The English Mansion’s Femdom & Kink Dictionary

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The English Mansion’s Femdom & Kink Dictionary

Edging: Where a sub is brought to the edge of orgasm, then denied release, usually done over and over again.

Newbie: Someone new to BDSM, not derogatory.

Subspace: The natural high a bottom may experience during an intense physical, psychological or emotional scene.

Subdrop: An emotional and physical low, experienced by submissive individuals after an intense scene. It begins anywhere from a few hours to a few days after the endorphin high and can last for hours or days.

Topping from the bottom: Where a submissive or bottom attempts to manipulate the Top in an attempt to gain attention or to have their own needs met, for ex. intentionally misbehaving in order to be punished.

Vanilla: a) Person who is not in the BDSM/fetish lifestyle. b) Anything not involving kinky activities, for ex. a vanilla job. c). Behaviour which does not encompass kink activity for ex. vanilla/straight sex).

Service: Acts, chores, or labour, sexual or otherwise performed by a sub for the benefit of a Dom.

Hard Limit: An activity or context for an activity that is considered completely off-limits.

Safeword: A word serving as a prearranged and unambiguous signal to end a BDSM scene or scene activity.

Uxy: A submissive husband (as opposed to slave or sub.) (Taken from uxorious – having or showing a great or excessive fondness for one’s wife.)

Vituperess, Vituperation, Vitupe: An expert practitioner in extreme verbal humiliation/ extreme verbal humiliation/ to verbally humiliate. (Taken from vituperation – using bitter and abusive language.)

Florentine: A elaborate flogging technique involving the use of a flogger in each hand. The floggers are then swung in a figure-8 pattern.

Tourist: A sub who visits prodoms only once, no matter the quality of the session, so to be able to claim knowing all the dommes in an area. (Not to be confused with a sub who will visit a few dommes until he finds one compatible with himself.)

Bunny: Someone who bottoms for a demo, for ex. a rope bunny, wax bunny or bondage bunny.

Compersion, Compersive: Pleased or aroused (instead of jealous) when one’s partner has sex or is receiving sexual pleasure from another person.

Jerk Circle: When a group of males all stand in a circle and everyone jerks the person on either the right or the left of them.

Feminatrix: A domme who focuses on training Xdressers and TVs. (This may have been coined by Lady Nina Birch to describe herself with regard to her favoured activities.)

Consensual non-consensuality: A mutual agreement that within defined limits, or subject to a safeword or other restrictions (and common sense), consent to activities is given without foreknowledge of the exact actions planned. For ex. a capture scene.

Iggy: A slave who enjoys public disgrace or public displays of his submission. (Taken from ignominy – public shame or disgrace.)

Minnie Mouse (or Mini): A young sex worker who decides she’s a dominatrix. (Mouse did imply a lack of confidence but it came from the notion she only probably only owned a plastic whip and a leather ‘mini’ skirt. “Mee-ow!”)

Wannabe: Someone who thinks or claims to be knowledgeable about BDSM, but is not. Especially prevalent with new dominants.

Ino: (pronounced ee-no) A kinkster who insists to be addressed in a way related to a D/s role (such as Misstress, Goddess, or even slave), but avoids ever acting in the role. Essentially “all talk”, from acronym for “In Name Only”.

Dollification: The process of transforming into a mindless living doll.

Sissygasm: An ejaculation from anal stimulation, usually while Xdressed.

Vore: A fetish in which people fantasize about devouring a living being alive, or being devoured alive.

Lobcock: A flaccid penis. This is actually 18thC slang but we should bring it back! (Originally a lobcock was a man who was lazy at work.)

Frottage: Rubbing of the body or usually the penis against a person for arousal.

Blue Balls:
Slang term, not medical, refers to the pain someone feels in their scrotum from prolonged sexual arousal without ejaculation.

