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The English Mansion’s Femdom & Kink Dictionary

I’m thinking hard here about new entries…
The English Mansion’s Femdom & Kink Dictionary
Edging: Where a sub is brought to the edge of orgasm, then denied release, usually done over and over again.
Newbie: Someone new to BDSM, not derogatory.
Subspace: The natural high a bottom may experience during an intense physical, psychological or emotional scene.
Subdrop: An emotional and physical low, experienced by submissive individuals after an intense scene. It begins anywhere from a few hours to a few days after the endorphin high and can last for hours or days.
Topping from the bottom: Where a submissive or bottom attempts to manipulate the Top in an attempt to gain attention or to have their own needs met, for ex. intentionally misbehaving in order to be punished.
Vanilla: a) Person who is not in the BDSM/fetish lifestyle. b) Anything not involving kinky activities, for ex. a vanilla job. c). Behaviour which does not encompass kink activity for ex. vanilla/straight sex).
Service: Acts, chores, or labour, sexual or otherwise performed by a sub for the benefit of a Dom.
Hard Limit: An activity or context for an activity that is considered completely off-limits.
Safeword: A word serving as a prearranged and unambiguous signal to end a BDSM scene or scene activity.
Uxy: A submissive husband (as opposed to slave or sub.) (Taken from uxorious – having or showing a great or excessive fondness for one’s wife.)
Vituperess, Vituperation, Vitupe: An expert practitioner in extreme verbal humiliation/ extreme verbal humiliation/ to verbally humiliate. (Taken from vituperation – using bitter and abusive language.)
Florentine: A elaborate flogging technique involving the use of a flogger in each hand. The floggers are then swung in a figure-8 pattern.
Tourist: A sub who visits prodoms only once, no matter the quality of the session, so to be able to claim knowing all the dommes in an area. (Not to be confused with a sub who will visit a few dommes until he finds one compatible with himself.)
Bunny: Someone who bottoms for a demo, for ex. a rope bunny, wax bunny or bondage bunny.
Compersion, Compersive: Pleased or aroused (instead of jealous) when one’s partner has sex or is receiving sexual pleasure from another person.
Jerk Circle: When a group of males all stand in a circle and everyone jerks the person on either the right or the left of them.
Feminatrix: A domme who focuses on training Xdressers and TVs. (This may have been coined by Lady Nina Birch to describe herself with regard to her favoured activities.)
Consensual non-consensuality: A mutual agreement that within defined limits, or subject to a safeword or other restrictions (and common sense), consent to activities is given without foreknowledge of the exact actions planned. For ex. a capture scene.
Iggy: A slave who enjoys public disgrace or public displays of his submission. (Taken from ignominy – public shame or disgrace.)
Minnie Mouse (or Mini): A young sex worker who decides she’s a dominatrix. (Mouse did imply a lack of confidence but it came from the notion she only probably only owned a plastic whip and a leather ‘mini’ skirt. “Mee-ow!”)
Wannabe: Someone who thinks or claims to be knowledgeable about BDSM, but is not. Especially prevalent with new dominants.
Ino: (pronounced ee-no) A kinkster who insists to be addressed in a way related to a D/s role (such as Misstress, Goddess, or even slave), but avoids ever acting in the role. Essentially “all talk”, from acronym for “In Name Only”.
Dollification: The process of transforming into a mindless living doll.
Sissygasm: An ejaculation from anal stimulation, usually while Xdressed.
Vore: A fetish in which people fantasize about devouring a living being alive, or being devoured alive.
Lobcock: A flaccid penis. This is actually 18thC slang but we should bring it back! (Originally a lobcock was a man who was lazy at work.)
Frottage: Rubbing of the body or usually the penis against a person for arousal.
Blue Balls: Slang term, not medical, refers to the pain someone feels in their scrotum from prolonged sexual arousal without ejaculation.
Scene: a) A pre-planned time and space where BDSM activities take place. A scene may occur at a club or some other play space and may or may not include sexual activity. b) ‘The scene’ is also used by BDSM community to refer to itself.
Edge Play: A scene that takes you to the very edge of your psychological limits, often using fear as a tool.
So above are a few old and new femdom related terms I’ve been creating and collating. I want to produce an extensive list for a future blog, so new additions are welcome in our comments section. (Click on this blog’s title and see the section below to leave a reply).
