SM Aphrodisiacs, Hate Fucks & Tongue Lashes

In Search of the (better) Female Orgasm Pt 2pussy-licking-mistress-pandora-2
Mistress Pandora using the electric face sitting/pussy licking chair – the perfect way sit back in comfort and get his tongue exactly where you want it

Heightening your Orgasm: The Aphrodisiac of (someone else’s) Pain
the-cuck-box-I guess I have a bit of a sick and twisted side :) but pain has an aphrodisiac effect on me – my slave’s pain that is! I would highly recommend more women try it.There is something about his sweat, little grimaced red face and quiet moans that gets me all hot and horny. It most definitely heightens my orgasm.

Mistress T took the idea a little further by both hurting a slave while not even fucking him, as on top of this he was cuckolded as she fucked another slave beside him, he was even hooded so he could not even watch! So used together the cries of one slave were the aphrodisiac while the other provided the relief.

In the film Whipped For Her Orgasm Lady Nina & myself give a slave a hard whipping while Fetish Liza enjoys masturbating herself watching him suffering.whipped-for-her-orgasm Hate Fucking
As regular readers of this blog will know – I am fascinated with how to completely physically and psychologically break my male slaves – the most important factor is to destroy their self-worth and sense of individuality. I have been experimenting with ‘hate fucking’ when I fuck a slave either sexually or with a huge strapon when I’m genuinely angry and annoyed with them. Fucking someone with total contempt is so hot for me, yet so degrading for them. Recently a slave of mine found himself cruelly fucked all over the Mansion grounds in every position possible with my biggest strapon at night in the wet and cold. I was fully dressed and furious – the fuck was exhilarating and cathartic for me while he was left sore, used and broken!


Vituperation  – Extreme Verbal Humiliation
I also love to verbally abuse slaves when fucking them – and my cutting tongue can be as cruel as any whip. To like to remind them how worthless they are and I never let them cum. They are nothing more than human vibrators there for my use. Somehow this treatment and degradation of them focuses the whole of the sexual act on me and my sexual pleasure  – again a sure way to let me achieve a huge orgasm.

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A Lady & A Vamp – Nina Birch

Lady-Nina-Birch-English-Mansion-collection-2014Two recent Mansion films (Maid Trained Maid Milked & Nina’s Sissy Slut Girls) and two up-coming ones featuring Lady Nina Birch and some of her ‘special girls’ Felicity, Natalie & Tiffany.

 All New Website
Lady Nina Birch resident English Mansion Domina, cock controlling dom wife and sissification specialist has completely revamped her personal website with a huge number of new and recent photos of Ms Birch in action.

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Lady Nina’s main focus is domestic-style domination. She loves to play at being your strict wife – she’ll train, control, tease and humiliate you and your ‘little man’. Her other passion is for TV, Slut & Sissy training and you’ll soon find yourself dressed up and worshipping her strapon. Her huge wardrobe also extends to everything from slut wear to full sissification attire, to make up and wigs. She also specialises in clothing & leg/foot fetishists.

Jessica Dee’s Thoughts of a Submissive CD
Also check out this great blog about Jessica’s visit to the Mansion English Mansion – Third time’s a charm where she gets taken in hand by both Lady Nina Birch & Miss Jessica Woods here

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She – Who Must Be Obeyed by H Rider Haggard


Influential to Femdom: Yes – Of Value Today: No

She is an adventure novel written by Henry Rider Haggard in 1887. It is considered a classic having sold over 83 million copies worldwide and was once one of the best-selling books of all time! (It is even cited in the psychoanalytical theories of Sigmund Freud.)

Most critiques skim over the sexual titillation of the novel which revolves around femdom themes. (Something I might argue may have been a huge part of its appeal in the constrained 19th century.) The tribe, the adventurers meet, is female led these partially naked young female natives choose or change men as sexual partners at will. The tribe is ruled by the all-powerful and ruthless ‘She who must be obeyed’. ‘She’ is a seductive femme fatale whose beauty puts men totally under her spell. One of the main male characters is throughout the book indifferent to the charms of women but instantly falls in love with her. While another should hate her because she murders a native girl devoted to him but he too cannot help but kneel before her in awe.


A 1968 Hammer Films titillating spin-off, featuring the character of She.

Today, its appeal has waned, in fact you are probably more likely to remember another of Haggard’s books King Solomon’s Mines featuring the adventurer Allan Quatermain. Think Raiders of the Lost Ark and you’ll get the basic premise for Haggard’s stories, he was obviously a huge influence on the Indiana Jones franchise.

I don’t recommend reading this book. This is a deeply racist (managing to offend many races and religions) and despite its central character, misogynistic book. It does expound an insightful, if distasteful, look into the Victorian Gentleman’s mindset of superiority and imperialism over foreign barbarism. Dark-skinned ‘primitive’ races that need the Empire to impose British rule in order to civilize them. Even ‘She’ is a white queen ruling over natives (reminiscent of Queen Victoria and her Empire.)

So successful was She Haggard wrote three sequels including Ayesha, the Return of She. And, the character of She has inspired more than ten film adaptations. Including a 1935 version (made by the creators of King Kong [1933]) set in the Arctic, rather than Africa, and depicts the ancient civilisation of the story in an Art Deco style (?). And, Hammer Films made a 1965 adaptation staring Ursula Andress & Christopher Lee.

So successful was ‘She’ Haggard wrote three sequels including ‘Ayesha, the Return of She’. The character of She has inspired more than ten film adaptations. Including a 1935 version (made by the creators of King Kong [1933]) set in the Arctic, rather than Africa, and depicts the ancient civilisation of the story in an Art Deco style (?). Hammer Films made a 1965 adaptation staring Ursula Andress & Christopher Lee.

