House of Denial: One Device Two Stories – The Cellmate Chastity Cage

Posted on 19/05/2020 by Mistress Sidonia

Mistress K & her Cellmate locked boy slave D


One Device Two Stories
The Cellmate Chastity Cage

Mistress K
I’m a dominant woman who takes the lead in the relationship with my kinky partner, slave D. Controlling his sexual desires is part of our day to day life together and play sessions. I often have him locked in chastity for set periods or when he is away for work. So when through another FLR couple I heard about the Cellmate chastity cage, a remotely controlled chastity device I was intrigued. Instead of the usual and awkward padlock and key method, the cellmate uses a push in locking pin that can only be unlocked with the click of a button on a phone app.

A chastity device controlled by an app! This would be perfect, I wanted to get my boy locked up and try it out ASAP. The manufacturer claims you can unlock the wearer from anywhere in the world. I thought I’d start a little closer to home and began by releasing him while I was at work. It worked no problem across what is quite a long distance. It was only a test though I made him lock himself right back up again.

The app itself was relatively inconspicuous on my phone and the interface itself is simple – you can even sync up a number of devices if that’s your particular poison. For this reason I have recommended it to a few pro-domme friends as it simplifies having all those keys to negotiate! It’s also quite a thrill to see my name down as the Keymaster, against the name of my sub as the Wearer.

The sub is able to send you a request to approve the unlock or you can choose to unlock them. When my kinky partner slave D sends me a begging request I love knowing his fate is at my whim. You can also view a full history of every time you’ve unlocked your sub or they’ve requested to be unlocked – key if you want to use that for any play related punishments…

Using this device has been totally *hot*. I love having total control over his locked up cock 247 and now I have the added security that it can be removed no matter where I am. Keys can be lost and there can be times when a device needs to be removed and you aren’t together. The Cellmate just gives me total piece of mind. It also means I’ll be able to extend the periods I lock up slave D 🙂 I’ve also been reassured by other wearers and the company that it has built in safety measures, the lock automatically opens when the battery reaches 15%. So no embarrassing calls to the fire brigade then!

The Cellmate Chastity Cage

Slave D
My dominant kinky partner, Mistress K has always required that I am in chastity for her pleasure, often for long periods. She has locked me many different cages over the years including the popular CB-6000 and Holy Trainer devices, along with a number of stainless steel cages. Generally I’ve had positive experiences, but a number of comfort issues have come up. Back rings with hinges on them are easier to put on, but they can also pinch when your skin gets caught in the small gap. So when she produced this new remotely controlled device, my biggest concern was how comfy it would be to wear for long periods. The Cellmate is covered in a soft neoprene cover over the lightweight polycarbonate cage. It was perfectly comfortable and once I was wearing it I very quickly forgot that it was there.

Well… except of course on the first few nights which brought about the usual night time erection issues, but after they subsided it’s been fun having Mistress K control my cock via the app. I’ve requested to be unlocked twice for a thorough cleaning in the shower and they were both granted with the app unlocking the pin in seconds. However, other requests have not. I await at her pleasure, as always.

When locking me into a new device Mistress K has a ritual where I must candidly let her know about how secure it is after wearing it for a short period. I honestly proffered up to her that the two metal rings provided fit securely into the cage and offer very little room to move. While the gap between the cage and ring where your testicles hang is small, so there’s no chance I can remove it. Security is rightly foremost to Mistress K’s approval of the device; but as the wearer how discreet it is to wear is central to me. The Cellmate sat tight to my body when worn under my clothing, so not likely to be noticed for daily wear.

The House of Denial

We both recommend the Cellmate: the app works giving you control 247; the cage is comfortable; it’s secure and discreet. Plus we can’t wait to hear how it benefits other wearers and keyholders. There’s a community section where you can contact and discuss topics with other like-minded people on the app. It will particularly suit anyone in long distance FLR/BSDM/kinky relationship or keyholders who don’t live with their slaves.  This includes pro-dommes and masters with clients around the world.

You can buy a Cellmate and many other chastity cages from House of Denial, a UK based company that Mistress K & slave D have been running since 2016.

