Blogtastic – My Top Femdom Blogs

Blogs, weblogs as they were, have moved on from being merely website news pages; now forming part of the new social media that appeals not to the masses but to small communities. News is diverse, less mass-produced giving alternative (and yes weird and crazy) voices an ability to be heard, voices uncensored or edited by the mainstream media.

Blogs are as individual as their creators and the passion, artistry and enthusiasm that drives them. By sharing their thoughts, experiences or fantasies bloggers create a place for those like-minded or with shared interests to feel connected or supported. So, I wanted to recommend some of my favourite blogs, interestingly just these 5 blogs show the huge diversity and individualist style you can discover in the wonderful world of blogging: personal journals, interviews, artwork, humour – open to all and free for anyone interested to enjoy. So here are

My Favourite Top 5 Blogs & Bloggers

Mistress-t-blogMy good friend, Mistress T writes a superb candid blog Getting To Know Mistress T letting her devotees connect with what’s happening in her day-to-day life, her sexy adventures & also her world travels. It’s always insightful, intelligent and particularly open and frank in its dialogue on sexual relationships. And recently she has begun producing her T-Time Sex Ed Series of FREE Vlogs (video blogs) which I highly recommend including: Pussy Licking Tips; On-Line Conduct & Dick Picks; Condoms; and Dick Size.


The gorgeous Jessica Dee writes an excellent blog about her adventures on the scene Thoughts of a Submissive CD (Crossdresser) with lots of photos and accounts of what actually happens behind closed dungeon doors 🙂 Another facet to this blog are the excellent and detailed Domme Interviews she conducts with eminent prodoms and in her archives are: Miss Kitty, Porcelain Beauty, Nikki Whiplash, Miss Sarah Jessica, Mistress Evilyne, Miss Jessica Wood, Mistress Cara Sutra, Fetish Liza, Mistress Inka, Mistress Ezada Sinn & Mistress T.

sardax-blogSardax is an accomplished artist who specialises in female dominance. His sublime illustrations and artworks offer a unique vision of a femdom utopia, inhabited by beautiful goddesses, who can use and abuse the enslaved men that serve them unrestrained by reality. And by visiting his blog, The Art of Sardax you get to see some of his latest work, including the portraits of real-life dominatrixes he is regularly commissioned to produce.


The BDSM and fetish world now has its very own satirical, spoof blog, the excellent Daily Flogger. Its posts range from hilarious lampooning to subtle derision which requires a more intimate knowledge of the scene. Though I think we all recognise the self-importance among some within our community that requires some gentle mocking. Go and check out some of my favourite posts: Face of Jesus Found in Singletail Marks; Girl Trapped in Latex Dress for Six Hours; Male Slave Hires Top Law Firm To Negotiate Contract; Cuckold Sabotages Birth Control Serves Bitch Right; & Man Finds Tight Bondage Confining.


Mistress Scarlet’s Blog is a written narrative based blog detailing her real-life exploits as a dominant wife subjugating her submisive husband ‘bitch-boy’. Along with the post accounts of their 247 sub/dom relationship, this blog is also a wealth of tips and tricks to help budding new dommes and fellow domintrixes subjugate their slaves to maximise their enjoyment from their dominant lives.

Click on Blog Banner headers to visit these blogs.

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Atomic Dom – Domina Alexandra Snow

domina-alexandra-snow-goddess-bdsmWe were just blown-away by stunning Domina Alexandra Snow who we welcomed at The English Mansion for a long stay, giving her a free rein (literally for our ponyboys) and extensive use of our stable of Mansion slaves. Goddess Snow is one of the USA’s foremost dominatrixes; a world-class dungeon owner; fetish model and film producer. She is a lifestyle domme who does not offer “services” but likes to interact with real submissives, offering them the chance to serve a truly authoritative female.

Mistress T was also staying at the Mansion and her trip overlapped that of Domina Snow’svlog_sidonia_snow-mistressT and together all three of us appeared in a short Vlog (Video Blog) for Mistress T Vlog: Summer 2015 with Sidonia Bork & Alexandra Snow.
If you’d like to take a peek  Click Here
or click on the image to the left.