Scene: a) A pre-planned time and space where BDSM activities take place. A scene may occur at a club or some other play space and may or may not include sexual activity. b) ‘The scene’ is also used by BDSM community to refer to itself.

Edge Play: A scene that takes you to the very edge of your psychological limits, often using fear as a tool.

So above are a few old and new femdom related terms I’ve been creating and collating. I want to produce an extensive list for a future blog, so new additions are welcome in our comments section. (Click on this blog’s title and see the section below to leave a reply).

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The Secret Network Pt3: Whiplash Towers

The English Mansion On Tour

Within the realm of femdom there exists a secret network of dominant woman around the world.  Powerful ladies who behind closed high walls are using men as human stress toys, for cruel experimentation or re-educating them into obedient, willing slaves of superior females.  The English Mansion has been on tour visiting some of these clandestine, private chambers, clinical rooms and dungeons; giving our Members a singular peak inside all of these magnificent residences. Plus of course a front row seat of the real femdom action taking place within them.

The Secret Network Pt3: Whiplash Towers

Whiplash Towers

Next up is Whiplash Towers the fabulous abode of Mistress Nikki Whiplash, one of the UK’s premier dominatrices and lifestyle dominas. Nikki is a stunning looking ex model, slim and ultra feminine. A capable and experienced prodom she operates from Whiplash Towers her private, fully equipped, high-spec chambers. Her playspace is extensive and impressive with many different environments, including dungeons, cells, domestic and medical areas.

Sunk beneath Whiplash Towers are a number of subterranean prison cells, including a tiny floor cage which leaves the slave totally exposed and at the mercy of his Mistress. Also at the perfect height to appreciate his Mistress’s sharp high-heel boots and shoes.

Mistress Nikki Whiplash

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Intelligent and imaginative Nikki has a natural talent for role-plays and will easily immerse you into the fantasy. She is also is an expert at CBT especially ballbusting, face sitting and is an enthusiast anal invader. Inside Whiplash Towers it’s easy to feel intimidated by the vast number of enormous dildos and strapon cocks she has on display.

And yes, we should mention shoes as Mistress Nikki has a self-confessed shoe addition and has a huge collection of fetish and designer high-heeled shoes. So get ready to knee down and kiss the ground she walks on.

Mistress Whiplash is a prodom based in South East England, UK but has many on-line femdom connects and clip stores.
Visit her website here: www.mistresswhiplash.co.uk

Twitter: http://twitter.com/nikkiwhiplash
All Links Here

You can get a little peek inside Whiplash Towers and all the exclusive intense action right now in Tease & Denial Pegging and Subterranean Pain Cell both now showing inside The Mansion.

See also:
Pt1 The House of Sinn
Pt2 The Practice & Fallen Angel Dungeon

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Sexual Use of the Slave – Femdom Sex

Sexual Use of the Slave

More Musings from MSVB
For me the act of domination is in itself a sexual one driven by my sexual needs and desires. The act of a man giving himself to me, suffering for me and totally submitting himself to my every whim is incredibly *hot* and erotic. To humiliate, to inflict slow sensual pain, to use and the pure act of owning a slave is in itself is erotic. In my fantasies (and fortunately for me also my reality as I have a few personal slaves) slaves exist for me to use as my sexual toys. This begins with an extensive training program where they are taught the art of pleasuring their Mistress – how to massage me, how to suck on my toes, how to kiss and nibble at my fingers, how to caress my body, in short how to worship my entire body and most importantly how I like to be brought to orgasm.

One of my personal sexual fantasies is using or fucking a man while he is in complete bondage – just taking him for my pleasure, possibly in a leather body bag or strapped down tightly to a bondage bed. I like to set to work teasing him into erection – an easy task with any man, then I can use him thoroughly, for as long as I wish. I’ve always had a preference for sex with a man once he is in some way subdued, he must be submissive and passive or strapped down.  I think that’s where my love of extreme bondage comes from.