The Secret Network Pt3: Whiplash Towers
The English Mansion On Tour
Within the realm of femdom there exists a secret network of dominant woman around the world. Powerful ladies who behind closed high walls are using men as human stress toys, for cruel experimentation or re-educating them into obedient, willing slaves of superior females. The English Mansion has been on tour visiting some of these clandestine, private chambers, clinical rooms and dungeons; giving our Members a singular peak inside all of these magnificent residences. Plus of course a front row seat of the real femdom action taking place within them.
The Secret Network Pt3: Whiplash Towers
Whiplash Towers
Next up is Whiplash Towers the fabulous abode of Mistress Nikki Whiplash, one of the UK’s premier dominatrices and lifestyle dominas. Nikki is a stunning looking ex model, slim and ultra feminine. A capable and experienced prodom she operates from Whiplash Towers her private, fully equipped, high-spec chambers. Her playspace is extensive and impressive with many different environments, including dungeons, cells, domestic and medical areas.
Sunk beneath Whiplash Towers are a number of subterranean prison cells, including a tiny floor cage which leaves the slave totally exposed and at the mercy of his Mistress. Also at the perfect height to appreciate his Mistress’s sharp high-heel boots and shoes.
Mistress Nikki Whiplash
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Intelligent and imaginative Nikki has a natural talent for role-plays and will easily immerse you into the fantasy. She is also is an expert at CBT especially ballbusting, face sitting and is an enthusiast anal invader. Inside Whiplash Towers it’s easy to feel intimidated by the vast number of enormous dildos and strapon cocks she has on display.
And yes, we should mention shoes as Mistress Nikki has a self-confessed shoe addition and has a huge collection of fetish and designer high-heeled shoes. So get ready to knee down and kiss the ground she walks on.
Mistress Whiplash is a prodom based in South East England, UK but has many on-line femdom connects and clip stores.
Visit her website here: www.mistresswhiplash.co.uk
Twitter: http://twitter.com/nikkiwhiplash
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You can get a little peek inside Whiplash Towers and all the exclusive intense action right now in Tease & Denial Pegging and Subterranean Pain Cell both now showing inside The Mansion.
See also:
Pt1 The House of Sinn
Pt2 The Practice & Fallen Angel Dungeon
Sexual Use of the Slave – Femdom Sex
Sexual Use of the Slave
More Musings from MSVB
For me the act of domination is in itself a sexual one driven by my sexual needs and desires. The act of a man giving himself to me, suffering for me and totally submitting himself to my every whim is incredibly *hot* and erotic. To humiliate, to inflict slow sensual pain, to use and the pure act of owning a slave is in itself is erotic. In my fantasies (and fortunately for me also my reality as I have a few personal slaves) slaves exist for me to use as my sexual toys. This begins with an extensive training program where they are taught the art of pleasuring their Mistress – how to massage me, how to suck on my toes, how to kiss and nibble at my fingers, how to caress my body, in short how to worship my entire body and most importantly how I like to be brought to orgasm.
One of my personal sexual fantasies is using or fucking a man while he is in complete bondage – just taking him for my pleasure, possibly in a leather body bag or strapped down tightly to a bondage bed. I like to set to work teasing him into erection – an easy task with any man, then I can use him thoroughly, for as long as I wish. I’ve always had a preference for sex with a man once he is in some way subdued, he must be submissive and passive or strapped down. I think that’s where my love of extreme bondage comes from.
I also have a thing for hooded slaves, the way it turns my victim into a faceless being, that exists only for my pleasure. This arouses me not only on a psychological level but also on a more base level – as I just love the feeling of a tight leather hood between my thighs. This fetish connects with my love of bondage that encompasses complete sensory deprivation; as once in this state the slave becomes merely an object, a sex toy for my pleasure.
Chastity v Milking
Interestingly, I have found with all the slaves I have trained that the key to really controlling them is always one of two options. Either to keep them in a state of complete denial through chastity devices, bondage etc (with occasional release after prolonged tormenting) or to keep them constantly drained with an intensive milking program. Both turn my slaves into obedient boys focused on my pleasure. With either styles of control my slaves are trained to never orgasm without direct permission.
You can come and find out, up close, how I use my personal slaves inside The English Mansion…
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