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100 Femdom & Kink Terms Pt2
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The world of kink has many of its own specific terms, many that are now recognized by the mainstream. Lesser known is the realm of Femdom, which has its own hidden erotic language or jargon, this is not so widely understood. So here in this glossary are some familiar kink classics plus some unique femdom argot. Oh and Kinksters do love an acronym!
100 Femdom & Kink Terms Pt2
♣ Orgasm Control ♣
JOI/Jerk Off Instruction: Where a sub is instructed and guided through masturbating or jerking their own cock, e.g. fast/slow; stop/start.
Ruined Orgasm: During a handjob a Domme will let go of the penis either just one second before the climax, or immediately after the 1st spurt. This will both ruin the orgasm and prevent the sub from continuing to enjoy being aroused by dissipating all the sexual build up.
Chastity: Where a sub is prevented from touching, masturbating or orgasming, save at the whim or choice of their partner. Usually achieved by means of a metal/plastic cage-like device that is locked on. The state of chastity can be a temporary state for a few hours or days; or can be lifestyle where chastity is maintained over extended periods. The person with the key becomes the Key Holder. It can act to focus the wearer on giving sexual pleasure/service rather than receiving it; or be used as part of the general control of a sub.
♣ Scene Dynamics ♣
Cuckolding: When consensually a man’s wife has sex with other partners, sometimes in front of him. In femdom we also have slave cuckolding where the slave’s Domina may engage in sex with another partner/slave/other woman as a means of humiliation.
Uxy: A submissive husband, as opposed to slave or sub. (From the adjective “uxorious”.)
Vituperess: An expert practitioner in extreme verbal humiliation. (From the adjective “vituperative”.)
SPH/Small Penis Humiliation: Extreme verbal humiliation of the male genitalia. (Has no bearing on the actual size.)
Role-Play: The improvised acting out of a pre-determined scenario.
♣ Play Activities ♣
Florentine: A elaborate flogging technique involving the use of two floggers (or specialist ball or finger-floggers), one in each hand, used simultaneously. The floggers are then swung one after the other in an interlocking figure of 8 pattern. It’s both elegant to watch and highly rhythmical to feel.
CBT/Cock & Ball Torment: Play causing extreme sensations to the male genitalia, e.g. electric cock rings, ball weights etc.
Mummification: Immobilising the body by wrapping it up, usually with multiple layers of tight thin plastic sheeting, for e.g. clingfilm. The face/mouth/nose mst be left uncovered. Purpose made leather/latex/nylon body bags may also be used– these may include straps/buckles to enable the slave to be restrained/suspended or vacuum bags where the air is evacuated to form skintight restraint.
♣ Kinks & Fetishes ♣
Turned Bi: A sexual fetish in which a straight man is encouraged to perform sexual acts with another man. This can be as a humiliation or entertainment. (It has no bearing on their sexuality.)
Dollification: The process of transforming into a mindless living doll. Usually using masks and feminising body suits. Also Bimbofication: The process of transforming into a mindless ultra feminine bimbo using exaggerated hyper feminized make-up and clothes. The change is not just external but used to create an heightened ‘mindless’ submissive state and eager to please demeanour.
Pup/Puppy Play & Ponyboy/Pony Play: Where a sub chooses or is made to act like a puppy or pony. This can be part of an extreme dehumanisation or to become a cherished but powerless pet. With special training/obedience required. The sub’s mindset may be that of a man being treated/humiliated as a lowly animal or they ‘become’ the dumb animal.
Ball Busting: The kicking, punching, squeezing and crushing of the male testicles by a woman.
Footjob: Similar to Handjobs, but involves using feet rather than hands to rub and stimulate the genitals. Likewise for: Shoejob, Bootjob, Glovejob.
Frottage: Rubbing, usually the penis against a person for arousal. A non-penetrative way to feel pleasure by rubbing body parts together for sexual stimulation – often may be two subs made to rub their cocks together as a means of humiliation. (From the French “frotter” to rub.)
Vore: A fetish in which people fantasize about devouring a living being alive, or being devoured alive. Often connnected with Giantess fetish. (From the Latin “to swallow, devour”.)
Findom/Financial domination: A D/s fetish where a sub (known as a $lave, finsub, paypig, human ATM or cash piggy) will give gifts/money or be ‘rinsed’ by a Findom, a financial Domina. He accepts his meagre lot, suffering and working for her, while she enjoys a lavish lifestyle. It’s also a way of paying homage, usually from afar, to elicit attention, usually humiliating, from an (often young), beautiful woman.
100 Femdom & Kink Terms Part 1:
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