I also have a thing for hooded slaves, the way it turns my victim into a faceless being, that exists only for my pleasure. This arouses me not only on a psychological level but also on a more base level – as I just love the feeling of a tight leather hood between my thighs. This fetish connects with my love of  bondage that encompasses complete sensory deprivation; as once in this state the slave becomes merely an object, a sex toy for my pleasure.

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Interestingly, I have found with all the slaves I have trained that the key to really controlling them is always one of two options. Either to keep them in a state of complete denial through chastity devices, bondage etc (with occasional release after prolonged tormenting) or to keep them constantly drained with an intensive milking program. Both turn my slaves into obedient boys focused on my pleasure.  With either styles of control my slaves are trained to never orgasm without direct permission.

You can come and find out, up close, how I use my personal slaves inside The English Mansion…

 

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Alpha Femmes ~ New Mansion Dommes 2021

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New Dominas Coming to The English Mansion in 2011

We have three very different leading ladies making their debut at The Mansion in 2021 ~ Mistress Sandra, Mistress Terra & Domina Sara – Medical Mistress. Each enjoy toying with men and have their own unique style of domination.

At the English Mansion we have no fixed rules about what constitutes femdom – it can be empowering, psychological, worshipful, sexual, fetishistic or downright sadistic with infinite other permutations. We give dominant women, switches and our dominatrices a free rein and let them just indulge in what they most enjoy.X

Mistress Sandra
Mistress Sandra is a natural born domme – beautiful, feminine and lifestyle, with lush waist-length blonde hair.  Easily captivating those in her presence, she loves to push her boys to take all she wants to give out.  Training them to obediently serve her needs.  This lady’s enthusiasm, sense of fun and exuberant glee for all things kink is apparent and she often breaks into laughter.  She’s a prodom based in central London, UK who specialises in CP, CBT, encouraged bi, strapon, smoking and slave training.
Mistress Sandra– More Information & Links Here

Mistress Terra
Mistress Terra is a stunning, sexy, statuesque dominant woman who looks like a centrefold, with a revealing rubber wardrobe that compliments her perfect 10 body.  Her entrancing beauty makes men weak, they easily fall at her feet surrendering all control to this alluring domina.   She loves cuckolding, encouraged bi and strapon.  She is a prodom based in central London, UK but also currently has one of the biggest fetish followings on Only Fans.  So you know where to go if you want more.
Mistress Terra – More Information & Links Here

Domina Sara – Medical Mistress
Domina Sara is a gorgeous, elegant and lifestyle dominatrix.  A strict no-nonsense Lady, she’s a capable, experienced and knowledgable prodom. With a extensive career as a BDSM professional practitioner who now specialises in fetish medical sessions.  Her facility is probably one of the best equipped medical themed playrooms in the UK with an endless array of milking machines, rubber wear, rebreathe kits, electrical devices, hoods and bondage beds. Based near Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England, UK.
Domina Sara – More Information & Links Here

You’ll be seeing more of them at The English Mansion very soon…

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Homage to Sardax ~ The Doyen of Femdom Art

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Sardax ~ The Doyen of Femdom Art

Sardax is an English artist based in London who specialises in female dominance. His illustrations and artworks offer a unique vision of a femdom utopia, inhabited by beautiful goddesses, who unrestrained by reality, can literally use and abuse the men and slaves that serve them – anyway they wish! But more than that, they capture and embody the spirit of the divine feminine and female power in all its beauty and infinite varieties. Often with a touch of droll humour thrown in. His style has morphed through many phases, typically he uses pen & ink and watercolours, more recently digital art methods, yet one can always recognise his unique style.
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I’ve been exceptionally lucky to have seen a great deal of Sardax’s work up-close i.e. in hard copy. I’m even honoured to have a few framed on my walls; and while I don’t mean to deride artwork on the web, it does reduce it on many levels. The web is where most people will encounter Sardax’s work and it doesn’t do it justice, you can’t appreciate his work until you see it in the flesh (as it were) – they’re so detailed, unique and just beautiful to behold.X

