LOCKtober

It’s October, the trees are turning beautiful shades of yellow and auburn. Halloween will soon be upon us but there is another lesser known autumnal tradition embraced by the kinskster world – Locktober.  Locktober?  Well, it’s when a man wears a chastity device for the whole of October.

Yes, a glorious 31 day non-stop caged boner, chastity play month! It started as a shared online social media event in the vein of Stoptober (no alcohol for the month).  Ideally suited for femdom though also adopted by the gay scene, Vanillas and even some submissive girls.  It can be a self imposed restriction acting as a personal challenge or enforced by a dominant onto their charge. In this case the key must be handed over meaning there will be no cheating! Dommes then have the added pleasure of knowing that they can mercilessly tease and deny their boys over & over & over and there will be no sweet release.

It’s not just a BDSM sex game, it has deeper psychological aspects, it’s akin to a kinky version of Lent.  Submissives are giving up something they enjoy to gain better clarity to a greater power – the keyholder, even if only for a month.  It is during this month of denial and abstinence that real insights can be gained about a person’s sexuality, determination and self control.  What have you done non-stop for 31 days that you had absolutely no control over?

While from a larger feminist perspective it hopes to change long held male attitudes to sex (basically sex is much more than just satisfying a cock, something kinksters have known about for quite sometime).  As it acts to focus all that unspent sexual energy into pleasing the woman in their life.  Hopefully expanding what the huge spectrum of sexual interaction can embrace.

So if you’re all locked up this October let’s add to your torment and frustration by teasing you with just a few of the chastity play films all currently showing inside The English Mansion.

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