Visit House of Denial here

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The Secret Life of a Dominatrix & Netflix’s Bonding

Posted on 13/05/2020 by Mistress Sidonia

The Secret Life of a Dominatrix

Professional dominatrix, Miss Ria Harpiscord explains the truth behind her job in an excellent article in the on-line magazine Healthister. Read the article here


Netflix’s Bonding

The release of Bonding, a Netflix drama, is another factor in the rise of interest in prodominas. Tiff is a grad student in New York City who is moonlighting as a dominatrix but her job is a business, not a pleasure. When she reconnects with former high school BFF Pete, a recently out gay man, she recruits the cash-strapped man to be her assistant. The hilarity ensues…

The Scene’s reaction to the series has been hotly debated and very  mixed. Many from the real-life community felt it offered a negative view of scene play with no consent, communication or real connection. And that this is unfortunately, is how the media always portrays BDSM. That it damages the the reputation of the dominatrix and prodom with it unsafe practices and encouraging of stalking. Others felt it does act to demystify the scene and make it less threatening to the mainstream.

I guess I feel, Bonding should be viewed as related to actual prodomming in the same way as Brooklyn Nine-Nine is to actual policing! The criticism, however, has made Netflix bring in some real dominatrices as consultants for the second season.

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So What Is Figging?

Posted on 01/05/2020 by Mistress Sidonia


So What Is Figging?

Figging is the practice of peeling and then carving a piece of ginger root into a convenient shape to insert it within a bodily orifice. Most commonly the anus but also the mouth, vagina or urethra. Slowly the oils from the ginger create a warming and then slight burning sensation that builds for about 30 mins. It’s a moderately intense, uncomfortable sensation which doesn’t injure the body in any way.

A Very Ancient Practice

Figging has been around since the ancient Greeks who inserted a variety of objects into ‘bodily openings’ as both an erotic practice and a punishment. They used radishes, garlic and ginger. Indeed, rhaphanidosis is the act of inserting a radish into the anus, it is mentioned by Aristophanes as a punishment for adultery and promiscuity in the fifth and fourth century BC.  Figging was of course taken up by the Victorians as a humiliating chastisement to add to their arsenal of cruel endeavours.  While today we have the expression to ‘ginger up’ meaning to make someone or thing more lively. This derives from ‘gingering’ the barbaric exercise of putting ginger root into a horses’ rectum in order to make it more feisty and thus more valuable before a sale.

Making An Insertable Fig

To make a fig for erotic BDSM consensual play, you first need to choose a largish piece of root with which to carve out a dildo or butt-plug shape. Make sure the peeled ginger is smooth, with no rough patches or edges. Usually an unpeeled part of the root is left protruding out, acting as a handle for easy removal. However, former cordon bleu chef Mistress Evilyne (left) has come up with her very own, unique way to make a ginger butt-plug for a bit of good-ole figging! So enjoy this wonderful instructional clip. Not only will you learn something new but you’ll be enticed by the super sexy, sultry tones of Mistress Evilyne’s mesmerizing voice; and a bit of singing 🙂

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 Figging Play Suggestions

* Often after a long CP session when the bottom is already roasting hot, a ginger fig is inserted into the anus as a final act of punishment.

* A circular piece of ginger can be placed inside the mouth before tape or an over-the-mouth fabric gag is used as a cruel addition to being silenced.

* Let your slave take you out to dinner with one of Mistress Evilyne’s insertable ginger plugs inside him. You can enjoy his squirming while enjoying your dinner.

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Pansy Ass Ceramics

Posted on 24/04/2020 by Mistress Sidonia

Gloryhole Candle Holders

Pansy Ass Ceramics

It was Mistress Evilyne who brought my attention to these adorable – cute, kitsch and wonderfully subversive ceramics. Objet d’arts – some with very practical applications: candle & incense holders, mugs and… well who wouldn’t want a butt-plug vase. There’s definitely a nod to Jeff Koons and guerrilla artist Richard Ankrom here.

Pansy Ass is the work of  Canadian, Toronto based Kris Aaron and Andrew Walker. Together they explore gay male culture through the medium of porcelain ornamentation juxtaposing it with Granny’s traditional favourite china. They have exhibited some amazing work at exhibitions but here I’ve only featured items from their on-line store, many very reasonably priced. Check out their website here.