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Heel Headquarters

This is the first piece by Sardax that I ever set eyes on (above), I was instantly drawn to it and enamoured by its artistry and elegance, this was a place I wanted to visit! I love the innate femininity of the Heel Headquarters building, the mystery and anonymity of the women entering, (doorways as metaphors for secrets or new possibilities…), the witty little touch of the shoe-shine boys – what goes on in there?X

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The Art of Sardax

There is no doubt that Sardax must be the most established contemporary artist in the fetish art genre in the world, with a worldwide collector base and a best selling book, The Art of Sardax (Erotic Print Society, 2006). He also produces regular artwork commissions including exquisite domme portraits; adorns book covers and is frequently featured in magazines (including Leg Show, Heel & The Governess); and in 2007, he released his first ever series of limited edition prints, Shanghai Bizarre (Obsession Art Ltd). More recently he both illustrated and translated a new version of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch’s Venus in Furs.X

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His work encompasses fantastical, magical worlds, bondage impossibilities and dark dreamscapes.

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A portrait of MSVB (moi) from The Art of Sardax book. I adore the Gothic dress, along with my innocent face, it brings Dorian Grey to mind.

I know I, like many other dommes and  the legions of loyal Sardax fans feel fortunate to have such an intelligent, multi-talented artist adding such a wealth of beauty to our world, expressed with such sincere profundity.

You can visit Sardax’s excellent and regularly updated blog & news site here:  The Art of Sardax
with info on his recent work,  commissions, where to purchase his Venus in Furs book and lots more.

Take a peek at his Alice in Wonderland series, highly recommended, my favourite being the lobster ride 😉

Also many amazing portraits of dominas, see here: https://sardaxart.wordpress.com/category/portrait/

Or follow him on Twitter: https://twitter.com/SardaxS  All images © Sardax

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A Mansion Weekend Pt1: Femdom Fiction

Mistress T, Goddess Snow & Mistress Sidonia


A Mansion Weekend Pt1

The gates of the Mansion slid silently back and I entered. They closed behind me, sealing off the rest of the world. I had been entrusted into the care of Mistress Sidonia by Mistress Valkyrie to whom I belong, for further and more intensive training than my own Mistress had the time to undertake.

After the customary greetings, joyous and effusive as ever, Mistress Sidonia led me out across the yard to the guest quarters which would be my home for the next few days. I made myself comfortable and read the letter which had been placed on the bed, inwardly digesting the instructions which it contained.

I took a long and relaxing shower, shaved and preened and once dry, presented myself on the bed in the slave position, face down, bottom up, just as instructed. Time passed; perhaps it was only a few minutes, but maybe more? It matters not as the time was filled with anticipation. The door opened, I breathed in deeply, held my breath for a few moments …and relaxed, ready for what was expected.

Mistress Sidonia spoke quietly. I was aware that there were others in the room but my face was buried in a pillow, my eyes shut. Whilst a slave may, and often does, insert his own buttplug, in my mind the act of surrender is so much more acute when the plug is inserted by the dominant Mistress. It is then she who has the choice of implement, the degree to which it is prepared and the pace at which it is embedded.

Mistress Sidonia explained that she had a choice of many plugs, ranging from the size of a small finger to the theatrically huge, the sort that would challenge an elephant. She would not start with the smallest, but one of a decent size that would stay put and not be easily or accidentally ejected. She went on to say that over the course of the days I would spend at the Mansion I could remove the plug at any time of my choosing, providing that I was unplugged for no more than 30 minutes in any two hour period during daylight hours. Most importantly though, every time I removed the plug it would always need to be replaced with the next size up – so that, if I chose to remove it too many times, by the end of my stay the plugs might become quite challenging. She, or indeed any other Mistress that I might encounter, could of course remove the plug at any time and for any length of time when they might desire the use of my anus but again, it would always be replaced with a bigger plug. It was desirable, she said, that I was stretched and ready for use whilst I was at the Mansion.

