My homemade animal capture & control pole – another element to the humiliation, a leash that keeps the slave at a distance & tighter under my command
I have always preferred slaves that need a little breaking, I like the challenge, a kind of BDSM chess. Each slave is unique and so the psychological triggers required to induce a deep submission must be carefully suited to them. Humiliation is a good example, as what one slave finds embarrassing or humbling will be quite different from another.
Humiliation is an important tool for slave training as it induces a state of powerlessness and lowliness without the need for pain or bondage. I also find humiliation sexually exciting and arousing and the more mortifying for the slave, the more my pleasure increases.
If you go down to the woods today, you’re sure of a big surprise 🙂
Planning cruel torments for my slaves is also a hugely erotic experience for me, trying to find the ultimate humiliation and degradation best suited to them – that I can then make them submit to for my amusement. One slave was ‘Turned Gay’ and was only permitted to wank and cum to male gay pornography – this was achieved by keeping him in chastity for long periods beforehand ensuring his libido could be easily manipulated. (See Here)
So *hot* leaving my slave to his fate…
Another who was easily embarrassed was dragged out at night to a local cottaging and dogging woodlands and left tied in extreme bondage, face in the dirt, arse raised up on display for anyone to use. I enjoyed writing ‘Free Entertainment! Help Yourself – Please Use’ on his backside 🙂 I then left him for a few hours to his fate…
Mistress Sidonia, you are to be commended for providing more bicycle-parking possibilities in the woods 🙂
Something occurred to me today about Western Femdom videos vs those from Japan. There is of course much commonality. They both feature boot-licking, pegging, trampling, all the usual things. However, one thing you rarely see in western femdom is the Japanese practice of “Denki Anma”. Denki Anma is where a woman holds a mans legs while he is laying on his back and vibrates her foot (either bare or with boots etc) on his crotch with varying degrees of severity.
Denki Anma occurs very frequently in Japanese femdom videos and typically there will be several mistresses wearing different footwear and they sort of go round in a rotation, each taking a turn at Denki Anma.
It seems to be one of those activities which is straddling the line between pleasure and pain and how pleasurable/painful it is depends of course on how it is applied. I think we poor westerners have been missing out 🙂
Here is an example from Japan in case anyone is curious:
http://www.boots-yakata.com/archives/kkk-030.html
Hahaha we do need more stands 🙂