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Tongue Slaves: ‘Do As You’re Told’ Pussy Licking

Posted on 18/04/2020 by Mistress Sidonia


Tongue Slaves:
The Art of ‘Do As You’re Told’ Pussy Licking

There are many guides on the internet advising men how to lick pussy. The advantages of being a domme woman is that my slaves don’t need to worry their pretty little heads about any of that.  Hooded and collared on a chain leash, all my simple male slaves have to do is stick their tongues out, relaxed and flat. Like cute little gimp bimbos. While I use the chain lead to guide that tongue where I want it.  I’ll bark out instructions as to anything else – they don’t need to think, just do!  I will just grind myself onto their face when I’m close.

As a domme you don’t have to worry if their tongue is aching, their jaw is tired or they can’t breathe, sex slaves are there to serve.  Plus I usually keep them in tight chastity as it’s important for their Pavlovian conditioning that they learn to focus on my pleasure and orgasms. I don’t want them getting any pleasure for themselves they must learn my pleasure is their pleasure.

One of the benefits of femdom or women taking the lead in the bedroom means they can get sexually exactly what they want, like and importantly what makes then cum – from their partner/slave/sub/pet.

So tongues out boys, here are some examples of how we turn men into obedient pussy lickers here at The English Mansion…

You can use the arrows on the top left of images; or your keyboard arrows to scroll through the gallery.

(So, ‘Pussy Licking’ it is not an expression I like but other than cunnilingus or oral sex which don’t  work, all the other alternatives are far worse. We have a paucity for nice words/expressions for sexual acts they are either revolting slang or medical jargon.)

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So What Is An F.L.R.? Female Led Relationships Pt1

Posted on 13/04/2020 by Mistress Sidonia

Lovely Lady Nina is taking a firm hand in this FLR


So What Is An F.L R.?

F.L.R stands for Female Led Relationship – an intimate personal relationship where the female partner has control over the male. The nature of this power dynamic can range from only affecting certain facets e.g. in the bedroom or decision making; to total command over all aspects of the partnership.

As feminists and gender equality activists have started to dismantle and challenge traditional social hierarchies, we’re beginning to see an increase in the amount of women and men who are openly pursuing female led relationships. Women want to take the lead and men are seeking strong, capable women.

Traditionally men have held this authoritative role within relationships, households and families but today with the constraints removed many women are finding the leadership role natural to them. And not just in relationships but for entire nations. From single mothers to intelligent business women to heads of state, women are quickly proving to men that they are just as competent. (At the time of writing this, female heads of state are incumbent in: Brazil, Germany, Bangladesh, Norway, Jamaica, Argentina, South Korea, Denmark & Poland. In the last 2 years: UK, Romania, Namibia, Iceland, Peru, New Zealand, Singapore, Serbia  – far too many to mention them all).

So it’s good news for both sexes as it means men no longer need to project a machismo and take on all the pressures of being providers. While it’s liberating for alpha women, (who unlike men – who are perceived as natural leaders, were seen as overbearing and bossy,) as they now can embrace their strong intelligent personas. People irrelevant of their sex can act in accordance with their own nature without fear of social stigma.

Madame Caramel is a true exponent of an FLR with her boy Joris always at her beck & call ~ Visit her website here

FLR & Femdom

It’s important to recognise that FLRs exist on a spectrum. Here at The English Mansion and within the world of femdom we are primarily interested in exploring its furthermost position. FLRs have direct parallels with the 247 or owned slave BDSM dynamic and can be the basis for a sub/dom paring or even marriage. (They probably just have less rubber & leather and no need of a dungeon.)

Femdom FLRs are where the woman takes total control and makes all the decisions in her relationship. She probably won’t work instead her partner/husband will provide and cater to her every need, worshipping her like a goddess. Sexually she will take strict command in the bedroom, making and training her partner/husband to serve her sexual needs. Chastity devices, enforced feminisation and cuckolding may play an important part of this training.

Note: What FLR isn’t

a)  It isn’t an abusive relationship but one agreed on or one that just naturally works;
b)  it isn’t one that resembles a mother/child dymanic, it’s a healthy adult relationship;
c)  and it isn’t an ongoing exhausting power struggle.

If you’d like a peak at a femdom FLR take a look at these recent English Mansion films: WLR Wife Led Relationship, Wives Take Charge & Your Bitch Wife.

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