The door closed and I was left to wait, contemplating my stretching and breathing slowly but deliberately. The letter had told me broadly what I should expect next.

She was a tall, elegantly dressed woman, younger rather than older and of course, perfectly presented. She told me that she was here to prepare me and that I would enjoy the transformation – but she didn’t tell me her name, and I didn’t ask. It wasn’t I felt, in the scheme of things, that important.

We started with a shaving, from top to toe so that only my hair and eyebrows remaining untouched – they would come later. There was waxing for the more critical areas and eventually she considered me to be suitably smooth. I did fear how long that would remain the case. That was just the preparation, it would be the makeup that would take the time.

First there was a lot of foundation work to do and brows to pluck.  I chose eyelashes, and learned how to apply them so that they looked more natural. Lastly I chose red nails and painted my toenails to match.

Finally my mentor attached a net to my hair, carefully making sure that it was well anchored and would not come free. To this, the selected wig was attached and I was assured that it would not slip or move whatever I chose to do. It would be my hair, for as long as I was at the Mansion. The wig, Mistress Sidonia’s choice I was informed, was thick, layered, straight, shoulderlength and, naturally, blonde.

The makeover complete, the elegant lady pronounced herself happy with her work and I could not disagree. It seemed remarkable but definitely a look more suited to the English Mansion than the High Street. Before she left she gave me another envelope and then I was alone again. The letter told me what I should select from the wardrobe. Stockings of course  and suspenders now with the benefit of legs now shaved as smooth as glass. There were beautiful lace knickers, albeit with a rigid triangular and slightly cupped pad sewn into the front so as to prevent any unwanted erection from spoiling my profile, and a well filled bra to match. It appeared that the choice of footwear was to be mine. There were four pairs; long black lace up boots; an elegant but incredibly high court shoe with polished stiletto heel, a comparatively modest pair of Victorian pixie boots; and a pair of pornstar heels. I chose the court shoes, not knowing exactly what was to be expected of me in the coming hours. With my feet clad the transformation was essentially complete and I expected it to remain so until I left the Mansion.

I noticed that my watch was gone, and also that there were no clocks to be seen. It was not yet dark but I needed to remove the butt plug. I set a timer that had been provided and assumed that it would chime when the 30 minutes respite was up – and probably ring an alarm somewhere in the Mansion that others would hear. My letter of instructions said that I would find fresh butt plugs in a frosted glass cupboard to the left of the bed. There were five, numbered five to nine. I imagined I was wearing a number four. Five looked only marginally bigger and I could barely tell any difference as, when the time came, it slipped easily home. I had little time to contemplate the rest and to wonder if number nine was the largest – I doubted it as it wasn’t significantly greater in girth than the one I was now wearing. How many plugs to could there be? Would number ten be a stepchange in scale?

Without chance to contemplate such matters a buzzer sounded and I knew that was my signal to open the door to the right of the bed and enter into the room beyond. It was time to complete my dressing.

I stood before the assembled Mistresses and a spotlight shone on me. In the dim light of the room I recognised Mistress Sidonia of course; another Mistress whom I knew; the lady who, wearing elegant street clothes, had orchestrated and educated my transformation but was now uniformed in thigh boots and a corset as a Mistress amongst her peers; two Mistresses I recognised from The Mansion but had not previously met; and two who, like the transforming Mistress, were unknown to me.

It was the taller of the latter who stepped forward and prodded me with her crop. She made it clear that I should turn and even I understood the unspoken command. What were they to make of me? Broadly satisfied I deduced, especially with the results of the makeover conducted by their colleague – it was only the base material that they were inclined to criticise, but as I have said, there is only so much that even the most skilful artist could achieve. What was missing however were the final touches. The tall Mistress was holding a corset.