Domina Snow has established herself as both an accomplished dominatrix & fetish expert with a hugely popular store at C4S, specialising in POV style clips especially those focused on mind control, mesmerism and powerful women with magical powers. More Info Here

And, you can watch her in action right now inside The English Mansion in many films including Worshipping Goddess Snow & Situation Vacant and coming soon is the fabulous new… Fresh Meat to Milk


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The Women Who Torment Men


Slaves your fate lies in the hands of The Mansion’s Mistresses!
So come inside and see what’s in store…
Comic strip by Vince Ray


Lady Nina Birch – Circa 1995

This fabulous comic strip The Women Who Tormented Men, was created by Vince Ray for DDI magazine back in the 90s, when I didn’t want to show my face in my prodom adverts. The cropped haired twin dommes are actually both Lady Nina Birch, she loved the uniformed bitch look back then and wore her hair cropped & bleached. The middle card originally had my contact details.

I later made a short art-film based loosely of the story from this comic strip and Vince Ray kindly made me this set of beautiful femdom tarot cards to use as props.

Check out these excellent Vince Ray Products Here


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Lady Nina’s Special Feminisation Regime Pt6


Part 5  Money Making Schemes

I genuinely get turned on by enforced bi, humiliation & control, strap-on and feminisation and don’t mind how long it takes to ‘turn’ a man. I will manipulate, tease and coerce until I get my thrills!

By now your partner will be so broken and desperate for sexual relief he won’t even realise he is slowly being turned permanently into your performing pet cocksucker. Now how best to use him and make some extra cash, here are a few suggestions:

1.  Maid of all Work
When your friends come round he can wait on you all serving drinks, lighting cigarettes, holding ashtrays etc. Once trained up you can hire him for private swinging functions, then when he’s not serving drinks he can be servicing some cock.The advantage here that as a man he should know how to give the perfect blow-job 🙂

2.  Club Slut
Take him to a gay club introduce him to his new ‘friends’. Padlock him to the urinals with a sign round his neck offering blow-jobs and a whole host of other pleasures. This is all extra gravy, so if his day-time job bonus is crap this way you can still make some extra money.

3. ‘Lesbian’ Sex Slave
For you and your girlfriends and their friends…. You will all now get your pussy licked for as long as you want, just how you like it and with his maximum effort for a change. Make sure your friends write a full report on his abilities and give marks out of 10. Read it out to him when he is on his knees as extra humiliation, give punishments in areas you feel he let you down and rewards where you feel he fulfilled his duties. He won’t get paid for this service but all your friends will be in your debt 😉

sissy-whore-01-4.  Web Slut
When he gets home from work dress him in a suitable outfit from his slut attire wardrobe. Choose some sex toys he can then perform on webcam and earn you some extra shopping money.

5.  Transvestite/Xdresser Escort
Get some professional photos taken of him and get him his own website under a really slutty domain name. This way he can start to build on his clients and fan base. Pretty soon he could be making more money for you whoring, than his regular job.

By this time your partner is totally broken and at your mercy, grateful for any small glance of your cleavage or brief reprieve from chastity. This is where you really get to use your imagination and come up with some extreme degrading filth …

I will continue this in Pt7 – Coming Soon. Lady Nina  x
© Lady Nina Birch

We’ve been honoured at The English Mansion to be given exclusive access to Lady Nina Birch’s Special Feminisation Regime, which we will post here over the next few months. This is an extensive, light-hearted guide and an essential read for all Ladies & special girls who want to engage in the world of feminisation. Lady Nina Birch is the UK’s foremost feminatrix with many years of experience and extensive knowledge on crossdressing and full-feminisation.

You can find our more about Lady Nina Birch here on her personal website

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Wax Play Pt2 – An Essential Guide to Everything you ever Wanted & Needed to know about Wax Play

Wax Play Pt 2

Fun things to do with Hot Wax

a) Experiment with dripping, pouring or painting wax on with a brush.

b) There can be great artistry and beauty to wax play, this is best achieved using two or more different coloured candles, to make designs and patterns. So turn your play partner into the next Turner Prize.

c) You can make a ‘penis mould’ by totally coating the ‘hard’ area, it makes a lovely keepsake for afterwards.

d) You can make a whole body cast but will need a lot of wax!

e) It’s great to drop wax over an already hot spanked bottom.

f) You can encase a soft penis in wax, creating a wax chastity device and then tease your partner to make him hard and see if he can break through the wax shell.

g) It’s quite erotic to wax your plaything while they are in bondage and watch them squirm. It’s best to use soft old rope for this and then keep this as your ‘wax rope’ afterwards, as once it’s been covered in wax it won’t come out.

h) Mummify them in cling-film, cut out holes in the relevant places and then watch them wiggle while you wax the night away.


Fabulous New Wax Innovations
Today on-line you can buy some amazing and practical new wax play innovations! The best is a set a set of seven pouring jars with handles and spouts, each with a different colour wax from the rainbow.

