which is the market it’s generally aimed at.

It comes with a rugged and discrete carry case which is fairly bulky; is supplied with 3 receiver sizes (M, L, XL) or you can order an extra receiver pre-built to your spec; and a 110/240V auto switching power adaptor suitable for most power supplies worldwide.

Available from F-machine.com – Tremblr