The Mistress indicated that I should turn away and she held the corset open for me. Unseen hands held me whilst the laces were tightened and retightened in succession. Each tightening left me more and more constricted. The Mistress seemed to have endless strength pulling me ever more tightly in. I wondered if I would faint from lack of breath before she stopped but eventually she seemed satisfied that I now had a possibly credible figure. She assured me that it was both good for me, that I would remain corseted whilst I was at the Mansion and that indeed I would become used to, and crave, the constrictions it created. I was not likely, or in any way inclined, to doubt her wisdom.

A grey satin fitted blouse allowed the spotlight to play off my newly found and wholly false shape together with a soft leather skirt falling modestly a little above the knee, black and with a zip up the front. As one of the Mistresses observed, perhaps more to me than to her colleagues: we are entitled to access to her clitoris at any time of our choosing…

I was turned to face the ensemble. Overall the Mistresses again appeared to approve of their work and I was relieved that my choice of footwear seemed appropriate to the occasion. It seemed that the Mistresses now wished to enjoy their own pleasures.

One of the Mistresses I recognised approached me and unzipping the skirt half way, deftly hooked down my knickers just far enough to allow her hand to cradle my balls. She twisted sharply and I winced as her nails dug into me. I held my balance and held my breath, my teeth gritted. She squeezed my cock which stood readily to attention. She observed that a severe beating would banish such excitement.

I was turned and ordered to spread my ankles. An ankle bar was fitted to hold me in position and the back of my skirt raised. Hands smacked my cheeks, then flexible paddles followed by hard wooden equivalents. A hand felt between my legs and found the butt plug. It pulled gently and my anus yielded its content. I heard Mistress Sidonia say that the plug was size five – not the one she started me with. A voice whispered in my ear that I was a good girl, nice and clean. Another said that she hoped I was ready.

The crops rained down hard on my arse. I gritted my teeth and remembered to breathe slowly and deeply. I knew I could deal with this, and remain balanced on my heels. The blows ceased and two Mistresses set to with floggers beating me alternately – the stokes taken through the corset hurting just as much as those that caught my exposed shoulderblades.

When the beating ceased I felt fingers circle my anus, cool and sticky with lubrication. The tool entered me, the unseen Mistress pushing it slowly in as far as it would go until I felt the full weight of her body pressing against mine. She pumped three or four strokes and withdrew. I felt a hot breath on my neck. Teeth bit my ear lobe. You should be pierced whispered a voice in my ear – I hoped she meant my ears and not anything more intimate…The tool re-entered me. It took but a stroke to realise that it was a different strapon. A different Mistress, shorter than the first, the angle different. Then it changed again. Fingernails dug into my cock and balls. Hands caressed my breasts. A voice wondered if I could take both cocks at once as I was such a slut? It was Mistress Sidonia who said that my training had only just begun – the Mistresses should be patient.

The cocks were withdrawn. Each Mistress took turns with a cane, each blow being counted in chorus by the other Mistresses until finally they decided that they were satisfied, or tired or bored…or perhaps all three. I knelt at the feet of each in turn and thanked them for their pleasure and for the opportunity they had granted me to serve as their slut.

Mistress Sidonia explained that she had one last treat. Even though it was now after dark, as I had enjoyed two cocks my next butt plug should be number seven. I might remove it after an hour, before sleep, but in the morning it would be time for number eight. Number seven slipped in very easily, I kissed Mistress Sidonia’s hand and slipped away through the door whence I had first entered the Mistresses’ presence.

On waking to an alarm, which seemed to stop as soon as I got out of bed, I noticed another envelope that had been posted under the door in the night. It contained some useful instructions for the day which it suggested I should memorise.

After a shower and a head to foot shave I knelt to insert number eight. I took a deep breath and released it slowly so as to relax. Number eight was beginning to be as large as I felt I could comfortably accommodate and it seemed so much larger than the plugs of yesterday after a night of relaxation.

To be continued…

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