You can also buy UV play wax and warm poring wax that once on the body turns to an oil that can be massaged in. Also available to buy is wax with specific melting points i.e. cooler for beginners and hotter for serious BDSM players.

The Hair Problem
The biggest problem with wax play is the cleaning up afterwards. Especially the process of removing the wax from the body. Humans are mammals, we’re covered in hair, even minute ones – so the wax will stick to the hair and removing it will be extremely painful, it’ll rip then out! It’s a bit like an unintentional salon hair waxing session. So here are some solutions…

Solutions & the Magic Answer

  1. Have the victim shave the important bits in advance.
  2. Avoid the very hair bits (pubes).
  3. Wrap them in cling-film, this does reduce some of the intensity but still works.
  4. Get them to use a rich moisturiser this helps but is not perfect.
  5. The best and sure way to resolve this problem is to rub down the areas with baby oil first, it’s magic the wax won’t stick! However, and this is important – the wax will heat the baby oil and make the sensation of the falling wax much hotter! So factor this in.

The Mess Problem

So the cleaning up afterwards… it’s not just hair that it’s difficult to clean wax from.  You’ll think you can use it carefully and only direct it onto the person but beware it’s not that easy to control. It easily splashes especially when dropping it from a height and can get on hair, floors, furniture, carpets, sheets and is extremely difficult to remove! So don’t use it with your best sheets. If you try to wash or scrub it off in a bath or shower it will block drains. So it must be scraped off first (plastic store cards & kitchen spatulas are good for this) then binned or vacuumed up.

Essential for wax play is the 3Ps – Prior, Preparation & Planning, so first lay out a cheap vinyl shower curtain, a disposable table-cloth or even newspaper for your sub to lie on. Once you’ve finished scrape off all the wax and then just fold it all up and bin it. Another option is to wrap your sub in cling-film, leaving holes for where you want to wax; alternatively just play outside.

Another idea is to make the removal part of the scene; I’ve uses abrasive sponges and shoe-brushes on the skin afterwards. Long nails can also be effective in scratching it off. Or if mess is not a problem you can just flog it off 🙂


  1. Hair, beards and body hair can easily be singed or catch fire near naked flames, often due to minute fumes given off from perfume, hairspray or deodorant on the body.
  2. Wax’s boiling point is extremely high over 300° F ! If left on a heat source its temperature will continue to rise – so never heat wax in a pan or microwave – as this can seriously burn the skin. If you are a serious player who wants to play with large amounts of pouring wax for safety I would suggest using a jam/sugar cooking thermometer, keeping the wax at a temp of between 46 – 50°C (115 – 122°F ) never going higher than 54 °C (130 °F).
  3. Keep a fire extinguisher close by or a bucket of water as a tipped over candle could start a fire really fast. Candles are the leading sources of residential fires, so never ever leave a naked flame unattended. Remember the heat above a lighted candle is extremely hot and it’s especially dangerous to use them near canopy beds or drapes.
  4. Always use candles with candlesticks/holders that way you have some where to put them while they are lighted or even better candles in jars. Make sure the holder is always placed on a stable, heat-resistant surface.

Now off you go and have lots of waxing fun!  © MSVB
Read Pt 1 Here

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Blind Obedience – Extreme Pony Training


Over the Summer, I’ve been experimenting with taking ponyboy slave training to a new level,  I call it Blind Obedience Training. The ponyboy is hooded and thus blindfolded with absolutely no vision, he is then harnessed with an elaborate locking body harness that straps his arms tightly to his sides. Restraining his arms and elbows to the side of the body is particularly restrictive especially for cart pulling service.


Then with both voice commands and/or a series of instructions indicated through the pull on the bit gag in his mouth, he must endeavour to correctly drive me through the extensive English Mansion grounds. Unfortunately for the sub, parts of Mansion grounds are uneven with small holes and many stinging nettles, none of which can be avoided once you are effectively being made to run at speed while in a ‘sendep’ state.


As you can see unfortunately the slave sometimes isn’t paying attention… much to his peril!


As it was a particularly warm and humid day I decided I would ride naked. I enjoyed making sure he knew this of course and teased him first in the slave pen adding an extra layer of cruelty for him knowing he would see nothing 🙂


I also continued his training without the cart on the lunge rein, I like to use physical training to totally exhaust and thus subdue the slave, as once his body is weak it’s easier for me to play with his mind 🙂

Blind_ObedienceAnd you can watch all the real-life domination footage inside The English Mansion, right now in Blind Obedience.

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