I wanted to read this novel as I’ve been looking at cultural influences that have shaped our concept of the ‘dominant or alpha woman’. And, there is no doubt this book was hugely influential and has its place on the path that has brought us to today’s notions of femdom. However, its innate sexism and racism (thought we can recognise they must be seen in the context of when the book was written) leave it of little value for modern readers or today’s femdom world.

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The Lost Village of Mini Men


The village where men are shrunk down to size (literally!)

Here at The English Mansion we have a coven of female witches – The Sisters of Circe who congregate on special days to work their wicked magic. One mystical moonlit night they cast a powerful spell that shrunk a local village down to 10 times its normal size.


Turning it into a miniature curiosity for dominant woman. The spell specifically included the villages’ young males who must now reside there forever.
Mistress T – Gives good head!

We keep these mini men as tiny pets and an amusement for the dommes who visit us. Unfortunately, while Mistress T was visiting, she decided to break into the Village and while there caused a little havoc…Giantess-Fun-Annimation-Mistress-T-02So many powerless men to play with… tiny men the perfect size to slip into your pocket or keep between your cleavage.giantess-03-

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SPH: His Teenie Weenie Peenie!


Small Penis Humiliation

So what is SPH all about then? It’s a fetish where a man is subjected to offensive remarks and gestures about the inadequate size of his penis. This naturally leads to further ridicule about his obvious inability to please a woman sexually, implying his worthlessness as a man and inferiority to other more ‘well-endowed‘ men.

Michelangelo's masterpiece -David is supposed to be a symbol of strength and youthful male beauty... and yet... he did have a very small one.

Michelangelo’s masterpiece ‘David’ is supposed to be a symbol of strength and youthful male beauty and yet… he did have a very small one.

This castigation of his manhood can also focus on its shape, lack of turgidity or a propensity to PE (Premature Ejaculation). Pretty much anything can be pointed out as a flaw that makes his penis undesirable, unworthy and inadequate to please or satisfy a woman.(Interestingly, most of the guys who wanted a good cock mocking from me, had perfectly normal sized cocks.)

Verbal erotic humiliation can be exhilarating for the woman or domina employing it. It relies on the domination of his emotions and primal notions of his manhood (both big & small) as opposed to physical contact. Its roots are most definitely within femdom and woman worship – as the fantasy is about the need for a woman to have sexual pleasure, ‘they’ like their miniscule penises are irrelevant.

It is also common as the basis for cuckolding as if a husband’s cock is too small to pleasure his wife, after much belittling of his member, she will inform him she intends to take a lover with a proper cock. She may even put her well-hung young studs cock next to her husbands weenie in order to make a comparison -  to further humiliate and compound his uselessness to her.

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Philosophy in the Boudoir – Wisdom from De Sade


Geoffrey Rush as the Marquis de Sade in the film “Quills (2000)” a fascinating exploration of sex & hypocrisy.

De Sade is considered the ‘sort of” founding father of sadism but his philosophy really concerns the nature of morality and hypocrisy. So, here are some words of wisdom from the Master - the Marquis de Sade…

On Women
To the young maidens of the world, wrest yourselves free from the tyranny of virtue, and taste without shame the pleasures of the flesh. Male power lies in the clench of a fist, but a woman’s power lies elsewhere, in the velvet cavity betwixt her thighs.

I’ve already told you: the only way to a woman’s heart is along the path of torment. I know none other as sure.


Statue of the Marquis de Sade in the town of Lacoste, France. Placed there by Pierre Cardin.

On Vice
In order to know virtue, we must first acquaint ourselves with vice.

It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure.

No kind of sensation is keener and more active than pain; its impressions are unmistakable.

Sensuality was ever the dearest to me of all my possessions. All my life, I have bowed down before its idols and always wished to end my days in its arms … try to forget, as I do, the vain sophisms of superstition and the stupid errors of hypocrisy.


On Morals
All universal moral principles are idle fancies.

It is not my mode of thought that has caused my misfortunes, but the mode of thought of others.

Social order at the expense of liberty is hardly a bargain.

What is more immoral than war?

My manner of thinking, so you say, cannot be approved. Do you suppose I care? A poor fool indeed is he who adopts a manner of thinking for others!

Donatien Alphonse François de Sade 2 June 1740 – 2 December 1814

On Lust
Lust is to the other passions what the nervous fluid is to life; it supports them all, lends strength to them all ambition, cruelty, avarice, revenge, are all founded on lust.

Lust’s passion will be served; it demands, it militates, it tyrannizes.

Sex is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other.


Image by Man Ray ‘Monument à D.A.F. de Sade’. The surrealists movement viewed de Sade as an ideal of freedom.

On Religion
Put aside your prejudices, be a man, be human, have no fear and no hope. Abandon your divinities and your creeds which have never served any purpose save to put a sword into the hand of man. The mere names of horrible gods and hideous faiths have caused more blood to be shed than all other wars and scourges on earth. Give up the idea of another world, for there is none. But do not turn your back on the pleasure in this of being happy yourself and of making others happy. It is the only means Nature affords you of enlarging and extending your capacity for life.

Religions are the cradles of despotism.

On God
There is no God, Nature suffices unto herself; in no way hath she need of an author.

The idea of God is the sole wrong for which I cannot forgive mankind.

To judge from the notions expounded by theologians, one must conclude that God created most men simply with a view to crowding hell.


Tomer Hanuka’s cover for the Marquis de Sade’s Philosophy in the Boudoir

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